Why are men shamed for using escorts/hookers? Isnt that the ultimate dread if a guy has used them?

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

-the sex is subpar. If you know what passionate sex is like ,with a woman drooling over you , you know a hooker can't replicate that.

- I felt empty afterwards. There is still a sense of shame to it. It's not something you talk about during Christmas dinner. Although I have to admit that sometimes during dryspells I had some nice women it was a great relief. But still these are "not my proudest notches".

-during a dryspell it's a bandaid on a shot wound. Not only that, you'll *** way too quick . Even when you pay for a hour, after busting 2 nuts she'll tell you it's over. Argument with a hooker?= red button and some gorilla will kick you out. (This can happen at anytime by the way. Even when you payed and didn't had sex she can kick you out).

- to add to the last point, so you pay a 100 bucks to feck 10-15 minutes. How often can you do that? 3 times a week? 1 time a month?

This is why I think it's just an expensive form to masturbate. Sex with a hooker is nowhere compatible to sex with a girl with genuine interest in you.

 

[pipeman84]

- I felt empty afterwards. There is still a sense of shame to it. It's not something you talk about during Christmas dinner. Although I have to admit that sometimes during dryspells I had some nice women it was a great relief. But still these are "not my proudest notches".

But don't you also feel empty after you fvcked a girl who you know she has already been doggy fvcked by who knows how many other dudes? And that she had their c0cks in her mouth? And whatever she says during sex and after, she's said it to others?

 

[bat soup]

Thinking about it. It makes sense in a way that women will shame them since it removes their only power over men. Once men know the price of pvssy most women will be afraid. Therefore they shame men from using them etc.
If a woman knows a guy has used them, she is in constant dread. Thinking if she withholds sex he can just buy sex.

This is exactly why women oppose it. They want men to spend money on them in the hope of getting sex. Men won't do that if they can simply go direct.

 

[Gamisch]

But don't you also feel empty after you fvcked a girl who you know she has already been doggy fvcked by who knows how many other dudes? And that she had their c0cks in her mouth? And whatever she says during sex and after, she's said it to others?

No absolutely not.

There are like 4 billion women on this planet. Most wont like you, but when you do have mutual attraction , it can be pure and wild passion. Her past doesn't matter at that moment.

I would even say that you could meet a prostitute in a club or bar, not knowing she is one. The build up of the chase and the mutual attraction will make it a completely different experience than paying her to go through the motions.

But this is different for each man. I might feel a similar emptiness after fecking a woman below my SMV.

This is exactly why women oppose it. They want men to spend money on them in the hope of getting sex. Men won't do that if they can simply go direct.

In my post I mentioned it was from the male pov. Be careful what you wish for...

When prostitution becomes legal men might optionally have more sexual abundance, but on the other side of the spectrum you'll see women will use it as a feasible option when money is low. And "when money is low" is dependent upon ones personal lifestyle, taste ect. A woman that now works 2 jobs as a waitress or a cleaner would say feck this shyte, I can sell my v-g for a couple of months, , take a trip to Mexico and be good for the rest of the year.

Kinda like what happened with only fans, but in real life. In this era women will embrace it and they'll all think they are "high class prostitutes ".

 

[corrector]

But don't you also feel empty after you fvcked a girl who you know she has already been doggy fvcked by who knows how many other dudes? And that she had their c0cks in her mouth? And whatever she says during sex and after, she's said it to others?

There are way worst things then just empty.

 

[pipeman84]

No absolutely not.

There are like 4 billion women on this planet. Most wont like you, but when you do have mutual attraction , it can be pure and wild passion. Her past doesn't matter at that moment.

I would even say that you could meet a prostitute in a club or bar, not knowing she is one. The build up of the chase and the mutual attraction will make it a completely different experience than paying her to go through the motions.

That's Olympic level mental gymnastics you're doing there man. Nice if it works for you, I personally can't kid myself like that.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

Thinking about it. It makes sense in a way that women will shame them since it removes their only power over men. Once men know the price of pvssy most women will be afraid. Therefore they shame men from using them etc.
If a woman knows a guy has used them, she is in constant dread. Thinking if she withholds sex he can just buy sex.

I dont think it's simply a matter of price in terms of money, the issue is the price of pvssy in terms of many other things that are more expensive than money as mental health, dignity, time, effort and fairness.

Then we have the "quality" side...a man in his 50s in an average shape with 200 euros can bang for 1 hour a early 20s hottie with a 100% chance of getting laid, no question asked, no performances needed or further demands.

Is it really better for that guy to wine and dine an average woman in her mid to late 40s, walks on egg shells, put some work in his performance and self promotion for a chance to get a "prize" out of it?
Does he really get validation or emotional intimacy from the process?

That's the main issue.

Ps. I would appreciate low IQ users and posters to avoid saying that an average middle aged men can run game on a young hottie and succeed...the disney movies finished dec 25th.

 

[patb]

There are way worst things then just empty.

I’ve definitely gotten that feeling from casual sex (non paid). I don’t think a “meaningful” relationship is really in the cards, so those are the breaks.

