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OMG ! Today I drove to the town and there stands before me : .... I was blown away, wanted to walk away, but she asked me to have a cup of coffee with her. I accepted. We sat there and cuddled and kissed each other and it was - as always - just wonderful. I told her I´m crazy for her...

ok, I met her and gently told her that this is not acceptable for me, because I´m in love with her. She was insecure, and I really think, it´s a 50 - 50 game. But nevertheless: no calls, no dates until she has made her decision. She has to feel that this is a big : NONO. You are right, we...

Hi Guys, I don´t know what to do, please give me your advise... I´m no "pickupartist" by any means but I can approach girls and do it with modest success. Splitted up with my g/f in june after a ltr that lastet about 1 1/2 years and got to know different girls at the same time. I fell...

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Hi Guys, I don´t know what to do, please give me your advise... I´m no "pickupartist" by any means but I can approach girls and do it with modest success. Splitted up with my g/f in june after a ltr that lastet about 1 1/2 years and got to know different girls at the same time. I fell in...

When I was on a way to my date, I always kept thinking about how to behave or what to say etc. Reading stuff on sosuave.com or the DJ Bible about beeing ****y and funny and bla bla did´nt fix it for me, because I ended up thinking about strategies and such things making me even more insecure...

I´m in ;) Hey dudes ! I´ll join you in your 'lean period' ... For glory and honour. Day3 for me. feeling a little more powerful. cu soon

#7 was a good looking doctor´s receptionist at a psychiatrist, I visited this week. I made some jokes about her. It was a really relaxed and easy going convo. Finally, I wanted to ask for her email, but she didn´t show up again.

#6 I talked to a sales-woman at a perfumery asking her for a good flavour that would match me best. We talked for a short time. Then I made a funny comment and she laughed a little. I left, with 2 ideas of my new flavour. #7 I took some dance lessons this week with no idea who should be my...

#5 during this weekend, talking to a girl in a local club, getting her phone#. We had a short convo, then I asked for her #, saying that I´d like to meet her. I was a little drunken, often resulting in not 'knowing' what to say, early, so I just "left to join my friends again". greetings...

I´m still at 4 convos with good looking women for week 3. I still don´t have the right "mindest" approaching a girl that I´m interested in. But it slowly gets better every approach. Reading Mr. Fingers "Weapons of Mass Seduction" ->great handbook for me ;). I will return with results soon...

Week#3 #2 : today, I decided to get a new haircut and visited a new coiffeur. My hairdresser was a ok - looking, but a little shy woman. I opened with : "Hi, How are you?", during the haircut we had a nice conversation, her telling me some things about her. Before saying goodbye, I asked for...

Week#3. Yesterday (saturday), I really had to fight to get into action. Often I suffer from lazyness. But, after work, I went to the city to start some convos with women. Soon, I ran into 2 girls saying "hi" to passing goodlooking men (like me ;) ) and I went over to them to talk to them (hey...

Ok, week#2 is completed now. Hope, I can remember the convos. #8 some girls at tabletennis - training, I talked to for a while, we had some fun during the training, but a group of girls can be really arduous for a man .... #9 there was an "public festival" here (roller coasters, shooting...

Ok, today cloudy sky. Didn´t want to do bootcamp. It happened by accident, when I was going to collect a friend at the trainstation. two girls, young, sittings there, I : "Hi, how do you do?" (again in german, of course;) ). They irritated : "we are fine". Asked for the next train. They...

Yesterday, rained like hell so I decided to chat. Met a girl on the net. Because I was bored I asked her if she did the evening. No, so I met her at some bar and talked with her for couple of houres without any breaks or moments of silence. Hey ! not bad ! Let´s do a race, budy ;)...

yes, you are right. I´ve written this post in a bad mood. Today, I see things more clearly, like when talking to these 2 *****es, who refused to do smalltalk and just hanging around them and acting as I was part of their group ;) ... taking action directly leads out of depression ...

Often, when I read the cool articles of this site, I have to fight with contradictions like "be cool to the girl, control you emotions" vs "just be a man, do what you WANT", you get what I mean ? I´m single right now and have been for a long time. I have to admit that I´m still confused. At...

I forgot ! I absolutely recommend "the 6 pillars of self esteem" from Nathaniel Branden to you ! It could solve most of your problems. It contains excercises you can use every day. This book was recommended to me by this forum, too.

Hey Jariel. I think I Have a starting point for you. a little excercise you could do and see how you feel. Go to a crowded place with many people walking hectic around. Good would be a shopping street. Walk with the speed of the crowd (Most people will have very likely the same speed). Then...