1.18.10 Monday no school
I get invited to go to the beach with Marley, Amy, and a few other people. The plan was to meet marley and amy around 12, and a few other friends would tag along at 1:00. It turns out, a lot of people i know end up showing up so we mostly have a big great time. Im going to skip most of the fluff, because I had this long long story written out, but my computer decided to freeze up on me. heres the jist
Marley and Amy meet up with my friend Ricky and I. We end up parking far away from where we intended up on meeting at, so this ended up being quite the mood killer when we had to go back and put more quarters in for additional parking time. Our friend Jessica, and her boyfriend Blake arrive around 2:00 and not too far behind them are a few guys who i knew, and this mysterious cute girl named Malissa.
A new girl, Malissa
So we are all hanging out together, ontop of our towels. the water is freezing cold, so no one wants to really go in. We are just enjoying the sun and the nice day. I think to myself, " damn, how am i going to meet this new girl? shes pretty cute" and I kind of indirectly open to her.because the guys she came with were somewhat close friends of mine, and sitting behind my towel, i talked to them and just tried to show her that im a sarcastic, playful asian who loves to smile lol. The guys are talking about how some dude stole their parking spot when they were about to park out near the beach. I turn to them and playfully say " you guys are still talking about that?? it's not like you did anything" I said a few other things, and I noticed the girl next to me, with her sunglasses was kind of smiling and laughing along to what I was saying. I had my glasses on too, so she probably never noticed that I was giving her eye contact. She says something to me about how the guy was a douche bag too, and i just laugh. After that I spend a good few minutes just talking to the guys and im thinking " what else can i say to her?" I end up looking at her and saying " You don't go to creek do ya?" and everyone around me looks at me and says " are you crazy? dude, she goes to our school" and I just smile and say " oh ive never seen you." she playfully says " yeah im like the only white girl in our school". A few minutes go by, and I say something to her again.
" so what grade are you in? junior? senior?" she replies to me " im suppose to be a junior, but i got held back in 8th grade." I reply " oh that sucks... how old are you then? 17?" I actually don't remember her answer, but im pretty sure she was 17. I tease her a bit by saying " yeah well you look like you could be 17 or 18." I thnk i said something else because she replied with a surprised face and said " oh thanks!" in a sarcastic tone. She tells me how weird it is for her to be in a class full of freshmen and whatnot, while she is the oldest one. We talk about this for a bit before everyone decides to go swimming, so as im asking everyone around us if they want to go, I turn to her and say " you comming?" she replies " hell no, that water is freezing" I say " oh okay, everyone let's go to the water, shes too cool to hang with us " as she begins to tan by herself for a bit. Eventually she gets into the water and she is complaining how freezing she is. I didn't want to be mr. creepy touchy guy, so i didnt wrap my arms around her or anything. Instead i splashed her and got the rest of her body wet. we end up talking aboutt tattoos, and she says to me " oh i've got a tattoo" and i reply " no way.. let me see! i dont believe you" at first she is a little hesitent because it turns out her tattoo is very close to her vag
damnnn I think thats so fvcking sexy. She ends up showing it to me, and although i didnt say anything about it at the time ( like why she got it, etc), i will in the future.
We don't talk much directly, but at the beach there were these guys playing football. One of them tackles the other a little too hard and they are about to start fighting. I spend a bit of time near her and we start talking a little. nothing serious here. I'll just skip most of the rest because it was very minor, and for the most part, when Malissa arrived, I was trying to find change to place into the Parking meeter where my car was at
so i ended up spending a lot of time not talking to her...
When she leaves, I say " oh okay ill cya later" and hold my hand out for a high five. She says " yeah ill cya in school, since im invisible ( a reference on how i asked whether she went to our school or not) " she then says " ill be the girl wearing the very short shorts and baggy shirt" and i just reply with a smile and " yup. cyaa"
I am very very interesting in this girl. she is a white girl, a little thick but in all the right places, and damn do i love it. She's a bit pale, but that's fine, because she is looking pretty cute. Brunette hair, and a piereced tongue, im liking where this is going. I unfortunately did not get her number, but I will when we get back to school, you can bet on it. Although im not sure whether or not i have the same lunch as her, ill tell her to punch her number in when I see her in the hallway. she seems like a bit of a party girl as well.
lol yea def
As of now im trying to decide whether she could be interesting in me or not, based on how she talked to me today and stuff.
ahh dont do this...stop worrying and thinking about whats going on in her head, cuz then your just gonna psych yourself out. You gotta keep a more clear mind and just focus on your own game and actions, not worrying over whether she likes you or not. AFCs tend to do that where as soon as they talk to a girl they'll immediately start over-analyzing everything and spending a lot of time worrying on where the chicks head is at. Theres a part of me that thinks she could be a little curious, but then i started thinking about Marley. Not about her sexually or anything, but I noticed that she talks to a lot of guys, but only out of kindness. Because im in the friendzone with her, she usually tells me how much she thinks that most of the guys she talks to are really creepy or a little " much". Im just trying to decide what the difference is between genuine interests and bullsh1t. Not sure if that makes sense though
Anna Asian girl around my block, kino'd me a lot at the pool once
So before I met malissa, I notice Anna out in the water with her cousin, Dan, who is also a friend of mine, so i walk out there and we start talking. It's nothing serious, but I felt like Anna was trying to ignore me for whatever reason, probably thinking that I was going to try and play her because of our previous experience ( Me trying to hang out with her, and her rejecting me) but she eventually lightened up and we had a small talk conversation. I splashed her a lot, because I didn't want to get any direct kino with her ( like a shoulder touch, or a back rub, etc etc) and i didn't really end up getting too far. We ended up just saying goodbye, and walking away, but not before splashing some water in her face.