63% of young American men are single while most women in the same age group are in relationships

[corrector]

This is simply how the animal kingdom works. The leader of the tribe/pack/group gets access to all the top females and the other males get the table scraps.

Humans may be more intellectually advance but at the end of the day we are still animals.

Depends on the species of animals. Bears are like that. Ducks, not so much.

 

[needimprovement250]

Just like I told you in your other threads. You are not alone as you are part of a majority. You should feel good about these facts.

Yeah I can see that now. But I did not expect the number to be that high, that’s just 2 points away from a supermajority, which is 65%. It shows that there’s a supply inequality when it comes to young singles since this report showed that only 34% of young women are single and looking for a partner, with 50% of young men in the same situation. That means that there’s 16% more single men than women, which makes dating even more competitive for men and probably inflates women’s standards even higher. While it is good to know that I’m definitely not alone when it comes to being in this situation, this is a real problem that I feel like society is just looking the other way at. As time goes on, I can totally see this creating more incels and MGTOW’s

 

[needimprovement250]

My thoughts? We're steadfastly approaching a collapse of western society and if people don't see this is as an issue that concerns me. (we've already collapsed in my eyes)

This divide between men and women is growing and if we look at trends it will only continue this direction. More men will become redpill and view women in an entirely different light like we are already seeing. The majority I imagine will move further towards MGTOW ideology consciously or not. So many men have already 'given up' and I only see that getting worse with time unfortunately. I pity them

Enjoy the decline and get yours I say....
Embrace the brokenness of it all and take advantage of it. Know your worth and don't drop your standards for the delusional and entitled masses. Stay away from those that take on the victim mindset, they will only bring you down further as water finds its own level. It is what it is and it will probably only get worse. The pendulum will not swing backwards to a pre sexual revolution world.

Also, in a way I think a man who would rather stay home and whack it is a 'loser', but at the same time I understand why they don't even bother with dating. Most modern young women are not worth a relationship, the same can be said for a good chunk of men.

I think you’re right when you say that this is a step towards the collapse of western society. The US is already so divided these days that it wouldn’t surprise me at all if we see a growing division between men and women in the coming years. The social commentary in what you said reminds me a lot of the latest episode of South Park. I don’t know if you or anyone else on this thread watches that show, but last week’s episode poked fun and Prince Harry and Meghan Markle and also featured Kyle and Butters going to this business called Come Hammer to make their personal identity into a brand and every brand featured “victim” as a part of it. The whole victimhood thing has taken over western society and its doing a lot of damage. At the end of the episode, they realize that’s whats wrong with most people these days, they try to make themselves into a brand that will be popular on social media instead of being an actual human being.

 

[thermodynamic]

USA is a harder place for men than a third world country. In Mexico its the women that have to stay in shape. Life is too easy here. WOmen do not need men for much other than "dating" they can earn a living and stay safe on their own.

 

[needimprovement250]

Stop listening to Breibart.




You will find the same people who sponsor Breibart are also the same people who own said porn sites. They are projecting porn site stats on the rest of the country.

Also college women are not more educated just for going to college. They are still dumb as hell. They just say the same stuff with a bigger vocabulary and more annoying technical terms.

"You're gaslighting me."

"That's an ad hominen."

It wasn’t just Brietbart who reported on this, several other media outlets did as well. Brietbart was just the first one I heard about this from. What sponsors of theirs are owners of porn sites and what sites do they own? This is the first I’m hearing about porn site owners being involved with Brietbart. I never said that they were more educated, in a lot of cases they aren’t. What I meant by that is a lot of them hold themselves in a higher regard because they went to college and got a degree and look down on men who didn’t. So they aren’t smarter, its more that their ego got too inflated from attending college.

 

[Stanley]

I think you’re right when you say that this is a step towards the collapse of western society. The US is already so divided these days that it wouldn’t surprise me at all if we see a growing division between men and women in the coming years. The social commentary in what you said reminds me a lot of the latest episode of South Park. I don’t know if you or anyone else on this thread watches that show, but last week’s episode poked fun and Prince Harry and Meghan Markle and also featured Kyle and Butters going to this business called Come Hammer to make their personal identity into a brand and every brand featured “victim” as a part of it. The whole victimhood thing has taken over western society and its doing a lot of damage. At the end of the episode, they realize that’s whats wrong with most people these days, they try to make themselves into a brand that will be popular on social media instead of being an actual human being.

Haven't seen it, but south park's commentary and satire was always on top of things and ahead of trends.

 

[thermodynamic]

Also college women are not more educated just for going to college. They are still dumb as hell. They just say the same stuff with a bigger vocabulary and more annoying technical terms.

"You're gaslighting me."
"That's an ad hominen."

WORD. most of them are too stupid even for those terms even while in college.

 

[needimprovement250]

There are plenty of men today who would have been off the market in previous generations who are having significant issues on the market.

Yep, there are men today that would have little to no issues with finding a woman to date back in the 70’s, 80’s, and 90’s but are struggling big time in today’s dating world. OLD and social media has just inflated women’s standards so high because they have a constant stream of validation from simps and they also have more options than ever when it comes to choosing a partner with women getting more matches than they can count in just the first day on OLD, not to mention all the guys trying to slide into their DM’s on social media.

