guru1000
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I objectI don't have an issue finding "good looking" women ...
I objectI don't have an issue finding "good looking" women ...
You still haven't answered my question.....Are you yourself this 'high quality' woman that you refer to?
I did answer your question. I said that it is subjective. I'm quite certain that at 47 I am not YOUR unicorn for example. However I am an accomplished high caliber woman as described by @taiyuu_otoko in his post above.You still haven't answered my question.....
+1Looking for a good woman... is like looking for a unicorn, and you don't LOOK for a unicorn.
Genetics...which are wonderful but are largely due to great genetics
Genetics..Again, lucky genetics there.
Regal. Kings. Royalty.He is kind and has a regal bearing.
However... as @BeExcellent points out...How much of our fate is tied to the status of our parents and grandparents? How much does it influence our children? More than we wish to believe. While it has been argued that rigid class structures have eroded in favor of greater social equality, The Son Also Rises proves that movement on the social ladder has changed little over eight centuries. Using a novel technique—tracking family names over generations to measure social mobility across countries and periods—renowned economic historian Gregory Clark reveals that mobility rates are lower than conventionally estimated, do not vary across societies, and are resistant to social policies.
Clark examines and compares surnames in such diverse cases as modern Sweden and Qing Dynasty China. He demonstrates how fate is determined by ancestry and that almost all societies have similarly low social mobility rates. Challenging popular assumptions about mobility and revealing the deeply entrenched force of inherited advantage, The Son Also Rises is sure to prompt intense debate for years to come.
Genetics ain't everything. It's every humans duty to improve themselves as much as they can, so they can get as much as they can, mates included.which is a by product of years of self-improvement
You are a unicorn from a financial standpoint that's for sure, I can barely find a chick that can stay current on her damn car note lol. But at the age of 47 - 50, you have the soul of a different "breed" of woman that has died out.Am I a unicorn?
And how many women have you met are like you or the person in the post you mentioned?I did answer your question. I said that it is subjective. I'm quite certain that at 47 I am not YOUR unicorn for example. However I am an accomplished high caliber woman as described by @taiyuu_otoko in his post above.
I have self-confidence born out of accomplishment, looks (which are wonderful but are largely due to great genetics), keep fit (size 2-4 dress), athletic pin-up figure without any artificial enhancements. Again, lucky genetics there. I modeled some in years past but was not tall enough to do that professionally. I look 10-12 years younger than I am. I eat clean, keep fit and have a positive gregarious personality.
Socially I have a naturally alluring vibe that is sexy without being vulgar. People compliment my taste and personal style often. Men love how heads turn when I walk into a room on their arm.
I have a sterling business reputation which I cultivate and cherish. I earn NYC type money and my net worth is in the 7 figure range. I got there while fully supporting my family. I still support my children financially and support my ex-husband as well (since I was the big income earner in the marriage.) I have no consumer debt.
I serve on the board of a charitable foundation and serve in other leadership roles in several organizations. I mentor others when I can because there were people willing to mentor me along the way.
I'm a good mother and a loyal friend.
The men who typically want to date me are 1% men. I always have choices in the 1% because I myself am almost in the 1% (I'd say I'm in the 2%.) It is a function of who I am (which is a by product of years of self-improvement) in addition to what I look like.
This past week a doctor wanted me to play golf (I declined), and an attractive retired professional athlete who is now a CEO & capital partner asked me point blank "Where were you 5 years ago when I was single?" I laughed and told him I was married then.
I enjoy the man I see presently because he is accustomed to beautiful accomplished women. There is no pedestal in sight. He is completely natural with women and has impeccable inner game.
He is every bit as accomplished as I am, he is masculine, handsome, genteel, intelligent, passionate but never vulgar. He is a natural leader and a natural "star" type personality, but he is also grounded and has an immense work ethic. He leads, I defer. He is kind and has a regal bearing. He has ambitious projects he is working on, he is a great father, he has close family relationships. He inspires me to be better just by existing, and I encourage him to accomplish the things he has set before him. I also encourage him to enjoy the now; to play. I cherish and value his time and find him devilishly sexy. I respect the hell out of him. We are compatible and complimentary. It's quite lovely. We dated 6 months before sex and he is the only man I've gone to bed with since my ex. He is the only man I've even THOUGHT about going to bed with since my ex.
Am I a unicorn? Some would say so but it's not for me to determine.
That's the thing: everyone is trying to FIND that unicorn, but no one is trying to BE that unicorn.The secret to "finding" that "unicorn" (or the closest approximation based on your own SUBJECTIVE values) is to BECOME A UNICORN yourself.
A guy impeccably built in the top 1%, top 1% earner, dominant physically and a "nice guy" whose humble.That's the thing: everyone is trying to FIND that unicorn, but no one is trying to BE that unicorn.
I use the following looks categories:Does she have supermodel looks ? No. She's a solid 8
Many. Look guys high caliber people congregate with each other. That shouldn't be a surprise.And how many women have you met are like you or the person in the post you mentioned?
@Tenacity you know I'm rooting for you. It's not so much that women like me have died out so much as they may not have developed yet. I was not in this position 10-12 years ago. I had worked hard, taken calculated risks. I was making great money and looking at ways to get to where I am now but I was nowhere near where I stand now. Overnight success is a myth. More of a myth than this unicorn business.You are a unicorn from a financial standpoint that's for sure, I can barely find a chick that can stay current on her damn car note lol. But at the age of 47 - 50, you have the soul of a different "breed" of woman that has died out.
Many. Look guys high caliber people congregate with each other. That shouldn't be a surprise.
I could list off 20 more women who I know personally like this. Most are happily married. Some are more successful in life than I, some are prettier, some live in more exclusive areas and drive nicer cars etc. etc. etc. Most are over 40, but not all are. It can take time to reach a level of success. Some people get more of a head start than others.
I wasn't always the success I am now; but I was always ambitious in my own right. My family taught me that beauty is wonderful but that beauty is fleeting. That you better not expect to get by just on your looks and you better be able to take care of your own affairs. I made lots of mistakes along the way or I would have made it much faster to where I am now.
Perhaps they develop later on because as they say here, the woman's biological clock is ticking down so now she wants to get settled. I myself have no experience with older women (obviously lol) but at what age do women begin to develop into a unicorn? And where are these 'unicorns' found too?you know I'm rooting for you. It's not so much that women like me have died out so much as they may not have developed yet. I was not in this position 10-12 years ago. I had worked hard, taken calculated risks. I was making great money and looking at ways to get to where I am now but I was nowhere near where I stand now. Overnight success is a myth. More of a myth than this unicorn business.
Kinda funny since I don't even consider most "super models" to be an 8Does she have supermodel looks ? No. She's a solid 8
The problem is that with most people in our radical liberal society, no one is a true giver anymore. People only give because they want their egos caressed by others talking about how 'great of a person' they are. There are very few truly altruistic people. Women can temporarily be truly altruisitic simply because the live and feel in the momemt much more so than men, but what happens when that facade fades? What is a man to do when her true inspiration fades?Look for women who are positive and have a giving heart. Who helps organize the Special Olympics? Who volunteers in the community? Who helps in her parent's business? Who is in leadership in the student government? Who serves others? Who is encouraging?