Mixed Signals But Consistent Lays. High IL or Low IL?

jamesfromhouston

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There's a plate of mine that has been giving a lot of mixed signals as of late.

We have hooked up several times. In person, she's all kino ( touching me, intimate, etc.), very receptive.

But after our hangouts, she does a 180, disappears and acts distant.

Often when I ask her out, she will even outright ignore me or give me the dreaded "I'll let you know" (sometimes replying me 24 hours later with a yes or no).

I've been trying to determine her IL. I've always believed a girl with high IL will not make things confusing for you.

But at the same time, we have consistently hooked up.

What are your thoughts?

How do you deal with a plate with mixed signals? (Or one that potentially is playing games.)
 

Vanderdonck

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Not a mixed signal - she just wants the D. Are you wanting more than casual sex with her?
 

AmsterdamAssassin

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Sounds like you're her backdoor man.
 

Clockwerk50

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You are her plate.

How to deal with that? Assume that when she reaches out she wants to see you and proceed accordingly.
 
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