My senior year and field reports

[AlexLefty]

hayha dude, yeah i bet you could have tottally got some from that girl man. but i've kind of been reading up on your posts and stuff, but yeah, im a sophmore in highschool (sorry ithink im a lil durnk right now) but yeah i was wondering if itd be cool with you if i started my own like wahtaver u called it, book of highschool logs ands stuff.

k yeah man latesr

 

[thedoc]

As for everything else that happen that night, I'd like to think of it as a "At least im learning " moment. tru dat

^^ tru dat. haha
Yeah I think that's the best way to look at things. It also helps to think about where you went wrong but sometimes it's hard to think back at embarrassing/weird/fail moments.


Another thing,

You've been saying that a lot, and every time, you suffer from regret. I mean on one hand, (considering you get rejected) you really don't want to ruin a good relationship, but on the other who gives a sh1t if she rejects you: 1. it feels a lot better than regret, and 2. in a few months you're never going to see her again.
There's also that wonderful possibility that you don't get rejected haha

 

[BongDuy]

1.18.10 Monday no school

I get invited to go to the beach with Marley, Amy, and a few other people. The plan was to meet marley and amy around 12, and a few other friends would tag along at 1:00. It turns out, a lot of people i know end up showing up so we mostly have a big great time. Im going to skip most of the fluff, because I had this long long story written out, but my computer decided to freeze up on me. heres the jist
Marley and Amy meet up with my friend Ricky and I. We end up parking far away from where we intended up on meeting at, so this ended up being quite the mood killer when we had to go back and put more quarters in for additional parking time. Our friend Jessica, and her boyfriend Blake arrive around 2:00 and not too far behind them are a few guys who i knew, and this mysterious cute girl named Malissa.

A new girl, Malissa
So we are all hanging out together, ontop of our towels. the water is freezing cold, so no one wants to really go in. We are just enjoying the sun and the nice day. I think to myself, " damn, how am i going to meet this new girl? shes pretty cute" and I kind of indirectly open to her.because the guys she came with were somewhat close friends of mine, and sitting behind my towel, i talked to them and just tried to show her that im a sarcastic, playful asian who loves to smile lol. The guys are talking about how some dude stole their parking spot when they were about to park out near the beach. I turn to them and playfully say " you guys are still talking about that?? it's not like you did anything" I said a few other things, and I noticed the girl next to me, with her sunglasses was kind of smiling and laughing along to what I was saying. I had my glasses on too, so she probably never noticed that I was giving her eye contact. She says something to me about how the guy was a douche bag too, and i just laugh. After that I spend a good few minutes just talking to the guys and im thinking " what else can i say to her?" I end up looking at her and saying " You don't go to creek do ya?" and everyone around me looks at me and says " are you crazy? dude, she goes to our school" and I just smile and say " oh ive never seen you." she playfully says " yeah im like the only white girl in our school". A few minutes go by, and I say something to her again.
" so what grade are you in? junior? senior?" she replies to me " im suppose to be a junior, but i got held back in 8th grade." I reply " oh that sucks... how old are you then? 17?" I actually don't remember her answer, but im pretty sure she was 17. I tease her a bit by saying " yeah well you look like you could be 17 or 18." I thnk i said something else because she replied with a surprised face and said " oh thanks!" in a sarcastic tone. She tells me how weird it is for her to be in a class full of freshmen and whatnot, while she is the oldest one. We talk about this for a bit before everyone decides to go swimming, so as im asking everyone around us if they want to go, I turn to her and say " you comming?" she replies " hell no, that water is freezing" I say " oh okay, everyone let's go to the water, shes too cool to hang with us " as she begins to tan by herself for a bit. Eventually she gets into the water and she is complaining how freezing she is. I didn't want to be mr. creepy touchy guy, so i didnt wrap my arms around her or anything. Instead i splashed her and got the rest of her body wet. we end up talking aboutt tattoos, and she says to me " oh i've got a tattoo" and i reply " no way.. let me see! i dont believe you" at first she is a little hesitent because it turns out her tattoo is very close to her vag. She ends up showing it to me, and although i didnt say anything about it at the time ( like why she got it, etc), i will in the future.
We don't talk much directly, but at the beach there were these guys playing football. One of them tackles the other a little too hard and they are about to start fighting. I spend a bit of time near her and we start talking a little. nothing serious here. I'll just skip most of the rest because it was very minor, and for the most part, when Malissa arrived, I was trying to find change to place into the Parking meeter where my car was at so i ended up spending a lot of time not talking to her...
When she leaves, I say " oh okay ill cya later" and hold my hand out for a high five. She says " yeah ill cya in school, since im invisible ( a reference on how i asked whether she went to our school or not) " she then says " ill be the girl wearing the very short shorts and baggy shirt" and i just reply with a smile and " yup. cyaa"

I am very very interesting in this girl. she is a white girl, a little thick but in all the right places, and damn do i love it. She's a bit pale, but that's fine, because she is looking pretty cute. Brunette hair, and a piereced tongue, im liking where this is going. I unfortunately did not get her number, but I will when we get back to school, you can bet on it. Although im not sure whether or not i have the same lunch as her, ill tell her to punch her number in when I see her in the hallway. she seems like a bit of a party girl as well.

