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come on guys, i need a bit more guidance than this...my objective isn't to necessarily get girls while i'm here...its to just to, well grow up a little and stop being such a wuss this fear i have is not normal so i want to overcome it, as i suspect travel is going to be a big part of my career...

Hi guys Im here alone in the UK for two weeks for work, and i've got to seize this as my opportunity to change. i dont know anyone here, apart from a few guys at work that i met for the first time, but i want to get over my social phobias of approaching people so what should i do??

ah forget it guys, it was only one girl, not worth the hassle i'm gonna read through pug's 100 approach journal, and i might give that a shot as a way of getting over my approach anxiety

well that was a waste of time, one i found i have no interest in her, but i became painfully aware that i have no game so can i ask you guys for some advice? 1. she started talking about marriage (one of the several big turn offs for me) and about how her parents were pressuring her to get...

well her interest is definitley there - i was at her house at a party she was throwing, got on very well with her friends (to the point where one of them was indirectly asking for my number and vice versa as soon as my target left, hilarious!!) she's the one who asked me out for this coffee...

alrighty boys, same girl as before (for those who remember) meeting her after work for a coffee, and if things go well maybe even for dinner my plan in the coffee shop is to sit right next to her so i can get my kino on, but other than that, haven't thought much any tips or advice?

bump...any other pieces of advice?

can't get drunk i'm afraid, its a pool party during the day any other suggestions?

i'm usually the guy who goes to these things and seeks out a few people i already know and then cling to them for the rest of the night but no more! i dont know anyone at this party so how do i approach this? i just want practice at socialising, and a few numbers here and there is bonus...

yeah but this is a party at her house, full of other girls who would presumably look at least as cute as her...

so that girl i met at the christmas party has invited me to a party she's holding this weekend, but i can't remember what she looks like! i was thinking i'll ask her to a coffee before that, just one on one, and reacquaint myself with her thoughts?

hmmm, actually slightly bigger problem...i can't really remember what she looks like, and i dont know anyone else there.... how the **** do i handle this??

a question about etiquette at this party, is it rude for me to actively try and get other girls' numbers there? what if it gets back to her that i did so?

holy ****, she just forwarded me the invite list, and its like 80% female! its gonna be a baptism by fire baby, the best learning experience i've ever had only problem is, her email address suggests she's 28, and i'm 23...i'm open for a FB type of relationship, but i doubt she would be. she...

alrighty boys!! i made the phone call, and damn she asked me to come to a christmas party she's holding this weekend (i didn't even get the chance to ask her out, cause she wouldn't stfu!!) she said she hopes i will come and she said we can talk some more this weekend, and i can meet her...

i guess i didn't mention this, but we're both leaving work in january next year, (going our separate ways of course) - but bloody hell, shows how inexperienced i am, it didn't even occur to me that dating someone in the workplace could be a bad idea, even though i already know it.... my aim...

any ideas as to how to handle the phone call?

i can relate very much to this. sometimes when i'm around my friends i get into this funk where i just get completely turned off talking about the same old **** that i've talked about for years i'm trying to improve my life, taking up new hobbies, making new friends, and trying to make my...

thanks, great advice! cause we're coworkers, i was thinking of just meeting up for lunch, (but maybe should just do coffee first) but my worry is, if we're sitting across from one another, how can i get some kino in? i noticed that i wasn't really able to lean across the table apart from a...

boys!! had our company christmas party tonight, and i fking did it!! i saw this sexy babe sitting at a table on her own, (minding the bags of her friends) and i did my first real approach. i was already pretty liquored up ( styill am hahah) but had to try three times cause of my weak pansy...