Originally posted by Eileen
This site is like a train wreck. It's horrible in many ways, but I can't seem to look away ...
There are a few men on this board who know what they are talking about and I offer them good advice. The others, well, if I’m treated like the enemy I’m going have fun with it. Sorry, I’m just a bytch like that.
1. first of all:
VII. Asking Foxes For Seduction Advice
The problem with asking a Fox for seduction advice is that in doing so you have conveyed to her a very fatal seduction flaw. Foxes want men who know how to seduce them! They want to be led, captivated, and unless they are Teaching Foxes, they are going to place you in the loser file the moment you complain about failure. It is important to convey to Foxes at all times, nonverbally whenever possible, that you are knowledgeable and in control. Foxes gravitate to men who have other Foxes around them, even as friends, figuring that if other Foxes want him, there must be a good reason. The logic is flawed, but it is the flip side of the problem men who are alone have. If men without Foxes are seen as losers who cannot get laid, men with Foxes are seen as winners who can. If you convey that you know how to seduce Foxes and act like they aren't worth seducing, you are three-quarters of the way home. It takes only one moment of weakness for the entire confidence posture to fail. Should this happen, recover as quickly as possible, but damage control is very difficult, and usually not worth it. Foxes rarely forgive mistakes.
Over time -- especially as the Foxes you talk about seducing become more real and less a product of your fantasy -- it will become second nature. You do not have to lie, even in the beginning. Just knowing you want a Fox is enough to send the non-Elites into a hissy fit because they lose their power over you, and to have other Foxes respecting your high standards. Foxes advise men to do what they want them to do, not what men truly want for themselves. What do you suppose would happen if a man advised a non-Elite who wanted a boyfriend to lose weight, dress sexier, and be more aggressive? It more acceptable for men to accommodate female fantasies than the reverse. The feminist groups who decry erotica and adult movies for portraying Foxes unrealistically are conspicuously silent on female porn, namely romance novels and soap operas, which portray men doing equally unrealistic things like desiring monogamy, remembering birthdays, and taking their shirts off for no apparent reason. Substitute the female romantic drive for the male sex drive, and suddenly you have perfect gender equality in pornography.
2. Secondly since your not all that fine...your advise means nothing to these young fellas. when you gotta tease them with thoughts of taking it in da (the) ass then your nothing more than a plain common ordinary HO!
3. Who cares who you treat like a enemy since your voice carries no weight on this forum...just cause you got one or two sucka's to side with you.
4. I see you don't know the answer to my question of WHY are YOU here..."I’d like to say I have got a more noble cause, but frankly, I don’t...I guess it's just like I stated...You seek attention...YOUR ADDICTED to it now. Even bad attention like what I give you when I crawl up in ya (your) ass.
5. but I can't seem to look away ..." I'd have no trouble looking away from your wrinkly baggy ass bytch. In fact do not even think of posting your picture up.
6. What you need to do is take care of ya (your) husband! And stay the hell off a singles forum...get the emphasis on SINGLES.
"the war had spilled over" Underworld