As of now im trying to decide whether she could be interesting in me or not, based on how she talked to me today and stuff. Theres a part of me that thinks she could be a little curious, but then i started thinking about Marley. Not about her sexually or anything, but I noticed that she talks to a lot of guys, but only out of kindness. Because im in the friendzone with her, she usually tells me how much she thinks that most of the guys she talks to are really creepy or a little " much". Im just trying to decide what the difference is between genuine interests and bullsh1t. Not sure if that makes sense though

Anna Asian girl around my block, kino'd me a lot at the pool once
So before I met malissa, I notice Anna out in the water with her cousin, Dan, who is also a friend of mine, so i walk out there and we start talking. It's nothing serious, but I felt like Anna was trying to ignore me for whatever reason, probably thinking that I was going to try and play her because of our previous experience ( Me trying to hang out with her, and her rejecting me) but she eventually lightened up and we had a small talk conversation. I splashed her a lot, because I didn't want to get any direct kino with her ( like a shoulder touch, or a back rub, etc etc) and i didn't really end up getting too far. We ended up just saying goodbye, and walking away, but not before splashing some water in her face.

 

[BongDuy]

hayha dude, yeah i bet you could have tottally got some from that girl man. but i've kind of been reading up on your posts and stuff, but yeah, im a sophmore in highschool (sorry ithink im a lil durnk right now) but yeah i was wondering if itd be cool with you if i started my own like wahtaver u called it, book of highschool logs ands stuff.

k yeah man latesr

no you cant make one :crackup:

 

[eaglez1177]

K lets see...

1.18.10 Monday no school

I get invited to go to the beach with Marley, Amy, and a few other people. The plan was to meet marley and amy around 12, and a few other friends would tag along at 1:00. It turns out, a lot of people i know end up showing up so we mostly have a big great time. Im going to skip most of the fluff, because I had this long long story written out, but my computer decided to freeze up on me. heres the jist
Marley and Amy meet up with my friend Ricky and I. We end up parking far away from where we intended up on meeting at, so this ended up being quite the mood killer when we had to go back and put more quarters in for additional parking time. Our friend Jessica, and her boyfriend Blake arrive around 2:00 and not too far behind them are a few guys who i knew, and this mysterious cute girl named Malissa.

A new girl, Malissa
So we are all hanging out together, ontop of our towels. the water is freezing cold, so no one wants to really go in. We are just enjoying the sun and the nice day. I think to myself, " damn, how am i going to meet this new girl? shes pretty cute" and I kind of indirectly open to her.because the guys she came with were somewhat close friends of mine, and sitting behind my towel, i talked to them and just tried to show her that im a sarcastic, playful asian who loves to smile lol. The guys are talking about how some dude stole their parking spot when they were about to park out near the beach. I turn to them and playfully say " you guys are still talking about that?? it's not like you did anything" I said a few other things, and I noticed the girl next to me, with her sunglasses was kind of smiling and laughing along to what I was saying. I had my glasses on too, so she probably never noticed that I was giving her eye contact. She says something to me about how the guy was a douche bag too, and i just laugh. After that I spend a good few minutes just talking to the guys and im thinking " what else can i say to her?" I end up looking at her and saying " You don't go to creek do ya?" and everyone around me looks at me and says " are you crazy? dude, she goes to our school" and I just smile and say " oh ive never seen you." she playfully says " yeah im like the only white girl in our school". A few minutes go by, and I say something to her again.
" so what grade are you in? junior? senior?" she replies to me " im suppose to be a junior, but i got held back in 8th grade." I reply " oh that sucks... how old are you then? 17?" I actually don't remember her answer, but im pretty sure she was 17. I tease her a bit by saying " yeah well you look like you could be 17 or 18." I thnk i said something else because she replied with a surprised face and said " oh thanks!" in a sarcastic tone. She tells me how weird it is for her to be in a class full of freshmen and whatnot, while she is the oldest one. We talk about this for a bit before everyone decides to go swimming, so as im asking everyone around us if they want to go, I turn to her and say " you comming?" she replies " hell no, that water is freezing" I say " oh okay, everyone let's go to the water, shes too cool to hang with us " as she begins to tan by herself for a bit. Eventually she gets into the water and she is complaining how freezing she is. I didn't want to be mr. creepy touchy guy, so i didnt wrap my arms around her or anything. Instead i splashed her and got the rest of her body wet. we end up talking aboutt tattoos, and she says to me " oh i've got a tattoo" and i reply " no way.. let me see! i dont believe you" at first she is a little hesitent because it turns out her tattoo is very close to her vagdamnnn I think thats so fvcking sexy. She ends up showing it to me, and although i didnt say anything about it at the time ( like why she got it, etc), i will in the future.
We don't talk much directly, but at the beach there were these guys playing football. One of them tackles the other a little too hard and they are about to start fighting. I spend a bit of time near her and we start talking a little. nothing serious here. I'll just skip most of the rest because it was very minor, and for the most part, when Malissa arrived, I was trying to find change to place into the Parking meeter where my car was at so i ended up spending a lot of time not talking to her...
When she leaves, I say " oh okay ill cya later" and hold my hand out for a high five. She says " yeah ill cya in school, since im invisible ( a reference on how i asked whether she went to our school or not) " she then says " ill be the girl wearing the very short shorts and baggy shirt" and i just reply with a smile and " yup. cyaa"

I am very very interesting in this girl. she is a white girl, a little thick but in all the right places, and damn do i love it. She's a bit pale, but that's fine, because she is looking pretty cute. Brunette hair, and a piereced tongue, im liking where this is going. I unfortunately did not get her number, but I will when we get back to school, you can bet on it. Although im not sure whether or not i have the same lunch as her, ill tell her to punch her number in when I see her in the hallway. she seems like a bit of a party girl as well.lol yea def

