What makes you so certain he's already over it? And when I asked him a week after the break up whether he was still IN love with me he said "I don't no whether to tell you the truth or to lie to you to make things easier" I said "tell me the honest truth and he said "of course I'm still in love with you, your like family to me" and then I said "tell me honestly how long have you been feeling like this" and he said "I've thought about it a few times over the last 3 or 4 weeks" - he moved out of his parents into a lads house about 2 months ago and that's when he started realising he needed to sort his life out. He 100% doesn't agree with sleeping around, and he's told all his friends he's not looking for a relationship at all. He wouldn't come back for sex he's a genuinely nice guy which makes it so much harder. I just no he's the one, dont you just think he's confused? We've never broken up before in the 7 years so it's not like we're an on off couple he always used to tell me we were gna get married... It's so strange to get my head around