My senior year and field reports

[eaglez1177]

Actually I dont have spring break for another two weeks...I have been enjoying a couple of my best friends birthdays though

 

[BongDuy]

3/30/10 day 5? of spring break

So im on facebook and Anna sends me a message. heres the conversation.

Anna

you douchebag!
6:45pmDuy

thats not nice
6:45pmAnna

you're not nice :/:/
6:46pmDuy

well what did i do wrong
6:47pmAnna

not answer me when I was at the beach >:[
6:47pmDuy

i was in the water

by the time i got back to my phone, it was about 4 hours later.
6:49pmAnna

you didn't even tell me when you got there :{
6:49pmDuy

haha okay okay, ill give you that

i spent 45 minutes trying to park, and when i finally got out, i just wanted to use the bathroom.

i drank a lot of water..
6:50pmAnna

I hope it hurt! haha did you park at a meter?
6:50pmDuy

hell no,

we ended up in the car garage
6:52pmAnna

where is that?

6:52pmDuy
across the street from 7/11

next building

6:57pmAnna

:/:/ it's free though right?
6:58pmDuy

lol no

it cost money.
6:59pmAnna

that's gay

how much?
6:59pmDuy

lol why so many questions? do you plan to park there when you drive us to the beach next time?
7:00pmAnna

yeah
7:07pmDuy

brb

long story short, i come back and the conversation doesn't last long. I actually find myself debating whether or not i should try to talk to this girl. for some reason, i think the fact that she has crazy color hair, or yellow teeth, but it makes me think of her smelling like ass. like, i'm under the impression she has bad hygiene or some crazyness like that. sometimes i think im crazy lol, for the most part. if anything, maybe i'll just try to talk to her, for "practice". I mean, just someone to socialize with. maybe get some more " interactions ", but idk. so far, it seems like all attachment that was once there, is now gone and i have no clue why.

 

[BongDuy]

4/6/10 Schools back

So its the first day of spring break. Nothing too interesting happens here, but during lunch i did run into " Homicide "

Im walking out of the cafeteria with my good friend george and he starts complaining about how he needs to take a piss. I look to my left as i walk out and I see Homicide sitting alone on a bench. I tell my friend george to take his piss and i'll meet up with him later, as i walk straight towards her.
I greet her with a " whats up homicide??" and we begin to talk. I ask her about her spring break, to get some small talk going and it works well. I end up saying " whats the matter? too busy for cod?" and we start talking. I basically just joke around with her about how she must have a brother to have such a high k/d ratio ( how nerdy)
She tells me she hung out with her bro at lazer tag and sh1t, and i told her she probably camps there too. we talk for a bit and she asks " what time will u b on?" and i replied " well i have a game today * flash my jersey* so ill probably be on around 7" and she asks what sport and i replied " volleyball". she tries to tease me be saying "eugh, volleyball" and i tease her about how she probably sucks at that sport too. i don't stay long but i notice that she doesn't look me in the eyes as much. maybe it was because she was sitting down on a bench, while i stood infront of her, pretty much towering over her. maybe she was nervous. she was still talking to me as she made split second eye contact with me, but quickly looked away, and around as she was talking to me. tomorrow, i will probably see her and ill try to get a number close and actually get a date kind of thing going because she isnt responding well to the cod invites lol

 

[eaglez1177]

Ooh this convo screams of neediness...ill explain

3/30/10 day 5? of spring break

So im on facebook and Anna sends me a message. heres the conversation.

Anna

you douchebag!
6:45pmDuy

thats not nice
6:45pmAnna

you're not nice :/:/
6:46pmDuy

well what did i do wrong
6:47pmAnna

not answer me when I was at the beach >:[so you pretty much told her she wasnt nice because she didnt answer you. Saying that shows that since she didnt answer you, it affected you emotionally, and she realizes this now that you mentioned it. Think of it as this: If a girl flaked on a date you set up with her, would you go to her the next day, call her out on it and say she wasnt nice? Absolutely not. (at least I hope you wouldnt) Now do you see how it comes off as needy and sorta pathetic?