As of now im trying to decide whether she could be interesting in me or not, based on how she talked to me today and stuff.ahh dont do this...stop worrying and thinking about whats going on in her head, cuz then your just gonna psych yourself out. You gotta keep a more clear mind and just focus on your own game and actions, not worrying over whether she likes you or not. AFCs tend to do that where as soon as they talk to a girl they'll immediately start over-analyzing everything and spending a lot of time worrying on where the chicks head is at. Theres a part of me that thinks she could be a little curious, but then i started thinking about Marley. Not about her sexually or anything, but I noticed that she talks to a lot of guys, but only out of kindness. Because im in the friendzone with her, she usually tells me how much she thinks that most of the guys she talks to are really creepy or a little " much". Im just trying to decide what the difference is between genuine interests and bullsh1t. Not sure if that makes sense though

Anna Asian girl around my block, kino'd me a lot at the pool once
So before I met malissa, I notice Anna out in the water with her cousin, Dan, who is also a friend of mine, so i walk out there and we start talking. It's nothing serious, but I felt like Anna was trying to ignore me for whatever reason, probably thinking that I was going to try and play her because of our previous experience ( Me trying to hang out with her, and her rejecting me) but she eventually lightened up and we had a small talk conversation. I splashed her a lot, because I didn't want to get any direct kino with her ( like a shoulder touch, or a back rub, etc etc) and i didn't really end up getting too far. We ended up just saying goodbye, and walking away, but not before splashing some water in her face.

 

[BongDuy]

1.19.10 No school

Family Matter

So today is no school, and i didn't really go anywhere at all actually. I pretty much stayed home and cleaned up all of my room because i had some retarded allergy all of a sudden and started sneezing like you wouldn't believe. anyways i just wanted to post this because its something i noticed about me. Lately my goal has really been to improve on my total general being, as in being more outgoing, friendly, talkative, and just social in general. I decided to hit it where it counts, and I guess I started talking to my family a little bit more. I noticed that I would take some time in my day and just talk to my mom more often. I would do some chores like washing the dishes, and I would listen to my mom talk and just say a little something here and there. It turns out my mom is great at small talk because she seems like she can carry a conversation with me without me saying much, but still keep me kind of entertained. Im creating a bond with my mom that i never had before. This is over the course of a month or two, but she has began to trust me because she is starting to let me out of the house more often to hang with friends, sleep over during parties, and just trust me a little more.

This actually goes as far as to connect me and my sister together. My sister is 27, a bartender, and was one of those popular girls back when she was in highschool. She gets hit on all the time, even though she is still with my "brother in law" who have pretty much been together for 4 years. The other night, when i was talking to her, she ended up saying " aww, and to believe i used to hate you". I take that as a good sign, because I joke with her and just talk to her as a normal human being. I just have to becareful of what i say because i still can't say certain things around her, she's still family after all.

My family is pretty weird. My mom doesn't have a best friend, and my sister doesn't really hang out with any close friends. My family doesn't even hang out with our cousins/ relatives too often unless its a holiday. I noticed that we aren't all that close, but anyone who is within the house sticks together. I didn't notice this until recently. I definitely think the biggest advice that I can give out about being social, friendly, or anything that deals with people that you should start with those who are close to you. Your family.

sometimes I feel like I read some stuff on Sosuave and people try too hard. They try to be too ****y, ( i have this problem) they try to act tough, they mask who they really are with this fake character. But at the end of the day, you're still the same person, but with an illusion of someone else. I believe that you may attract girls from the beginning but you won't get very far as in improving yourself, and getting a long term relationship with someone you care about. maybe our goals are different, maybe you just want to get one night stands, but from my perspective, i think just becoming a more social happy person is better in the long run

 

[colombiandude]

lmao. good for you duy. i love how at the beginning your goal was simply to get with more chicks but now it evolved to something so much more. haha.

 

[sageproduct]

Dude I definitely agree, the biggest things I've gotten from the four months or so on this site have nothing to do with girls. The social growth and even deeper, inner growth has been much more important.

 

[BongDuy]

1.20.10 Wensday, first day back at school this whole week

so nothing has really changed. I was talking to George and told him about melissa. He acted very surprised that he has never seen this " hot " girl because most girls in our school are pretty ugly, or have terrible attitudes. I told him that I had doubts that she may or may not have a cell phone, and so he ended up convincing me to ask a friend of mine whether or not she did.
His name is ping, and he was with her at the beach. Basically I asked him if she had a phone, and he replied no and asked why. I told him " nothing, i just wanted to ask her a question" and he replied with a simple " oh okay"

Didn't see melissa the whole day, but decided to add her on facebook. I guess for now facebook will be the only way to communicate because i dont think i really see her at all in school plus i think its kinda weird because i usually get the girl's number and it makes things easier.

As for tomorrow, i'm not going to be in school. Instead im actually going to some Student government meeting at another school about an hour away. Im stuck with three boring girls, but maybe this will test my small talk capability. Will post something if anything interesting happens.