 

[SW15]

Even among 30-49 year olds, there are more single men than single women.

Six out of 10 young men are single — the disturbing reasons why

New Pew Research Center data has found that 63% of men under 30 nowadays are electively single and experts have revealed the disturbing reasons why.

nypost.com

Better Bachelor has a good analysis of this too.

 

[Smok1nAce]

well i jumped on a few swipe apps this week and seen nothing but fat, tattooed low quality women.

so its either compromise myself or stay single.

 

[kavi]

Stupid article. Porn has nothing to do with men not wantin a relationship. What dumbass would think that porn and real relationships are even comparable lol.

And to think that men are so shallow that they would replace relationships with porn is the retardedness that is breitbart and insecure women who think men would be giving them even more attention were it not for porn, as if young men arent wanting relationships or sex.

 

[patb]

Women share the top guys. Evolutionary biology is old news.

If only there were a way to curb antisocial biological impulses. If only...

 

[patb]

My thoughts? We're steadfastly approaching a collapse of western society and if people don't see this is as an issue that concerns me. (we've already collapsed in my eyes)

This divide between men and women is growing and if we look at trends it will only continue this direction. More men will become redpill and view women in an entirely different light like we are already seeing. The majority I imagine will move further towards MGTOW ideology consciously or not. So many men have already 'given up' and I only see that getting worse with time unfortunately. I pity them

Enjoy the decline and get yours I say....
Embrace the brokenness of it all and take advantage of it. Know your worth and don't drop your standards for the delusional and entitled masses. Stay away from those that take on the victim mindset, they will only bring you down further as water finds its own level. It is what it is and it will probably only get worse. The pendulum will not swing backwards to a pre sexual revolution world.

Also, in a way I think a man who would rather stay home and whack it is a 'loser', but at the same time I understand why they don't even bother with dating. Most modern young women are not worth a relationship, the same can be said for a good chunk of men.

You note that this is rotting the soul of Western Civilization, then exhort everyone to contribute to that rot, shaming those who don't as "losers." This is why TRP is as much a part of the problem as anything.

 

[patb]

Stupid article. Porn has nothing to do with men not wantin a relationship. What dumbass would think that porn and real relationships are even comparable lol.

And to think that men are so shallow that they would replace relationships with porn is the retardedness that is breitbart and insecure women who think men would be giving them even more attention were it not for porn, as if young men arent wanting relationships or sex.

They'll always find a way to blame men. They'll never face the truth. Like some posters here, they'll deflect from those actually at fault (women and society) and pass their dissembling off as a "hard truth," simply because it's mean. Veiling their petty bullying and gaslighting in righteous language is the stock and trade of our betters.

 

[patb]

This is simply how the animal kingdom works. The leader of the tribe/pack/group gets access to all the top females and the other males get the table scraps.

Humans may be more intellectually advance but at the end of the day we are still animals.

The way these "leaders" are selected and perceived is utterly flawed. If they actually had to put up or shut up for their completely unmerited positions, a certain ecological balance would be restored. What we have presently is the worst of all worlds, with all the inequities of the jungle but without its rough justice.

 

[RangerMIke]

And the irony is, some of those friends are not exactly happy being married lol. Life is a trip.

Married people remind me of a bunch of people in a Conga Line, yelling at you to jump in and 'enjoy' the fun. Truth is they all look like idiots.. and get mad at you when you say you are NOT joining in like a mindless dolt. When you refuse to join in, you are attacking their identity. Truth is I only know a couple of men my age that is not jealous of me.... all their wives hate me.... and on occasion I'll be at a party with friends and one of these women will grab my @ss.

They are not jealous of my dating life, they resent the fact they do not have any freedom.

 

[patb]

Its pretty clear that having a successful dating life is a primary virtue here. Did you not pick up on that?

This is also not a normative group, it is a positive group. I.e., we focus on what is and not what we wish it to be.

In that case you should be pleased that men are dropping out -- less competition. But some posters around here just can't help themselves -- they just have to posture and preen.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

The way these "leaders" are selected and perceived is utterly flawed. If they actually had to put up or shut up for their completely unmerited positions, a certain ecological balance would be restored. What we have presently is the worst of all worlds, with all the inequities of the jungle but without its rough justice.

Adapt or die. Throughout history these type of things happen. What is viewed as "valuable" changes. You either adapt to it or you cry your eyes out at night wanking it.

 

[patb]

Adapt or die. Throughout history these type of things happen. What is viewed as "valuable" changes. You either adapt to it or you cry your eyes out at night wanking it.

That's a tough-guy varnish on eating **** with a smile. Always roll over. Always do the monkey dance. Keep running in the cheese maze. Never have a spine. Never aspire to anything better. Definitely don't think about collective action or subverting their made up rules.

 

[kavi]

If only there were a way to curb antisocial biological impulses. If only...

Well the plate-spinning has been going on for a while so why is this a surprise anyway.