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simply smile and act like its no big deal.... like it happens all the time !!!

:crackup: yeah exactly.. surely you have buildings where u live that you can bring her somewhere indoors ??????

think your in the wrong section her mate !!

theres always that small element of nervousness when approaching someone but its no big deal IMO.... its more excitement than dread coz u know she will probably be all yours soon enough....

i dont always go for the approach after 3 seconds but i know that if i dont have the balls to do it in 3 seconds if i wanted to, then my confidence levels arent where it needs to be....

nice !!!:up:

as i said in my intro in the discussion area: was in a LTR for 4 years and needed to rebuild my old confidence so i got back in 'training' so to speak !!

exactly mate.. this has been the way it is since the beginning of time.. just look at wildlife shows.. the male chases the female.....

swingcat gives good advice man... he talks about framing your surroundings so u feel completely at ease with where u are...... its useful for beginner DJ's who are intimidated by their surroundings

my interpretation of it is that if your in a relationship u see loads of hot girls and u wanna be single, but if ur single u miss havin a girlfriend... hence, no matter what side your on the grass always looks greener on the other side..... did u ever stand in a field and look over into the...

i agree.. they may fade but it wont take as long to get where u used to be !!

i cant believe this guy is asking for advice on how to fight and some people are actually giving it to him !!!!:eek: if he asked how to defend himself thats fair enough ! but obviously theres a motive here ! i've studied kickboxing and Kenpo and as other martial artists have already said on...

a dragging up old scars are we ?? fair enough, my worst in recent memory would have to be when i met a girl at a club... bout a year ago.. we kissed a few times on seperate nights and the 3rd time i asked her out on a "date" (corny i know) and when she said "hmmmm. i dunno ?" i got all...

my god some of these are classics..... i like to say "why ? do u need something to calm your nerves ??"

i disagree mate.. its all about their status.....women feel they have to prove themselves coz of who they are... not coz of their inner game...come on, tobey maguire with inner game...:D

my advice would be for you to sit tight.. your doin ok..she obviously likes you.. dont call her though for about a week or so.... if she hasnt called you by then ( i think she will) if she hasnt, THEN give her one more call and act indifferent on the phone... tell her you hope she had a good...

ok.. i just read evreyones replies and until i saw from one of the lads that shes CHEATED ON YOU i was going to say somethin constructive but THERE'S NO POINT... mate, you need to get out of this one.. shes not worth it.. trust me mate the sooner u start to get over her the better !!!

thanx for the compliment mate.... its my 1st day so i'm not too sure how good the general forum is , but hopefully i can pick up something.. what i will say i that i am not as good as i could be (nowhere close ) so i am always open to any suggestions that are thrown out there...

saturday nite so after doing ok on friday nite i decided to REALLY push the boundaries, so i suggested to a friend that him and i go to one of the most exclusive bars in the city.. where beautiful (but very vain) women spend their nites hanging out, and heres what happened: standing at the...

yeah mate i totally agree... to be honest i was happy enough with that, as the whole weekend was more of an experiment than anything else to see if this stuff actually works.... i was always quite decent with C&F and it kinda comes naturally (not to blow my own trumpet).. i think where i need...