 

[eaglez1177]

K lets seee

1.19.10 No school

Family Matter

So today is no school, and i didn't really go anywhere at all actually. I pretty much stayed home and cleaned up all of my room because i had some retarded allergy all of a sudden and started sneezing like you wouldn't believe. anyways i just wanted to post this because its something i noticed about me. Lately my goal has really been to improve on my total general being, as in being more outgoing, friendly, talkative, and just social in general. I decided to hit it where it counts, and I guess I started talking to my family a little bit more. I noticed that I would take some time in my day and just talk to my mom more often. I would do some chores like washing the dishes, and I would listen to my mom talk and just say a little something here and there. It turns out my mom is great at small talk because she seems like she can carry a conversation with me without me saying much, but still keep me kind of entertained. Im creating a bond with my mom that i never had before. This is over the course of a month or two, but she has began to trust me because she is starting to let me out of the house more often to hang with friends, sleep over during parties, and just trust me a little more.good

This actually goes as far as to connect me and my sister together. My sister is 27, a bartender, and was one of those popular girls back when she was in highschool. She gets hit on all the time, even though she is still with my "brother in law" who have pretty much been together for 4 years. The other night, when i was talking to her, she ended up saying " aww, and to believe i used to hate you". I take that as a good sign, because I joke with her and just talk to her as a normal human being. I just have to becareful of what i say because i still can't say certain things around her, she's still family after all.

My family is pretty weird. My mom doesn't have a best friend, and my sister doesn't really hang out with any close friends. My family doesn't even hang out with our cousins/ relatives too often unless its a holiday. I noticed that we aren't all that close, but anyone who is within the house sticks together. I didn't notice this until recently. I definitely think the biggest advice that I can give out about being social, friendly, or anything that deals with people that you should start with those who are close to you. Your family.

sometimes I feel like I read some stuff on Sosuave and people try too hard. They try to be too ****y, ( i have this problem) they try to act tough, they mask who they really are with this fake character.yea ive seen alot of these lately too : / But at the end of the day, you're still the same person, but with an illusion of someone else. I believe that you may attract girls from the beginning but you won't get very far as in improving yourself, and getting a long term relationship with someone you care about. maybe our goals are different, maybe you just want to get one night stands, but from my perspective, i think just becoming a more social happy person is better in the long runi couldnt agree more

1.20.10 Wensday, first day back at school this whole week

so nothing has really changed. I was talking to George and told him about melissa. He acted very surprised that he has never seen this " hot " girl because most girls in our school are pretty ugly, or have terrible attitudes. I told him that I had doubts that she may or may not have a cell phone, and so he ended up convincing me to ask a friend of mine whether or not she did.
His name is ping, and he was with her at the beach. Basically I asked him if she had a phone, and he replied no and asked why. I told him " nothing, i just wanted to ask her a question" and he replied with a simple " oh okay"

Didn't see melissa the whole day, but decided to add her on facebook. I guess for now facebook will be the only way to communicate because i dont think i really see her at all in school plus i think its kinda weird because i usually get the girl's number and it makes things easier.I already spoke about this with you earlier...

As for tomorrow, i'm not going to be in school. Instead im actually going to some Student government meeting at another school about an hour away. Im stuck with three boring girls, but maybe this will test my small talk capability.yea try to get them talkin Will post something if anything interesting happens.

 

[BongDuy]

1.24.10 Sunday

So I haven't posted much because honestly, nothing has been too productive game wise. most of the girls I mentioned are either missing, as in i don't see them in school, or we're just friends now. I spend a lot of my time now just playing my guitar, which is cool because now im really getting into it. Volleyball practice starts tomorrow, so i plan to keep myself busy with that. Honestly, i just wanteed to make this post to give myself a reminder, since its been so long since i had a cold approach opportunity that i missed.

Rejection is better than Regret

So my brother in law and sister invite me to go out and eat at this sushi buffet. I decide to go, and I totally dress like a bum to be honest, which made me feel a little unsure if i wanted to approach this hostess when we arrived at the place. When we first got there, i didn't really see her because I was lagging behind my sister and the brother in law, while we found a table. By the time I sat down, i got off my phone, and saw this cute girl. She was Asian, curley hair, had the cutest body. She wore all black, and some van slip ons. I would like to say she looked 18, but knowing how asian's age, she could of been 16 or something even younger.

She stood behind her booth, which was facing away from my table. I noticed she would sometimes randomly play with this little boy, i guess they are family, or she is very friendly. I noticed halfway during my meal that she was fully facing me, as in she was leaning up infront of the booth. Maybe she was looking at the ceiling, or some posters along the wall, or maybe just towards the people because the only thing in view from the booth was the two door entrance. Either way I really wish i made an approach just for the hell of it. When I saw this there was a part of me that said " dude, she could be checking you out!!"

Thinking about it now, it could of been so easy. I could of just walked up to her and said " You look bored" and continued from there. As simple as that. Damn I missed my shot though, and I just wanted to post it so whenever I look back, I will always be reminded of this night. I never want to forget this feeling, it's been so long that I've missed a chance similiar to this. Next time I will get it.

 

[eaglez1177]

I wonder if Favre will come back next year...

1.24.10 Sunday

So I haven't posted much because honestly, nothing has been too productive game wise. most of the girls I mentioned are either missing, as in i don't see them in school, or we're just friends now. I spend a lot of my time now just playing my guitar, which is cool because now im really getting into it. Volleyball practice starts tomorrow, so i plan to keep myself busy with that. Honestly, i just wanteed to make this post to give myself a reminder, since its been so long since i had a cold approach opportunity that i missed.

Rejection is better than Regret

So my brother in law and sister invite me to go out and eat at this sushi buffet. I decide to go, and I totally dress like a bum to be honest, which made me feel a little unsure if i wanted to approach this hostess when we arrived at the place. When we first got there, i didn't really see her because I was lagging behind my sister and the brother in law, while we found a table. By the time I sat down, i got off my phone, and saw this cute girl. She was Asian, curley hair, had the cutest body. She wore all black, and some van slip ons. I would like to say she looked 18, but knowing how asian's age, she could of been 16 or something even younger.

