This thread is good , yes i agree, but I didn't think the statement that men shouldn't get advice from girls on the forums was a little of disagreement. They are telling the truth and telling us how they feel since they are girls.
put down the crack pipe, the whole thing is a big load of sh!t, err unless you classify debating with a few deluded confused teenage boys and a couple of chicks "good"???This thread is good
i rest my case with this comment, can you imagine the face im pulling at the moment?They are telling the truth and telling us how they feel since they are girls.
Did not. If it walks like a duck ...Originally posted by Survivor
Actually, you did exactly what iqqi did. You made a blanket statement based not only on your observations, but also on stereotypes. All of us must be careful not to do that, even over the web.
I hate to contradict this, since she was trying to prove a point that I agree with... ha ha... but really? Do most girls only have one close girlfriend? That's so sad. I don't have 100s of female friends because a lot of girls ARE petty and vindictive and jealous and competitive etc... but only ONE friend each? That's crazy.Actually, we do go through the trouble to some extent. Girls often have what? A, singular, one ... close girlfriend. If you have two, the jealousy thing starts happening. If I were hard pressed I could probably get sex out of my best friend and neither of us have tendencies that way.
Take Player as an example. Everything out of his head is filtered through his Afro-American-urban-male-with-self-esteem-issues filter. Is his information any less corrupted than a woman’s?
You wouldn't have made that assumption about Player if you didn't know he was black.
It's true, that she couldn't have made that assumption about Player if she didn't already know he was black. And you couldn't make your assumptions about Eileen (or me, or iqqi, or Shorty, etc for that matter)... if you didn't already know we were female.What's your point? You wouldn't have known I was a woman unless I told you.
Most of the girls? lol look at the guys.Most girls here have turn so hateful that I can´t help but reply
oh great, another captain save a ho trying to rescue the fair maiden from the evil woman haters......honestly mate get a clue, are you for real? how bout you give the tired played out card of shouting MISOGYNIST whenever someone calls out a womans bullsh!t a rest eh?Originally posted by SLIKKER_THAN_AVG
Eileen i wouldnt bother with this place if I were you...ive been on a hiatus for the past 5 months, i checked once in Dec...and its STILL the same old ****..the winds of prevailing misogyny..
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blah blah blah, dont be embarresed we all make mistakes, hey shouldnt you be all chill and sh!t because youve been away for so long getting so much snatch?....pfffft, phuckin fraud
No it doesn't make her a slut. Except in the eyes of her friends. That is why they use words like "we were talking and the next thing you know we were carried away in this incredible moment of passion girl"Originally posted by Survivor
Good point, Player.
The problem with the blanket statement "men don't want easy women" is that the word "easy", is highly subjective.
I personally believe having sex on the first night does not make someone a slut. However, just like any other derogatory label, what does make someone a slut is when they chose accept as reality someone else's perception that they are indeed a so-called, "slut". Chew on that one for a while.
Now don't get it twisted. This is not an endorsement of casual sex. However, same principle applies to LTRs.
In every LTR I've been in that lasted more than 3 months, I had phucked the girl on the first day. However, when I "waited for the right time", I never even got a kiss.
In fact, when I met my fiance', we were lovemaking before I even took her out on our first date. We've been happily together now for over two years.
So ladies, does that mean my future wife is a "slut"? Please enlighten me....
Yes, Yes I do...thank you for pointing that out. Now if you didn't know I was black would you of said that?Originally posted by Eileen
You have a serious Afro-American inferiority complex, don't you?
Oh, get help. There are numbers you can call.
dont worry bro...she's just got something against blacks, even though she's supposedly an educated professor.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Yes, Yes I do...thank you for pointing that out. Now if you didn't know I was black would you of said that?
Good idea, we probably shouldn't have 14 year old virgin AFC idiots post advice on here eitherOriginally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I . You guys discount our advice simply because we're female... regardless of what we're saying or what our own personal "filters" are... But you might not know what everyone else's filters are... You can't say for sure that an intelligent woman would give worse advice than some male 14 year old virgin AFC idiot who's never gotten a girl in his life... simply because she is female. You happen to already know we're female... but you can't tell who all the idiots are right away.
And how many close girl friends do you have? Key word, close. Friends is a lose term. I have a lot of friends, but very few close relationships with those friends.Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
but only ONE friend each? That's crazy.
That’s so wrong. It’s player and men like him that I find disgusting (I’ve met white men like this too). Not just blacks.Originally posted by California Love
dont worry bro...she's just got something against blacks.
interesting. interesting. i would have to say that at first, all a man wants IS a woman's vagina, because as you say, that is what MEN value the most from a woman, because that is all they really want.Originally posted by prosemont
the thing that most men want is a woman sexually. Therefore, the single thing that makes it sexual is a woman's vagina, by definition, and therefore the vagina is a most coveted and valuable thing. It is also something that women can freely give away, ie. if a woman were to walk down the street, she could fvck men by the thousands. So, if a woman did in fact give it up that easily, it decreases the value of her vagina.
that is how it should be. sex IS emotional, so when people have sex detached from emotions, you have something unnatural. a man sticking around has to deal with emotions that are not "ripe", and therefor, unnatural. some men, i will clarify that i am aware that some men CAN HANDLE this. but that is as rare as a woman is know what SHE really wants.Originally posted by prosemont
The flawed thinking in this: a women is not wanted merely for her vagina and hence giving it up so easily has zero effect on the value of her as a human being. Sex is sex, that emotional bond that two special people might have has nothing to do with the actual sex.
true. just like men who sleep around, a woman who sleeps around values her body and sex, with less value. and like you, i do not prefer a mate with such low value placed on something i value so highly.Originally posted by prosemont
Second, that if a woman is able to have emotionally detached sex at any time and does so with a multitude of partners, she would be better able to have that same unattached emotionless sex tht would enable her to be unfaithful with greater ease and without being detected as easily. E.g. if a particular woman views sex emotionally, if she wer to cheat, chances are it would be more evident and harder to hide. If, however, a woman is able to fvck nearly any guy without emotional involvement, she could go years without being detected.
as it SHOULD be, but is not.Originally posted by prosemont
The flaw: merely having been sexually active is no indicator of a woman's integrity, honesty, or loyalty in any given relationship.
Hey titty man (i don't know what else to call you) you are doing an excellent job debating the irrelevancy of these hisogynist hos!Originally posted by ( . )( . )
blah blah blah, dont be embarresed we all make mistakes, hey shouldnt you be all chill and sh!t because youve been away for so long getting so much snatch?....pfffft, phuckin fraud
so now we got 2 kids 2 chicks and this tool defending the right to speak absolute sh!t here...yipeeeeeeee
Yes. Yes, newbies. Jump onto Iqqi's chump train.Originally posted by iqqi
that is precisely why i say to the ladies, if you see a man who is worth keeping around, you may just want to make him get to know you, and VALUE YOU first. that way the sex becomes much more than just the gratification of superficial needs.