If a girl doesnt answer you for some reason, then its HER LOSS! Dont bring it back up to her! Instead, just pretend like it didnt happen and move on. Its not big enough of a deal that you have to address it.
6:47pmDuy

i was in the water

by the time i got back to my phone, it was about 4 hours later.
6:49pmAnna

you didn't even tell me when you got there :{why should she have to tell you? What are you her husband? Certainly not lol. This is just as bad as the comment you made above.
6:49pmDuy

haha okay okay, ill give you that

i spent 45 minutes trying to park, and when i finally got out, i just wanted to use the bathroom.

i drank a lot of water..
6:50pmAnna

I hope it hurt! haha did you park at a meter?
6:50pmDuy

hell no,

we ended up in the car garage
6:52pmAnna

where is that?

6:52pmDuy
across the street from 7/11

next building

6:57pmAnna

:/:/ it's free though right?
6:58pmDuy

lol no

it cost money.
6:59pmAnna

that's gay

how much?
6:59pmDuy

lol why so many questions? do you plan to park there when you drive us to the beach next time?
7:00pmAnna

yeah
7:07pmDuy

brb

long story short, i come back and the conversation doesn't last long. I actually find myself debating whether or not i should try to talk to this girl. for some reason, i think the fact that she has crazy color hair, or yellow teeth, but it makes me think of her smelling like ass. like, i'm under the impression she has bad hygiene or some crazyness like that. sometimes i think im crazy lol, for the most part. if anything, maybe i'll just try to talk to her, for "practice". I mean, just someone to socialize with. maybe get some more " interactions ", but idk. so far, it seems like all attachment that was once there, is now gone and i have no clue why.

 

[eaglez1177]

Lets see...

4/6/10 Schools back

So its the first day of spring break. Nothing too interesting happens here, but during lunch i did run into " Homicide "

Im walking out of the cafeteria with my good friend george and he starts complaining about how he needs to take a piss. I look to my left as i walk out and I see Homicide sitting alone on a bench. I tell my friend george to take his piss and i'll meet up with him later, as i walk straight towards her.
I greet her with a " whats up homicide??"that a nickname lol? and we begin to talk. I ask her about her spring break, to get some small talk going and it works well. I end up saying " whats the matter? too busy for cod?" and we start talking. I basically just joke around with her about how she must have a brother to have such a high k/d ratio ( how nerdy)i think i remember this girl, you mentioned her a while back
She tells me she hung out with her bro at lazer tag and sh1t, and i told her she probably camps there too. we talk for a bit and she asks " what time will u b on?" and i replied " well i have a game today * flash my jersey* so ill probably be on around 7" and she asks what sport and i replied " volleyball". she tries to tease me be saying "eugh, volleyball" and i tease her about how she probably sucks at that sport too. i don't stay long but i notice that she doesn't look me in the eyes as much. maybe it was because she was sitting down on a bench, while i stood infront of her, pretty much towering over her.sit down next to her! maybe she was nervous. she was still talking to me as she made split second eye contact with me, but quickly looked away, and around as she was talking to me. tomorrow, i will probably see her and ill try to get a number close and actually get a date kind of thing going because she isnt responding well to the cod invites lollol

 

[sageproduct]

Lol eaglez for the "needy" conversation, I think you mixed up who was saying what...it was "Anna" who was saying all the needy things

 

[BongDuy]

Lol eaglez for the "needy" conversation, I think you mixed up who was saying what...it was "Anna" who was saying all the needy things

this

EDIT: and as for "Homicide" it's that girl's psn. You're right, i should of sat next to her, but i figured standing infront of her allowed me to look directly at her eyes or whatever. but its rare that shes ever alone like that, usually shes with 2 of her friends. I should of taken advantage and tried to make a connection

 

[eaglez1177]

Lol ohh haha woops...I had a feeling that I mightve mixed them up. I thought all the stuff each person said had their name underneath it instead of above it.