She stood behind her booth, which was facing away from my table. I noticed she would sometimes randomly play with this little boy, i guess they are family, or she is very friendly. I noticed halfway during my meal that she was fully facing me, as in she was leaning up infront of the booth. Maybe she was looking at the ceiling, or some posters along the wall, or maybe just towards the people because the only thing in view from the booth was the two door entranceNoo!! Dont let your mind make up these dumb excuses. Like Igetit said in another thread, "always assume attraction". This is how I always think, heck if I even see a chick take a glance at me I automatically truly believe that shes into me. You gotta change your mindset to something like this. Always assume that the chick is checking you out and is into you.. Either way I really wish i made an approach just for the hell of it. When I saw this there was a part of me that said " dude, she could be checking you out!!"

Thinking about it now, it could of been so easy. I could of just walked up to her and said " You look bored" and continued from thereYea this couldve been very easy...ive gone up to a hostess before at this place in the mall and just said what i observed (that she looked bored), and the # close was easy. . As simple as that. Damn I missed my shot though, and I just wanted to post it so whenever I look back, I will always be reminded of this night. I never want to forget this feeling, it's been so long that I've missed a chance similiar to this. Next time I will get it.I like how you learned from this, and I like the attitude. Go get em!

 

[BongDuy]

1.26.10 Tuesday

Melissa White girl i met at the beach, I added her on fb as well
So I finally got to see Melissa, but it didn't go as great as planned. Heres what happen. I was skipping in B lunch ( which is the 2nd and final lunch of the day, for those who dont know) and im talking to brenda, edith, kristina, and just saying whats up to all my friends. I spot her in my perifs, and Im not sure if she notices me or not, but as i finish up talking to all my friends, I notice she is talking to my friend Sal. Idk if this was a bad move or not, but i playfully tapped her on the left shoulder, as I walked to her right. I walk towards another group of my friends, and I start talking to them while facing her. I smile at her and sal says " Is that duy?? YOOO WHATS UP!!" and they walk over to me. I ask sal some quick questions, nothing serious, and I see Melissa. She walks over and says " I felt a tapping on my shoulder, and my friend said it was the kid in the black!" and I responded " yeah well thanks for saying hi to me earlier" she smiles and says " I didn't see you! come here, hug!" and she hugs me. My friends start talking to me, and before I noticed it, I got distracted and completely forgot about her. Within seconds, she walked away from me and went to hang out with some of her chick friends.

To be honest, I was probably overthinking everything I was going to say to her. What would I say to start a conversation? At the time I couldn't think of anything, like whats something I could talk about? but it's okay, atleast she finally got to see me and we hugged it out. That kino barrier is outta the way, so whenever I do see her, I can go straight for a hug

Serena Asian chick Who i smoked with and got a handshake, I tried to mystery kiss close this girl and completely failed miserably lol

So another interesting thing was when I was walking to my 2nd hour, I see Serena and my good friend Raymond just standing around outside talking. I noticed he is showing his arms off, probably to show her a bruising he got from Martial Arts class, and As I walked by, I said " Raymond, stop showing off your guns" In a playful tone. He says something, which stops me from walking away and walking back to them. I say hello to Serena, and she greets me back. She actually holds her arms out, like she wants a hug, so i don't deny her of course. I go straight in for a hug and don't say much to her there actually...lol Raymond was going on about his martial arts class and about the whooping he got, and the bell rings, leaving Serena to walk away.

I was just thinking though, whats up with this? She went from totally blowing me off, to saying hi to me in the hallway now. Is she now interested? Should I proceed with caution? I don't want to sound creepy by suddenly saying " oh we should hang out" or something, and end up just being me and her, because I have a feeling things might get awkward.

 

[BongDuy]

1.28.10 Thursday

Brenda Old one itus, ginger,

So for the past day or two, brenda has texted me random during school, which she never did before. I haven't really done anything new around her, except I stop negging, so i'm not as mean as i used to be to her. Here are some convos

First time she texted me the other day
Her: hey dork
me: whats up gorgeous?
her: im in watson so ****in boredd
me tell her i said hi lol i love watson
her: ughh serious?
me mhmm she got dat junk in the trunk!
her haha hell yeah


2nd convo that took place today
her : duyyyy
me hey gorgeous whats up?
her: im bored and my sub sucks!
me oh so you want me to entertain you?
her: yeah! come here baby
me haha you'll just have to wait, my teacher is reading dr. suess
her are you serious?
me yeah lmao i love dr. suess
her why are you reading that
me just as an example. we're doing real work now
her oh sure dang must be easy being a senior reading dr. suess and all
me lol whats your sub doing?
her just keeps yelling at us
me probably because you're such a bad girl
her are you going make me good
me haha i bet you would like that
her haha yes i would duy baby
me lol good to know
her hahah

So as of now, it hasn't really phased me. I think that there are three things. theres a 60% that she just wants to get some attention from me, 30% chance she just sees us as friends, and is just being bored and friendly, and a 10% she may be interested. She hasn't tried to make any plans to hang out with me, but she says she works on the weekends a lot, which i can understand, but it isnt really bothering me. When I see her, sometimes I kiss her on the cheek, and idk why, but it ends up close to her lips. I've done it twice already, and she says " wow duy! you were so close to kissing me!" and i reply " haha you know you like it ", even though i didn't mean to get that close. Whenever I see her I talk to her as a friend, no real flirting, im not sure about the kino.

