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Master Don Juan
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As many of you know I am a woman here on SS. Many of the threads I see here are perplexing.
Men complain that they aren't getting the lay on the first date or two so they next, others get the lay on the first date and complain that they can't find a high quality girl (and argue that women who will sex you up on the first date are defacto NOT high quality) and these things seem circular to me.
Guys. You can't hold the view that women who won't have sex on the first few dates are NEXT! material and also hold the view that women who do have sex very early are by default not high quality if you ever expect to find a quality woman.
See the logic flaw? Women who screw on the first or 2nd date are low quality, says the forum. Next if you don't get laid on the first or second date, says the forum.
And you guys wonder why you can't find that unicorn. You opine the dearth of high quality girls. They don't exist says the forum.
May I suggest that you set yourself up for failure with a type of woman that you are not going to run into all that often to begin with?
Most here chase low quality girls looking for easy sex rather than having the patience that pursuit of a high quality girl will require. That's fine but then don't turn around and complain that there are no quality girls! You've screened them out already!
So perhaps it might be of some use to explain what a high quality woman looks like, acts like and how she conducts herself so you might not NEXT one accidently if this is really what you might like to find. That is of course assuming you eventually want some type of relationship with a cool woman whose company you enjoy and who is into you. This is possible as several recent posts have discussed and how a man sets his criteria is going to vary by individual
Many men on this site are understandably jaded from past experience in marriage for example but the notion that marriage or pairing off in a LTR is never worth it is just as unbalanced a view.
The idea that high quality women do not exist is false.
The idea that marriage or LTR is always a bad idea is also false.
However these ideas align perfectly for the man who can't get a high quality girl because he himself is not high quality. It follows the 36th Law of Power to "Disdain Things You Cannot Have..." Many guys here run down quality women because they couldn't get or keep one in the first place.
This is why the forum's focus is first and foremost on self improvement and self validation and self worth. Without those characteristics you cannot succeed in obtaining the best women. So for purpose of this discussion I will assume the man can attract and hold this "unicorn" and will work from there.
What a unicorn looks like will vary depending on the age group in question. I will do my best to give some traits to look for in different age groups, please feel free to add to the list as you see fit.
I am posting this under the premise that most men (even red pill men) would find value at some point in having a woman alongside for the ride in life as opposed to endless rotations of women and all that entails.
Before I get blasted for espousing blue pill Disney stuff please note: I know blue pill Disney stuff doesn't work. This post is more about how to recognize a unicorn and then what to do IF you might like to pursue one.
Men complain that they aren't getting the lay on the first date or two so they next, others get the lay on the first date and complain that they can't find a high quality girl (and argue that women who will sex you up on the first date are defacto NOT high quality) and these things seem circular to me.
Guys. You can't hold the view that women who won't have sex on the first few dates are NEXT! material and also hold the view that women who do have sex very early are by default not high quality if you ever expect to find a quality woman.
See the logic flaw? Women who screw on the first or 2nd date are low quality, says the forum. Next if you don't get laid on the first or second date, says the forum.
And you guys wonder why you can't find that unicorn. You opine the dearth of high quality girls. They don't exist says the forum.
May I suggest that you set yourself up for failure with a type of woman that you are not going to run into all that often to begin with?
Most here chase low quality girls looking for easy sex rather than having the patience that pursuit of a high quality girl will require. That's fine but then don't turn around and complain that there are no quality girls! You've screened them out already!
So perhaps it might be of some use to explain what a high quality woman looks like, acts like and how she conducts herself so you might not NEXT one accidently if this is really what you might like to find. That is of course assuming you eventually want some type of relationship with a cool woman whose company you enjoy and who is into you. This is possible as several recent posts have discussed and how a man sets his criteria is going to vary by individual
Many men on this site are understandably jaded from past experience in marriage for example but the notion that marriage or pairing off in a LTR is never worth it is just as unbalanced a view.
The idea that high quality women do not exist is false.
The idea that marriage or LTR is always a bad idea is also false.
However these ideas align perfectly for the man who can't get a high quality girl because he himself is not high quality. It follows the 36th Law of Power to "Disdain Things You Cannot Have..." Many guys here run down quality women because they couldn't get or keep one in the first place.
This is why the forum's focus is first and foremost on self improvement and self validation and self worth. Without those characteristics you cannot succeed in obtaining the best women. So for purpose of this discussion I will assume the man can attract and hold this "unicorn" and will work from there.
What a unicorn looks like will vary depending on the age group in question. I will do my best to give some traits to look for in different age groups, please feel free to add to the list as you see fit.
I am posting this under the premise that most men (even red pill men) would find value at some point in having a woman alongside for the ride in life as opposed to endless rotations of women and all that entails.
Before I get blasted for espousing blue pill Disney stuff please note: I know blue pill Disney stuff doesn't work. This post is more about how to recognize a unicorn and then what to do IF you might like to pursue one.