Dude thats another psyop. In America, 27 is considered old bc you're used to normies marrying their highschool sweethearts and guys in their 30s and 40s so clueless wit women that all they attract are warn out roasties in their age groups. The truth is that you have plenty of time to capitalize on ur potential and get a nice young girl.
Im not gonna lie, cold approaching is a big effort. I almost dont have any other hobbies it feels like cuz of how much volume i have to go thru before finding anything substantial but that said its such a great skill. I can instantly walk into a room and pick up on cues many cant.
This is getting less common.
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This is true. The typical 30s/40s man in the mating market is a pussie beggar who settles for some subpar to mediocre woman close to his own age.
yeah I was saying that more so bc sounds like OP is in a small town in the midwest or something AKA not target rich environment where things might be done closer to the old way but good infoThis is getting less common.
The median age at first marriage is 30.4 for men and 28.6 for women in the USA. Very few high school sweethearts are marrying anymore. Additionally, few college-formed relationships survive more than 3-5 years beyond graduation.
.Median Age at First Marriage, 2021
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Good point. I've spent my post-college time in 2 of the 15 most populated US metros. This is likely something that has skewed my perspective of the mating environment.
So is the answer to look abroad? Doesn't seem like I'd be able to date foreign women without living in another country. Right now I'm stuck here until I get the money from inheritance so I can buy land, and right now I'm not sure where to go. Back in 2019 I was in Austria for a semester. It was a good experience and I became quite familiar with that country, but I didn't meet any girls while I was there. I'd like to try European women for once but I'd have to go abroad if I wanted to meet any and I'm not the sort of guy that can meet girls easily. I'd have to go to whatever country and swipe on dating apps for months if I wanted to meet anyone. But like I said I got no career and I've never really had a job either, and having to manage all the stuff associated with moving abroad is so overwhelming to me that I wouldn't know what to do if I wanted to do that. Because I'm a German citizen I can live in the EU without restrictions, but still it would be a huge task to move my entire life over there. But there's a lot of things about America that I really don't like
I live in a suburb of the capital city of a midwestern state
Again, Austria would not be first on my list at all. Just try snowbirding, 6mo here and 6mo there or some other similar type combo. U dont have to make one big decisive move but the answer is definitely to go abroad 1000%.
Deff not target rich. Anything except Miami, LA, and NYC (NYC really trumps miami and LA by a factor of 20x) is basicville. Finding foreign gems is very tough. Solution: stop looking for needles in a haystack and go where the crops grow all year round
Where would I go then? Czechia, Hungary, Slovakia, somewhere along those lines? Been to Hungary and Slovakia before but only for a weekend each. My favorite country in Europe is Liechtenstein, been there twice but it's very difficult to move there even if you're a German citizen such as myself. It's also pretty expensive there but not as much as Switzerland. Either way countries in the German speaking part of Europe are a lot more familiar to me. But like I said I'd have to be in whatever country swiping on dating apps every day for months on end for me to be able meet any girls there.
I mean that sounds all good but it'd be a huge undertaking. Having to travel thousands of miles away just to look for women. I'm already not very good at meeting women to begin with so that problem would follow me all over the world. Guys like me just have to swipe and hope
Dude seriously? Liechtenstein? It has a population of like 30,000 ppl. You'd have more chances finding a gem in an Alabama walmart parking lot then over there lol.
You're too sure of yourself. Take a risk.
Any excitement I've had about dating or trying to meet women is long gone. Hence why I made this very thread in the first place. I might be a little lazy when it comes to work but it's probably because I never really had to work in order to survive. The closest thing I have to work experience is my recording and touring experience as a bass player, but that'll never pay the bills and it's a pipe dream to expect that it ever will.
What makes those good?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Why do u say that? Are u significantly unattractive. You have no objective metric. I get what u mean though about not feeling any excitement. It sounds like your physiology is stagnant from a life of domestication due to comfort. You might physiologically be in a state of homeostasis not too different than a house plant.
They're all part of the Happsburg immigration agreement which makes them BASED countries. They are not open to the EUs style of feminism and mass immigration making the streets safe and packed with beautiful feminine white women. Feminism is not too firmly established in their culture yet. Many immigrants from Ukraine, Poland and Bulgaria and Romania go there. U might like Romania a bit more though cuz it sounds like you're a bit more alternative/introvert hippy type. Romania has a lot of gypsies and they might be more open to folk and alternative type guys.
You are not probably not good with collecting benefits either then.
All these are good points, and I do agree those countries are more based. Never been to Rumania but perhaps you got a point about it
I mean I'm pretty introverted and I'm not really that relatable to most people so that always hampers my ability to meet women. I'm not unattractive but I got more of a niche look if that makes any sense. I've been told by a fair amount of people that I look kinda like Blake from workaholics if that makes sense. Either way I've never had a way of consistently meeting women, just swiping and hoping.