Other than that, nothing too interesting has happen to me.

 

[eaglez1177]

Man im tired lol

1.28.10 Thursday

Brenda Old one itus, ginger,

So for the past day or two, brenda has texted me random during school, which she never did before. I haven't really done anything new around her, except I stop negging, so i'm not as mean as i used to be to her. Here are some convos

First time she texted me the other day
Her: hey dork
me: whats up gorgeous?i wouldnt have said this...dont put her on that pedestal
her: im in watson so ****in boredd
me tell her i said hi lol i love watson
her: ughh serious?
me mhmm she got dat junk in the trunk!
her haha hell yeah


2nd convo that took place today
her : duyyyy
me hey gorgeous whats up?ehhh
her: im bored and my sub sucks!
me oh so you want me to entertain you?
her: yeah! come here baby
me haha you'll just have to wait, my teacher is reading dr. suess
her are you serious?
me yeah lmao i love dr. suess
her why are you reading that
me just as an example. we're doing real work now
her oh sure dang must be easy being a senior reading dr. suess and all
me lol whats your sub doing?
her just keeps yelling at us
me probably because you're such a bad girl
her are you going make me good
me haha i bet you would like that
her haha yes i would duy baby
me lol good to know
her hahah

So as of now, it hasn't really phased me. I think that there are three things. theres a 60% that she just wants to get some attention from me, 30% chance she just sees us as friends, and is just being bored and friendly, and a 10% she may be interested. She hasn't tried to make any plans to hang out with me, but she says she works on the weekends a lot, which i can understand, but it isnt really bothering me. When I see her, sometimes I kiss her on the cheek, and idk why, but it ends up close to her lips. I've done it twice already, and she says " wow duy! you were so close to kissing me!" and i reply " haha you know you like it ", even though i didn't mean to get that close. Whenever I see her I talk to her as a friend, no real flirting, im not sure about the kino. honestly dude this chick is probably just an attention wh*re, and it seems to me she was in fact bored. BUT, only way to truly find out if she actually is interested is to just get her to hang out alone with you. I know I said before that you're prolly in the friend zone, but honestly, who cares dude lol. Nothing should hold you back at this point. If I was you, I wouldnt even care if we were friends or not. Cuz what do you have to lose? Nothing. Absolutely nothing. If I ever got any gut feeling that she could be interested, I would just lay some game on her and tell her I want to hang out. Maybe say something like "Yea come hang out with me this weekend it'll be fun. We can watch a movie at my house. If you're lucky i'll let you have a kiss close to the lips. And give a sexy smile when you say it, hehehe.

Other than that, nothing too interesting has happen to me.

 

[BongDuy]

1.30.10

the last thing i want right now is any emotional connection to a girl. It's just the way I feel right now, but knowing me it could change when I meet a decent girl at my school. As of now, Im looking towards hooking up with multiple chicks, just to expirement on getting sexual and feeling more comfortable around a variety of girls.


Selina Old middle school "friend",

I came to the realization that there was this girl that i think is into me. Her name is Selina, and she's hispanic. Black hair, not the cutest, but def do able. I was thinking maybe I could end up hooking up with her with no strings attached, but I honestly think she is a relationship type of girl. Who knows though, maybe she's a freak, so i'll work with this.

We met way back in middle school, and at the time she was dating my old friend Richard. They used to hang out and whatnot, but after they split, I remember her and I walking to class together, while she held onto my arm. At the time I had no clue that this was an IOI, but thinking about it recently, it def was. I never responded to that back in middle school, and I sent most of my highschool years seeing her, and never really saying Hi. there was a few times where i would say hello, and sometimes even sttart an awkward convo with her saying " hey selina i havent talked to u in forever" But I know she knows I exist, and She knows I remember her, beacuse every now and then We will say hi. I have that tendency to awkwardly be next to girls, and not say anything to them, like at times I will be in line, and she may be infront of me, but i wont say anything to her. I will def take some actions next time I see her, just because I want to get it out of my way.

Nicole Nicole and I take Physics together, I've mentioned before that She used to kino the hell outta me, and i wanted to learn from her

Well Im thinking This could be easy now that she has a phone. I could easily get her digits, but heres the weird thing. My physics teacher is a pretty down to earth lady. You can talk to her about anything, and so i usually tell her my shanagains that I do with girls, like that one facebook chat i did with that uggo girl. The problem with this is she usually brings it up in class, so she has no way of keeping things silent and on the downlow. With that said, If i were to mess with nicole, She would probably think I would tell burek right away, so that's a BAD thing because she may get the impression that i dont know how to keep my mouth shut and keep things between us. I'll still try to game her, and see where that goes, but thats where I am with that girl.

 

[BongDuy]

2.3.10 Wednesday

So nothing too interesting has happen lately. I haven't talked to Selena, or Nicole, because i haven't really cared much about them. I dont think they are very cute or anything, so i'm just not as motivated to see them as i usually would be.

Katelynn old old " friend ", and im pretty sure im still friend zoned.
So here is a girl who I knew since my freshmen year. Let's just say I was deeply friend zoned with her, like you have no idea. I almost made an AFC attempt to tell her I love her by asking her questions about what you should do when you like someone, and she just told me that she really likes our friendship. She even tried to hook me up with one of her friends, but that didn't work out as planned. She is a very athletic girl with some blonde hair. Before she left our school last year, we used to talk in class and all, but never really hanged out outside of school, even though we went to an afterparty or two together. Throughout this time, we never really stayed in touch, we would always say things like " Oh we should hang out!" and things never went through. She sometimes msgs me on facebook chat, and sometimes i will randomly chat it up with her, just because im bored.