 

[BongDuy]

4/09/10

"Homicide" That gaming girl

so today i see her sitting pretty much by herself, so i approach her during lunch. i greet her with a " wuddup homicidee!" and get a lil handshake slap thing going. i sit next to her and start talking. i think im in there for like 10 minutes, talking about all sorts of things. just me talking a lot of smack, and whatever. I find out shes really into her Art, so that can be something we can always talk about. maybe she can show me a thing or two. during the conversation, we had mutual friends come in and out, and i happily invited them into the conversation, since they were pretty easy going people, and i figured it would help the convo flow better, since more people means less pressure for me to say something to keep the flow going.

anyways, i end up getting her number because she says " oh just let me know when you're on." and i say " oh well punch your number in and i'll call you/text you". i hand over the phone, and i noticed that she resisted and said " no. ill tell you my number" at first i thought it was just her playing a test on me. like really, why couldn't she punch the number in?

well it turns out this girl, who's name is Donnie, has megan fox features, like her freakin TOE THUMBS. it was kind of gross and creepy, but i managed to keep myself in character and not freak out or some sh1t, and i get her digits. i stay for a nother minute and talk for a bit and head off.

Heres the weird thing. One of my mutual friends who came into the conversation left before i left. After I got Donnie's number, i walked off and noticed him walking towards me, comming from the vending machine. he looks at me with a sly grin and says " duy, my dawg! i saw you totally get her digits" and i just smile and laugh.

I saw him later on in gym during my 6th period, and he started teling me what happen when he walked back to donnie. he said something like " she knew what you were trying to do." I replied " what was that?" he said " she told me it was so obvious, since you asked for her number and everything."

I figured it was a good thing then, because she gave me her real number. I know this because she told me to call her, so she could save my number, since she doesn't answer to random digits that call her. I feel happy about the number close, since it was pretty simple and easy, but damn im confused whether i like this girl or not. she's got pretty bad teeth, toe thumbs, and a ghetto attitude. but my friend actually told me she is a freak, so maybe who knows. i like the way she walks anyways

 

[eaglez1177]

Im gonna be in mexico for a week and gotta get up at five am tomorrow and i gotta pack now so unfortunately i wont have time to go thru ur latest post...see you all here on SS in about a week!

 

[BongDuy]

"Toe thumbs" lol. My friend has them, it's kinda freaky.

What kind of date are you planning with homicide/Donnie?

If I ever do decide I wanted to hang out with her, i could go anywhere. Around my area is a really cool spot across the street from the school. it has a pool table, ping pong table, Tetherball court, basketball court and all sorts of things. Just go there, get to know her, kino, and test the water. see if she has anything more than those toe thumbs. as far as im concerned she is a pretty ghetto girl, she actually has this video of her shaking her ass on youtube, which is kinda a turn on, but makes me realize that this girl is the farthest thing from a girlfriend material girl.

 

[sageproduct]

she actually has this video of her shaking her ass on youtube

Alright man, you knew you had it coming...link please. lol

 

[Mr.Freestyler19]

Alright man, you knew you had it coming...link please. lol

+1 lol

 

[eaglez1177]

Alright man, you knew you had it coming...link please. lol

Hahahaha ya +1

 

[BongDuy]

4/21/10

Okay guys so heres the reason why i've been missing in actions. What im about to tell you will make most of you disappointed, especially those who really follow these " rules and guidelines". I haven't posted anything on SS because i've been chasing my Ex girlfriend, Monica. Long story short, I learned a lot. I learned if inside your gut, you feel something is wrong, chances are it truely is. Im not ashamed to say i chased after my ex, because I finally got it out of my system. I never posted anything about how i felt, but i missed her dearly, and let's just say the past week that i've been going after her, i gave it everything i had. I got it all out of my system. I found out shes going out with a " friend " of mine, so all i can say is " im glad im finally over you. " and move on.

Ninja
On the bright side, i went no contact on that " Ninja" girl for the longest time. Sometimes we would make eye contact, but i would look away. Yesterday, I was walking after the lunch bell had rang and found myself surrounded by people as i tried to get into the main building. I noticed the Ninja girl was infront of me, and this freshmen girl named Lee, pushed me towards her. I turned to Lee, smiled and said " hey! you can't be pushing me into strangers!". Just as I said that, Ninja girl peaked over at me, smiled, and smack my arm, giving me a smile and a "hello". I returned the favor by saying " heyy ninja! i like that shirt on you" and we basically left it at that. I didn't really pursue like i wanted to, but let's just say i will talk to her for sure tomorrow or friday and i will def number close her.

