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Yeah I could see that working back then because like you said before awhile back, only about 5% of young men were sexless in the early 2000’s and today its up to 30%. So there’s less pity for sexless men as there was several years ago, but unfortunately it seems that the stigma of a man not...

Yeah like I said, this question is all hypothetical and I just wanted to get predictions since I would never mention this in my OLD bio. But I still can’t get past the mindset that a guy being inexperienced is pretty much a death sentence to his dating prospects, even though people on here have...

I’m not doing this, I posted this because I was wondering what everyone here would think the results would be. But I think that even when they ask about it and you’re honest, they can still get turned off and end it with you.

Just logged back in here for the first time in over a month. So I thought I’d bump this thread and give an update. I finished and passed my first class for the certification program I’m in, and I’ve also been working a couple days at a time with my uncle’s business when he needs an extra hand. I...

For the record, I am inexperienced since I’ve never had a gf or dated anyone at 29. I’m not a virgin though since I had a ONS 7 years ago. I’m not saying that I would do this myself, I made this thread because I was wondering what everyone’s predictions are on what would happen. I actually got...

Not a troll, I'm being 100% honest I know its hard to believe that a man could let himself slip so far, but I have unfortunately. I've heard that when women have experience (almost all do by my age group) they can pick up on a guy's inexperience and he doesn't even have to mention it because...

Yeah some of it is. I never even knew that SS was around in 2006, its been around longer than I thought! I've noticed that, around 30% of guys in my generation are sexless and its becoming more and more common for guys to be sexually inactive. I think this is due to a variety of reasons such...

That's a very good point that I haven't given much thought to before. If that happens, you're pretty much obligated to stay and then you're stuck. You'll find yourself even further delayed in building a life and identity for yourself, so it definitely is important to get out and make a life...

I would say that I definitely do need to distance myself from my parents, but not for problematic beliefs. More so because its stopping me from growing as a person and I've found that regardless of your age, your parents stay up in your business and that definitely holds you back in adulthood...

#1 My whole state is expensive, so I need to move out of state and I'm not opposed to that #2 My trade is not a conventional trade and I'm skeptical, see my other reply #3 I could probably do golf or a bowling league. The bowling alley by my house has a light up sign that literally says join a...

Thanks everyone for sharing your thoughts on my post. I want this to be a blanket reply, but I'm gonna do some individual replies too, I just didn't wanna clog up the thread with a bunch of my replies. Seems that most of you have said I need to focus on the other things first before trying to...

Well I'm probably gonna do Instacart and Doordash for now while I'm in school and then get a job when I'm done with school. I am in school to learn a trade. I had a gym membership years ago, but I never went and it was a waste of money so I think I'm better off working out at home and at this...

I'm in, hopefully this will keep me accountable because I have a very bad porn addiction to the point where I can't even have sex since I'm so used to porn and can't even get it up with a girl, despite having no problem with that when I'm watching porn. I don't live alone and I'm gonna be...

I've felt this way for the past few months after leaving my most recent job. The first instance of this that I can point to is 2 years ago when I got a job at a grocery store that was a part of a union. My parents were telling me that I can make a career out of working there and that I can...

This is my first time posting in this section of the forum and I thought I'd give it a try to see if theres's a difference in perspective compared to the general section. So I am 29 and I have never had a girlfriend, also never dated anyone either. The only exceptions to this is a date that I...

That’s good to know, thanks. I know that finances and independence are both pressing issues for me, that’s why I’m gonna be doing what I explained to SW15 and going back to school to get a better paying job and in the meantime, still work part time as well. Maybe I should aim higher than single...

I’m unemployed right now, so I definitely can’t monetize a 10 or 9 even when I start working part time. By the 8s and 7s I’m guessing you mean that they’re still with their bf’s that they met in college, I’m guessing that even if they were broken up from them, they probably wouldn’t go out with...

I do want a high-value woman, but I feel like I shouldn’t be too picky to start out because I remember telling you before on another thread that I’ve never dated before and have no experience. I feel like most high-value women won’t be interested in a 29 year old inexperienced guy, so I just...

I agree, hopefully by me going to school and working part time that some of them will understand, I’m sure there will still be women who will write me off for it though. Yeah it probably won’t be, I live in a state where weed is legal so I was gonna try to get a part time job at a dispensary or...

Thanks you guys for sharing your thoughts on this. I’m glad to hear that it actually is true about fall being a great time of the year to get dates and I would like to hit the scene hard for sure, but I feel like some changes need to be made before I do that because my SMV is very low since I’m...