She randomly texted me while I was in the gym working out. heres what was said
her : dui!
me : hey whats up
her: nothing much. was just thinking about freshmen year and i remembered how you taught me how to say kiss me in japanese or chinese or whatever lol so i texted you!
me : haha that's cute
her: how have you been?
me: pretty good just working hard on my education. you?
her: same lol graduation in 4 months cant wait lol
me : really? thinking about it is bitter sweet. what college are you going to?
her: dont know. its all depends on soccer. what about you?

From there it was just about college stuff. IT didnt last long though, because we reached a point where i was done working out and heading to my next class, which was a dead zone for Phone signal. I told her I would talk to her later and I left it at that. I haven't texted her or anything all day so far, not that it really matters.

I was wondering how I could hang out with her again. I was thinking of finding something we could do together, like volleyball or something action like, because i suck at holding convos, so i'll try to work around it. It's just im pretty sure it'll end up like being before, where she just says " yeah okay we'll hang soon!" and we never do. I was thinking of just getting a bunch of old friends together, that both her and I know, and get together, that way she feels more open to the idea of hanging out, and working the kino and whatnot there.

Katie I've mentioned this girl before. She has my gym class, and she is usually pretty quiet.
So here i am sitting in gym with my good friend george. Katie is there, and she is just listening but somehow we start to talk. one thing led to another, and she said " hey you should come to a party with me this saturday" and i said something about her texting me the information, which she did later that day. Long story short, i ended up telling her she was a " mysterious" figure because she usually never talks to anyone in class. So i started to play a little Q's game, nothing serious. I just asked what she enjoyed to do, and we had a good laugh about it. George asked her if she spit or swallowed, and she just laughed and said " it depends." we go more into this, and just generally joke around. She also lives pretty close to me, a few blocks away, so that's always good.

Look wise, katie has a " cute " face, but her personally says something else. I wouldn't say slutty, but its not very modest either. She is a white girl, with two front teeth that are pretty messed up. She's short, and a brunette, def not the cutest girl in our school and whatnot. When my friend asked her about the spitting or swallowing, i couldnt help but fantasize about her going down on me, and then her expecting the favor to be returned, and katie doesnt seem like the type of girl i would want to go down on. shes been around, if u know what i mean.

 

[BongDuy]

2.4.10 Thursday

Katie Short white girl in my gym class.

So the teacher let everyone outside of the weightroom for once in the longest time. most people took advantage of this and went outside to get fresh air. I did this for about 10 minutes, but i started to get sweaty and nasty, so i walked back into the weight room. That's where I saw Katie sitting by herself in the corner next to the dumbbells. I noticed there was a dumbbell on the ground, so while I was talking to her, I was stood ontop of it and rolled around.

Surprisingly we talked and it wasn't awkward at all. She did most of the talking and we ended up talking about some personal things. She wrote this letter the other day that was full of rage towards her Ex boyfriend, Gary. I didn't want to extend the convo about the ex, so we talked about a few other things. The main jist is we talked about the party, and who was throwing it. We ended up talking about her past experiences with guys, which im pretty sure is a bad sign for me, because it means im getting friend zoned, right? She tells me she fell " inlove" with a few guys and ended up hating them. I asked her about f-buddies, and she says she had two, and fell for one. She elaborated that she had sex with many older guys, like 21+ up guys.... yeah that's pretty crazy, she even had a weird thing going on with a 25 year old guy with three kids. I dont know if she is lying, but i'll give her the benefit of the doubt. Im pretty much becoming her emotional tampon, but knowing that she told me that she caught clamidia from the 25 year old, but got a shot for it. Im no expert in STDS, but im def staying away from this chick sexually. As of now we're just talking, and I haven't really done any kino on her, so i guess its a good thing we're being friend zoned.

Other than that I saw melissa ( sexy girl i met at the beach thru some friends) but it was only for a short time. I actually don't feel satisfied with what I said to her, because I saw her when i was walking down stairs to my 3rd hour. She was talking to some girl, and I approached her, as she saw me and opened her arms for a hug. She said " aww, im so popular" and i say " you mean im not the only asian u know?" and she replies " haha nope, i know hundreds of them " I just smile at her, shook my head ( as in saying no) and i walked away. That didn't go as well as I wanted beacuse I didnt get a chance to really establish any connection or anything that would make future conversations easier. bleaghh

 

[eaglez1177]

2.3.10 Wednesday

So nothing too interesting has happen lately. I haven't talked to Selena, or Nicole, because i haven't really cared much about them. I dont think they are very cute or anything, so i'm just not as motivated to see them as i usually would be.

Katelynn old old " friend ", and im pretty sure im still friend zoned.
So here is a girl who I knew since my freshmen year. Let's just say I was deeply friend zoned with her, like you have no idea. I almost made an AFC attempt to tell her I love her by asking her questions about what you should do when you like someone, and she just told me that she really likes our friendship. She even tried to hook me up with one of her friends, but that didn't work out as planned. She is a very athletic girl with some blonde hair. Before she left our school last year, we used to talk in class and all, but never really hanged out outside of school, even though we went to an afterparty or two together. Throughout this time, we never really stayed in touch, we would always say things like " Oh we should hang out!" and things never went through. She sometimes msgs me on facebook chat, and sometimes i will randomly chat it up with her, just because im bored.