That was yesterday. Today she was missing in school, but i plan to talk to her, i think she might be more " freaky " than most of the other girls i've taked about. I have a good feeling about this chick. there are less than 25 days of school left, and now is not the time to get attached to any girls, since im going to visit My homeland Vietnam for 5 weeks the day after graduation. It's time to really have fun


EDIT: for all you gguys wanting to see homicide, here it is.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jpp6doW07qQ

The only white girl in the video. anyways, Enjoy. I stopped talking to her because there was no chemistry and im not down with the toe thumbs.

 

[eaglez1177]

Hahaha wow holy sh*t i dont even know what to say about that video. Dude I feel kinda bad for you if those are the type of girls that go to your school lmao.

4/21/10

Okay guys so heres the reason why i've been missing in actions. What im about to tell you will make most of you disappointed, especially those who really follow these " rules and guidelines". I haven't posted anything on SS because i've been chasing my Ex girlfriend, Monica. Long story short, I learned a lot. I learned if inside your gut, you feel something is wrong, chances are it truely isYea you got that right. Im not ashamed to say i chased after my ex, because I finally got it out of my system. I never posted anything about how i felt, but i missed her dearly, and let's just say the past week that i've been going after her, i gave it everything i had. I got it all out of my system. I found out shes going out with a " friend " of mine, so all i can say is " im glad im finally over you. " and move on. Hey well you definitely made a mistake by chasing her, but at least your learned from this mistake

Ninja
On the bright side, i went no contact on that " Ninja" girl for the longest time. Sometimes we would make eye contact, but i would look away. Yesterday, I was walking after the lunch bell had rang and found myself surrounded by people as i tried to get into the main building. I noticed the Ninja girl was infront of me, and this freshmen girl named Lee, pushed me towards her. I turned to Lee, smiled and said " hey! you can't be pushing me into strangers!". Just as I said that, Ninja girl peaked over at me, smiled, and smack my arm, giving me a smile and a "hello". I returned the favor by saying " heyy ninja! i like that shirt on you" and we basically left it at that. I didn't really pursue like i wanted to, but let's just say i will talk to her for sure tomorrow or friday and i will def number close her.

That was yesterday. Today she was missing in school, but i plan to talk to her, i think she might be more " freaky " than most of the other girls i've taked about. I have a good feeling about this chick. there are less than 25 days of school left, and now is not the time to get attached to any girls, since im going to visit My homeland Vietnam for 5 weeks the day after graduation. It's time to really have fun


EDIT: for all you gguys wanting to see homicide, here it is.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jpp6doW07qQ

The only white girl in the video. anyways, Enjoy. I stopped talking to her because there was no chemistry and im not down with the toe thumbs.

 

[BongDuy]

4/30/10


So nothing too great has happen so far. there also comes a point where i feel like these Field reports aren't helping me as much as they used to. it's just me though, i find myself still happy and content with my life.

I noticed that im not as talkative as i would like to be, but heres the weird part. Im perfectly fine with it. I realized im not like my friend George, who always interacts with people and can keep a conversation fresh with people. I've learned how to communicate pretty well, and can hold my own weight in a conversation since day 1 of starting this, but i feel like i like being a little reserved. im discovering myself a little more. instead of always going around during lunch and talking to everyone i see, i just simply smile and say hello, and ill sit next to them, and just interact whenever i feel like it. Anyways heres the deal with the girls.

Ninja
So yesterday we had a girls vs boy volleyball team thing going on and she was there. During the game we didn't talk at all though, which was because we were seperated. infact, i didn't really get to say anything to her after the game either, because my coach wanted us to put the net away and move all this volleyball stuff out into the storage room, since the season was finally over. Before I had a chance, Ninja walked out and disappeared. heres the worse part, i don't even see her in school anymore, shes totally a ghost. I ended up going to Blondie, who usually hangs out with her and asked " I haven't seen your friend ninja in a while. where is she?" and she replied " she hangs out on the other side of the school now. why u like her?" and i replied " ehh.. id hit it though" which was a huge mistake on my part. i laugh about it now that i think about it, but i wish i said something more honest like " I think shes cute".

