3/24/10
Megan ( Blondie)
So she now has a boyfriend. I still talk to her, but im going to slowly break up contact, so i dont get friend zoned until the relationship is over, if it ever is.
Ps3 girl.
So last night, I had a dream that me and this girl were hanging out... for whatever reason, this really motivated me to talk to her. I kept thinking about ways to open up to her. With one of Mystery's time constrants? ( "I can't stay long...blahblahblah") or be very direct? ( I think you're really cute, i just had to come over and say sometihng") I decided I wanted to talk to her during lunch because thats when i actually get a chance to see her for more than a split second.
Like ive said before, ive always found it better to not overthink things and worry prior to approaching a chick. It never adds benefit to the situation. Just go in there with a clear mind and say whatever comes to you. Its gotta be natural.
After I ate, I saw her. I looked at her surroundings and this is what I saw. She was sitting at the bench, with two black girls, who weren't ghetto. I have had classes with the 2 black girls, and they are very quiet and shy. I see a good gym friend of mine named Francis, and he is just standing there. I decide I wanted to talk to him and eventually say something to The ps3 girl.
I talk to him for a few seconds, and then i look over at his friends. I immediately noticed that a pair of green eyes were staring right into me. I then realize its the ps3 girl. I simply look her back in the eyes, and say something similar to " whats up? something wrong?" and she stares at me for a few more seconds, and kinda squints at me, almost like she was trying to " figure me" out. then she finally says " I whooped u in call of duty". I kinda laugh and play dumb, saying " .... who are you? whats your psn?" we talk for a bit, but it doesn't go as " planned"
Having "plans" never work, and if you try to have a plan, it never goes as planned. It actually ends up being a lot of trash talk about how she used a heartbeat sensor, and camps. But get this, here is where i get really confused and surprised. When I call her a camper, she stands up, walks away, and gets super " ghetto" on me. she basically is hitting her fists while saying " oh my god! you know how i feel about campers, dawg! " and she goes on about it. Im standing there like, holy sh1t, when did this white girl get so " urban?"
shes prolly just jokin around
She ends up talking a bit of trash, saying how i was the biggest sh1t talker when she was playing Free for all in our private match ( which i def wasn't lol ) so id take that as an IOI. I end up walking away, confused on how to continue this conversation without getting super nerdy about call of duty. Ill probably see her tomorrow and i'll talk to her then. I really want to quickly get out of this " cod " talk, and find a way to build a comfortable rapport date ( which is basically when you find sometihng in common to do, and hang out and do that thing you share in common. If anything, i'll take her to this nice chill spot that has a pool table, air hockey, a couch, and a tetherball.etcetcetc)
seems to me like right now the only thing you have in common is playing call of duty lol. I know its weird, but some girls are just into video game and are a little strange. If I was in your shoes, and truly wanted to get ass from this chick, I wouldnt worry about other things to say. I would just keep going with what has been working so far, and build off it. Just because the conversation is about video games doesnt mean you cant throw in stuff like c &f, neg hits, kino, all that.
To be honest, I think your best off inviting her over your place, bragging about how your going to whoop her in call of duty. I know you can get some EASY kino in there too. I mean just off the top of my head I could think of a bunch of ways to kino a chick im playin video games with. She kills you, give her a playful push, you kill her, give her a playful push sayin how she sucks, she kills you, lean over and try to sit back on her so she cant see. Or make contests like "if you kill me i'll let ya kiss me". If she agrees, kill or no kill its an easy hookup. Stuff like that. Really easy.
no number close and no true rapport built. but atleast i know who she is and she knows who i am, so we can now talk without it being so " cold."
A series of odd events.
So im walking around during my 5th period to deliver boxes to classes all around schools for a thing called Penny Wars, and i walk into a science building with a teacher and i see two F.O.B ( fresh off the boat)
lol Hatian girls. they look at me, giggle, and say something in Kreo. ( spellcheck) i look confused as they repeat it, and eventually they come out in a very thick accent voice and say " you're cute" and they giggle to each other. I couldn't figure out anything to say, and i doubt they'd understand anything ****y n funny, so i replied " thanks.". not my type of girls so i leave it at that.
once you go black you never go back
another weird thing was when i was walking around trying to find food to each before volleyball practice afterschool. Im walking around, and i see an old friend. she runs up to me and says " heyyy!" and we hug. we talk for a bit about bs, and i get a text message in my pocket. I pull my phone out and take a look at the phone. I read the message and its nothing important but a question from a friend. She looks at me surprised and says " oh your phone? you want me to put my number in your phone?" and i reply " sure.. if u want."
Lol dumb question. Of course she wants to, why else would she ask? After she punches it in, i get my snack, and say goodbye. I then realize i don't even remember her name. She is a pretty " thick" black girl, and yes i would probably hit it, but never bring her back to meet the family. Shes alright, but shes always been kinda annoyingly flirty. like she would always flirt, but never do anything besides talk talk talk and try to give me blu balls.