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A women getting approached by a harmless guy she doesn’t like is going to be just fine. So is the guy, although repeated rejection can take a toll on womanless men after awhile.
yup, that sounds very believable to me, but at the same time, i believe there are lots of guys out there who are handsome and good looking who still never had success with girls at a young age like you described, i strongly believe there are lots of stud good looking men out there who are horrible with women. Especially since its kinda proven that even if a guy or man is handsome and good looking, that won't be enough for him to be good with women.
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
how do you feel about retaining the v-card until then? i assume you mean you used to suck with women pretty bad
Not thrilled about it lol because it wasn’t by choice. I definitely sucked really bad then. Went through high school and college with not even a female friend let alone a gf. I only got to talk to chicks when it was strictly necessary such as if she was a lab partner or we had a quick chat about class stuff.
This is similar to becoming a first-rate stand-up comic. Yes, there are genuine prodigies like Eddie Murphy who can command an entire theater at 20, and there guys who gain access to damn near every girl in school's pants during high school, only to falter terribly afterwards. The latter are essentially the Dice Clays and Dane Cooks of womanizing
yeah reminds me of an article of a guy from the UK that i sometimes wish i never read at times, he didn't finally lose the v-card until later than you, but he did avoid Andy Spitzler(Steve Carrell's character) by a few years though.
yeah i can believe that, one thing that helped me, no regrets, is that lowering your standards can be helpful, a good analogy i like for guys, men, is that, success with women is like lifting weights, it helps a lot to aim or go for lower caliber women, women who don't have as much options, who don't get much attention, use them as practice before moving on to higher caliber women, and here is my counter argument to whenever people say that isn't fair to women, because thats like, those women are being used, how would you feel if you found out the woman you were with was using you in that manner, and my argument is, since when was life and reality fair?
And when you grow up in a blue-pilled context, with a blue-pilled father, that is not good. Additionally, I've always wondered: if a woman grows up in a context like that, can she be blue-pilled for her entire life and search for a blue-pilled life, or is that just a man thing?
My take is that the blue pill, red pill, and black pill framework applies mainly towards men's views on romantic relationships.
Likely the reason why the “daddy issues” term is actually realistic and why young women lust for anti-social and criminal men is because young women do not respect men who are incapable of doing damage to other men. And these are usually their blue-pilled, air-headed, and in some cases negligent dads. So I think in many cases having blue pilled dads produce women with behaviors that fit the black pill.
My experience with women who grew up without a positive male role model in their lives are really hard to date. They just do not know what a good man is and in many cases do not know how or are unwilling to do those things needed to keep a good man around. It's actually very very sad. They go from one bad relationship to another and this becomes their norm. And if they try... well they are never really happy.
Actually, the female ideal is actually the 'rogue with a good heart'. Someone who is familiar with violence and maybe even with damaging other people, but who has himself under control. So she can be safe with him and knows that he's capable of protecting her (if necessary). Since 'rogues' are rare, women often think anti-social / criminal men are a good alternative. And there are, of course, mentally challenged women who just don't know the difference.