If i ever see her i would love to talk to her... I mean, i could really " hunt " her down, but i think thats a little creepy, and id rather just let it flow. I would however love to get her number before i leave, so we can still keep in contact, because chances are i will never see her again after i graduate.

Talia
Here is this girl i've known since my middle school years. Infact I used to tease the hell out of her in middle shcool by calling her " Big nose " and running away while she chased me. Recently, I saw her sitting next to my friends in the multi cultural show, and i ended up talking to her through my friends, but i didn't make it a goal or anything. I would just make her laugh at some jokes i made between my friends. Ever since then, we've said "hello" during the hallways. She is a short, Spanish girl, black hair, pretty cute. I didn't think too much of her until today, when i was skipping in my 7th hour, which she happen to be in and i spent most of it just talking to my friends. I ended up leaving with a pass to turn some service hours in, and next thing i Know Talia comes out of the corner of the room, just to talk to me.. The conversation wasn't sexual or anything interesting, but it was the most randomest thing, about how she could of joined National honor society... I just talked to her for a bit, and left. maybe an IOI. I'll find out soon.

 

[BongDuy]

So not much has happen with any of the girls i posted about. Nothing worth mentioning anyways since the only girl at school i would consider talking to is "ninja" and i haven't seen her at all.

However last night I did meet this pretty cute white girl. Her name Is Shelby, but she is super shy. She graduated from my school last year, and she isn't anything to spectacular when it comes to looks. she has that " book worm" appearance, but who knows maybe shes a freak or something. Basically, I met her through a group of friends while at the movies for Iron man 2. When I saw her I basically opened up to her by saying " hey, don't you hang out with Tony ( a mutual friend) often?" and she just said " yeah. Im shelby btw" and after that, she pretty much shut herself off from the friends and everything. like I said Super quiet. I didn't have much of a chance to talk to her because we got there a few minutes before the show, so everyone just went straight to the theatre, and i went to take a piss. When i get to the movies, I see my friends split up, and Shelby is uptop with one group, and my other friends who drove me here sat near the bottom, and insist that i sit with her. I thought to myself " fvck it" and started walking to sit next to shelby, who was again, by herself but with an empty seat next to her.

Before I got to sit down, i literally took a wiff of what smelled like someone literally sh1t all over the seat, and back off, pretty much hitting the fastest 180 turn to the bottom row with my other friends. As I take a seat, the movie starts and i really wish i invited shelby to come sit with me, but i ended up forgetting all about it.

The place was packed and i didn't feel like walking all the way back up there just to invite her down. By the time the movie is over, people are everywhere, and i just exist and meet up with the people who originally drove me to the movies. I didn't get a chance to really talk to this shy girl because she stayed to watch a special "scene" at the end of the movie with my other group of friends, but I will next time when the time is right. The only problem is I think i forgot to introduce myself to her, so i dont think she knows my name.. lol

EDIT: Oh I almost forgot to mention prom. Believe it or not, I actually ended up rejecting girls left and right because they kept asking me to take them to prom. If it wasn't a girl asking me to prom, their friends would tell me to take them. I honestly had no interest whats so ever taking any of these girls to go, and i was actually tempted to just go by myself. Then I talk to these two girls who are good friends and the next thing i know, im going to prom with 2 girls. this was a week or something ago, and one of the girls thought they found a real "date" so she dipped. Funny thing was things didn't work out, so she wanted to go with me and the other girl. I honestly don't care, To be completely honest im deep in the friend zone with these girls, and im only going with them because it was a 2 for 1 package deal, so it'll look good when i get my Prom photo haha

 

[BongDuy]

prom

So let's cut the bullsh1t. Did I get laid? nope. did i get ANY action from any of the girls i wanted? nope. But I still had a good time at prom and after, which i hosted a mini get together and i was very surprised to see it work out and come together so well. heres the deal

Liz
I had 2 dates. We'll call one of them Liz and one of the Nina. We go there and immediately, I notice Liz is telling me to hold onto her so she doesn't look " alone " to this guy named "Manny". almost immediately, I feel super stupid for following her for the first 5 minutes. So immediately, i realized she was just using me to not look "alone" at prom. she ended up dancing with me almost all night, including at the slow dance. It didn't really bother me that she was crazy about this " manny " guy because it seemed like her prom night was ruined by the fact that he ditched her to go alone. there was this one point in the slow dance where she was dancing with me, and she obviously was looking for "manny" while we were dancing. I think she saw him or wanted to find him because she said " hey, ill be RIGHHTTT back." i didn't want to be some nice guy so i told her " stay with me until the song is over." she listens up and immediately starts tearing up. I just pretended not to notice and kept dancing with her.