She randomly texted me while I was in the gym working out. heres what was said
her : dui!
me : hey whats up
her: nothing much. was just thinking about freshmen year and i remembered how you taught me how to say kiss me in japanese or chinese or whatever lol so i texted you!
me : haha that's cute
her: how have you been?
me: pretty good just working hard on my education. you?
her: same lol graduation in 4 months cant wait lol
me : really? thinking about it is bitter sweet. what college are you going to?
her: dont know. its all depends on soccer. what about you?

From there it was just about college stuff. IT didnt last long though, because we reached a point where i was done working out and heading to my next class, which was a dead zone for Phone signal. I told her I would talk to her later and I left it at that. I haven't texted her or anything all day so far, not that it really matters.

I was wondering how I could hang out with her again. I was thinking of finding something we could do together, like volleyball or something action like, because i suck at holding convos, so i'll try to work around it.You cant just stay sucky at convos...gotta practice It's just im pretty sure it'll end up like being before, where she just says " yeah okay we'll hang soon!"im sure you know what to say when you wanna hang out with a chick, but just to repeat, never say stuff like "well hang sometime/well chill soon" simply cuz it always falls through and you need to have a set day to hang out. Saying stuff like this isnt being active enough, and for most girls, its just a common line they say to a guy when they actually dont wanna hang out (simply cuz theyre just being nice) and we never do. I was thinking of just getting a bunch of old friends together, that both her and I know, and get together, that way she feels more open to the idea of hanging out, and working the kino and whatnot there.

Katie I've mentioned this girl before. She has my gym class, and she is usually pretty quiet.
So here i am sitting in gym with my good friend george. Katie is there, and she is just listening but somehow we start to talk. one thing led to another, and she said " hey you should come to a party with me this saturday" and i said something about her texting me the information, which she did later that day. Long story short, i ended up telling her she was a " mysterious" figure because she usually never talks to anyone in class. So i started to play a little Q's game, nothing serious. I just asked what she enjoyed to do, and we had a good laugh about it. George asked her if she spit or swallowed, and she just laughed and said " it depends." we go more into this, and just generally joke around. She also lives pretty close to me, a few blocks away, so that's always good.

Look wise, katie has a " cute " face, but her personally says something else. I wouldn't say slutty, but its not very modest either. She is a white girl, with two front teeth that are pretty messed up. She's short, and a brunette, def not the cutest girl in our school and whatnot. When my friend asked her about the spitting or swallowing, i couldnt help but fantasize about her going down on me, and then her expecting the favor to be returned, and katie doesnt seem like the type of girl i would want to go down on. shes been around, if u know what i mean.

EDIT: And yea stay away from the katie chick

 

[BongDuy]

2.6.09 Friday

Liz
So heres the background history behind me and Liz. During my sophmore/ Junior year we had the same English teacher. Liz dropped the class within a few weeks though because that English lady was crazy, like a grammar Nazi. During this time, I actually got to met her through a mutual friends of ours, by doing an impresison from the movie " Pink panther" ( Where the hamburger scene took place). She loved it and from there we've said hello in the hallways a bunch of times. She is friends with some of my good chick friends as well, and we sometimes talk, but nothing serious. Things are starting to change.

They have this thing at school for V-day where you can send a candy gram ( Rose, Card, and Candy ) and she was part of the sales group, so maybe she was just trying to make a sale. She comes up to me and tells me to buy a candy gram, and I say something general, something like " You should buy me one, it would be nice for a guy to get roses for a change" I dont remember exactly. We actually ended up making a "deal" that was basically, you buy me a rose, I'll buy you a rose.

Well im not really interested in the rose at all. I was actually thinking of making a move on this girl ( When I say making a move, I dont mean kamikazi kiss her, but like, show her my A game lol ) When I was working out in the gym with my coach, We saw liz and she walked up to hug me. she went into the other room to just do whatever and when I left the gym with my coach, I saw her laying around by herself in the wrestling room. I just looked at her and said " What are you doing all by yourself?" and she replied " nothing just feeling sick" and i continued walking since I was skipping my physics class. ( My coach pulls me out of my 2nd hour to go workout, and I had to get back to class, which is the reason why i didn't stop to talk to her. I think she was on the phone as well, i couldn't tell, her hair was in the way, but her hand was next to her ear like she was talking to someone )

As we walked, My coach actually asked me about her and I just replied " She's cute, but we don't talk like that" When he asked why not, I couldn't give him an answer. She's cute and we always flirt when we do talk, so why not make her my current target? Liz is a spanish girl, maybe a little chubby, but thats not a big deal. She has curley hair, a high pitched voice and is very flirty as far as im concerned. She actually won Homecoming Queen, but she isn't that drop dead gorgeous, she's just a bit popular. I would give her a 6-7.

She actually messaged me on FB about our " deal"

Her: dnt forgett our deal duy
me : haha why don't you just buy me a dozen roses?
her: why dnt you,,yur the dude
her: lol
me : If you buy me flowers i'll makie it up to you
her: wat 10yrs laterr,,
me : haha yeah when we're on our honeymoon in Hawaii
her : whoooahh=)),,
me : I already know you have like 5 guys buying your candy grams, you player
her : guys say they like you but wen it comes to givingg,, they back off,, cheap assesss lmao
me : well im not cheap and im def not self fish
her: yahhp ikno=D

Thinking about it now, that convo might of been super cheesy. I especially laugh at myself for being so lame to say that last sentence, because that **** is so lame. I just want to talk to her, i'll probably work on getting her number after this weekend, because i dont really want to ask her for her number on FB. I'll keep you updated on her.