 

[Gamisch]

That's Olympic level mental gymnastics you're doing there man. Nice if it works for you, I personally can't kid myself like that.

Just spitting facts. I met women at festivals for example, where I had no clue of her past or even her current situation at that time When the spark is there all that matters is satisfaction from both sides. When we mentally also click why the hell would I care about other D she sucked or not?

Is this about the chase for virgings again? Believe me , your brain has the capacity to get over a woman's past and enjoy her for who she is.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Ps. I would appreciate low IQ users and posters to avoid saying that an average middle aged men can run game on a young hottie and succeed...the disney movies finished dec 25th.

If these low IQ users are getting young p*ssy at their age, then that says a lot about your own iq if you can't manage the same.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

If these low IQ users are getting young p*ssy at their age, then that says a lot about your own iq if you can't manage the same.

If you believe that random users do even half of what they brag here, feel free to send me a PM cause I have a big building in Rome for you to buy!!!

 

[corrector]

Just spitting facts. I met women at festivals for example, where I had no clue of her past or even her current situation at that time When the spark is there all that matters is satisfaction from both sides. When we mentally also click why the hell would I care about other D she sucked or not?

Is this about the chase for virgings again? Believe me , your brain has the capacity to get over a woman's past and enjoy her for who she is.

That is not spiritually honest.

 

[HaleyBaron]

If you believe that random users do even half of what they brag here, feel free to send me a PM cause I have a big building in Rome for you to buy!!!

I don't care what random users do here. I'm going by reality of what I've seen in the real world. Older men getting young women can and does happen. I'm also an example, and I know a few others who get 18 and a bit older than that women despite our rising ages. All I hear is cope.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

I don't care what random users do here. I'm going by reality of what I've seen in the real world. Older men getting young women can and does happen. I'm also an example, and I know a few others who get 18 and a bit older than that women despite our rising ages. All I hear is cope.

All you have to do is put back the windows, trust me it's a great deal for such small amount of cash!!!

 

[The Duke]

I've got a great friend who bangs hot hookers on a regular basis. He gave up on dating years ago.

Why? Because it allowed him to focus 110% on his business. He doesn't answer to any one. He doesn't have a woman nagging at him. He doesn't have to worry about her birthday, anniversary, or why she is mad at him.

This guy is rich, tall, good looking, alpha like, smart, etc. He simply has no tolerance for bullschitt and drama, and you can't escape those things unless you pay for it directly.

Not a dahmn thing wrong with that either.

As a man ages, his patience for a woman's theatrics diminishes. You see things more clearly.

You guys that think your girl is with you just because she thinks the world of you are on an ego trip. All men are providers it just varies by degree and type. You are paying in some form.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

I've got a great friend who bangs hot hookers on a regular basis. He gave up on dating years ago.

Why? Because it allowed him to focus 110% on his business. He doesn't answer to any one. He doesn't have a woman nagging at him. He doesn't have to worry about her birthday, anniversary, or why she is mad at him.

This guy is rich, tall, good looking, alpha like, smart, etc. He simply has no tolerance for bullschitt and drama, and you can't escape those things unless you pay for it directly.

Not a dahmn thing wrong with that either.

As a man ages, his patience for a woman's theatrics diminishes. You see things more clearly.

You guys that think your girl is with you just because she thinks the world of you are on an ego trip. All men are providers it just varies by degree and type. You are paying in some form.

Amazing post, 100% spot on.

The only problem is that those below 35 cant get it and its probably good that they dont, they are still programmed to reproduce and such cold logic thinking would be a too strong of an obstacle to their natural task.

Maybe thats the reason why women pick the winners at the finish line instead of betting on the best runners meanwhile...with them around those runners wouldnt have a chance to make it.

It could also be the case for women being more prone to pair bond while young compared to become calculators later one.

 

[Murk]

I smashed 7 brasses, maybe 8.

I never forget the second time I did, I was about 25, this girl was about 18, hot, likely trafficked from Eastern Europe. I know now she was new to the game as she had no idea what to do. We started kissing on the bed after about a minute of us sitting there she asking what I wanted to do, like a first date back at your mums house when you’re 17, she gave me head with the condom on, I recorded her slyly on my iPhone 5 and I smashed her after, the condom broke, I kept going in doggy for 10 mins got some great footage of me stealth barebacking her, pushed her on the bed and prone boned her for about 5-10. Remember my sweat dripping off my nose into her back, some girl banged on the door and shouting something in Romanian, I pumped harder. Nut deep inside her, feigned shock and horror at my bare baton when I pulled out. She rushed me out saying she had to shower.

I walked home down the road thinking she prob sucked all the lube off the dom that’s why it broke. Serves her right for not sucking it bare, I watched the video while walking home and later masturbated to it. I lost that phone and all my pornos about 6 months later but the scenes are etched into my mind. You would never find a young hot fresh hooker like that and get to creampie it.

I wonder if gave birth to my kid.

 

[HaleyBaron]

alpha like

He's not alpha.

 

[The Duke]

He's not alpha.

How would you know? lmao. How so? Please explain.

 

[HaleyBaron]

How would you know? lmao. How so? Please explain.

If you're paying for sex, you're not alpha.