If that wasn't bad enough, she started crying on the way home because how "manny" doesn't care about her. Like she sat in the middle with us, and she just started to get real quiet. Then she leaned her head on my shoulder, and i leaned my head ontop of her head. I eventually held hands with her, and i know you guys might be thinking that i could of made a move, im going to be honest. I didn't feel it in my gut, like it wasn't the proper time. If theres anything i've learned is that my instincts and gut feelings are more logical than my brain sometimes ( im not sure if thats a bad thing or not) but we did that for a bit. She got dropped home first because she couldn't stay out.

before i go on about my other date, prom itself wasn't bad. like the food could of been worse, but we had this awesome DJ play some good music and I was pretty much always on the dance floor with a girl. if not, i was still having a good ass time with my friends just being stupid and laughing at other people. no one snuck in booze or any drugs, so most people were sober and just doing there thing.

Nina
So heres the deal with nina. im super deep in the friend zone, that sh1t isnt even funny. I never realized it until now, but she has like no sexual desire for me at all. I danced with her plenty at prom, but when we got back to my place to drink, i was doing all sorts of kino. I was holding onto her waist, and just holding her with my arms. as the night went on and i got more drunk, i started to kiss her shoulder and back. she never did take it from there. Im actually surprised she didn't tell me to stop, because I was making all the moves. You know how they say that you make a move( like kino ) and then you take it away until the girl sends back some kino of her own? yeah she didn't do that at all lol, but i guess she didn't mind either because she didn't tell me to stop.

Nina, her sister, and her sister's boyfriend, and I actually went streaking after we played a game of ring of fire. The sad part was no one really got butt naked, but Nina did go in a G string only, and you guys can bet your ass I copped a feel lol. We would just fall in the grass, while the sprinklers were going off, and i wrapped my arms around her. she covered her boobs up still, but i just rubbed the side of her boob, waist, and ass. Again, she didn't even return the favor, so i figured it wouldn't be worth making a move and having an awkward friendship from there. I actually ended up cuddling with her to sleep, and i hope i didn't pop a boner on her while i was out, beacuse when i woke up everyone was gone and my mom was telling me about some puke outside.

Long story short, I learned my parents are actually a lot cooler than I thought. When I came home with my 3 friends, she took it very well saying " spend the night, dont drink and drive" and " if i knew, i would of cooked some food up" which i thouhgt was pretty funny. I love my mommy =)

The night was awesome, it always seems like those unplanned nights turn out so much better. maybe beacuse there is no expectation. Either way, I have a hang over and i've got some cleaning to do. I also got to feel and see some nice ass tits, so i think its better than nothing.

 

[eaglez1177]

K lets see...

prom

So let's cut the bullsh1t. Did I get laid? nope. did i get ANY action from any of the girls i wanted? nope. But I still had a good time at prom and after, which i hosted a mini get together and i was very surprised to see it work out and come together so well. heres the deal

Liz
I had 2 dates. We'll call one of them Liz and one of the Nina. We go there and immediately, I notice Liz is telling me to hold onto her so she doesn't look " alone " to this guy named "Manny". almost immediately, I feel super stupid for following her for the first 5 minutes. So immediately, i realized she was just using me to not look "alone" at prom she ended up dancing with me almost all night, including at the slow dance.yea she was totally using you It didn't really bother me that she was crazy about this " manny " guy because it seemed like her prom night was ruined by the fact that he ditched her to go alone. there was this one point in the slow dance where she was dancing with me, and she obviously was looking for "manny" while we were dancing. I think she saw him or wanted to find him because she said " hey, ill be RIGHHTTT back." i didn't want to be some nice guy so i told her " stay with me until the song is over." she listens up and immediately starts tearing up. I just pretended not to notice and kept dancing with her. as soon as you saw her look around for that other guy, you shouldve bailed immediately on her. Heck, if you knew she was using you, why would you let her do that?

If that wasn't bad enough, she started crying on the way home because how "manny" doesn't care about her. Like she sat in the middle with us, and she just started to get real quiet. Then she leaned her head on my shoulder, and i leaned my head ontop of her head. I eventually held hands with her, and i know you guys might be thinking that i could of made a move, im going to be honest.ughh no man! your her fvcking emotional tampon!! I didn't feel it in my gut, like it wasn't the proper time. If theres anything i've learned is that my instincts and gut feelings are more logical than my brain sometimes ( im not sure if thats a bad thing or not) but we did that for a bit. She got dropped home first because she couldn't stay out.you shouldve avoided that girl since the beginning, shes just a load of drama and bullsh*t

before i go on about my other date, prom itself wasn't bad. like the food could of been worse, but we had this awesome DJ play some good music and I was pretty much always on the dance floor with a girl. if not, i was still having a good ass time with my friends just being stupid and laughing at other people. no one snuck in booze or any drugs, so most people were sober and just doing there thing.

Nina
So heres the deal with nina. im super deep in the friend zone, that sh1t isnt even funny. I never realized it until now, but she has like no sexual desire for me at all. I danced with her plenty at prom, but when we got back to my place to drink, i was doing all sorts of kino. I was holding onto her waist, and just holding her with my arms. as the night went on and i got more drunk, i started to kiss her shoulder and back. she never did take it from there. Im actually surprised she didn't tell me to stop, because I was making all the moves. You know how they say that you make a move( like kino ) and then you take it away until the girl sends back some kino of her own? yeah she didn't do that at all lol, but i guess she didn't mind either because she didn't tell me to stop. Lol i know what this is like. I actually went to a party this past friday and was too wasted to get with a girl cuz all i was doing was just being sloppy and coming onto her wayy too hard. Still though, if she hasnt given you any resistance, then why stop? It seems like you just psyched yourself out into thinking that since she wasnt reciprocating, she wasnt interested. The fact that she didnt back off wouldve came across as a definite IOI to me.

Nina, her sister, and her sister's boyfriend, and I actually went streaking after we played a game of ring of fire.Lol omg The sad part was no one really got butt naked, but Nina did go in a G string only, and you guys can bet your ass I copped a feel lol.Hahah We would just fall in the grass, while the sprinklers were going off, and i wrapped my arms around her. she covered her boobs up still, but i just rubbed the side of her boob, waist, and ass. Again, she didn't even return the favor, so i figured it wouldn't be worth making a move and having an awkward friendship from there.Ahh see what i mean? So what if you knew you were in the friend zone! So what if she didnt reciprocate! She went along with it, didnt back off, and didnt give any resistance! And even if she did give some resistance, you cant give up after one try!! I think you couldve gotten some action from this girl, especially if you two were almost butt naked I actually ended up cuddling with her to sleep, and i hope i didn't pop a boner on her while i was out, beacuse when i woke up everyone was gone and my mom was telling me about some puke outside.

Long story short, I learned my parents are actually a lot cooler than I thought. When I came home with my 3 friends, she took it very well saying " spend the night, dont drink and drive" and " if i knew, i would of cooked some food up" which i thouhgt was pretty funny. I love my mommy =)

The night was awesome, it always seems like those unplanned nights turn out so much better. maybe beacuse there is no expectation. Either way, I have a hang over and i've got some cleaning to do. I also got to feel and see some nice ass tits, so i think its better than nothing.But you couldve gotten more! Listen to yourself man. It sounds so AFCish when a guy settles for something so little and insignificant, like touching a girls boobs or ass. The only thing runnin thru my mind now is the image of some weirdo afc going to his friends saying "hey guys guess what!? I actually touched a girls boobs and butt last night!!""Ohh wow cool man your so lucky!"

catch my drift? You cant be content and happy with something that is just really minor and insignificant. Heck, if ya hooked up with her or got a bj, then yeah its definitely cool to give yourself some props, but imo, I think its wrong when a guy gets all worked up and happy over the littlest things. Always strive for more and try to achieve as much as you possibly can rather than settle for the small things.