Does EVERY pretty girl have a boyfriend?

[comic_relief]

You're talking about a woman who would go out with anybody that asked her and would say yes because she just wanted to be a girlfriend and didn't really care who it was. I see no fault in that, I believe it's called dating.

Really? That is a recipe for disaster because if she finds a more attractive guy, your gone. It could be any guy at all and the next attractive guy to come is BAM!!! She's gone and your wanking it.

It's where the man and the woman go out and spend some time together as long as the meet each others minimum criteria. If the two like each other enough they can choose to move into a relationship.

No, that is not dating. That is more short term relationships. Dating for the long term is to find someone that interests you and you know could continue to interest you as time goes on.

I am fine with that in the beginning. I don't really care if the woman isn't that interested in me. Heck if a woman came up to me and said, "Hi, I think you're cute and I'm kind of lonely. I don't know you that well, but would you go out with me?" If I thought she was cute, I would say yes. I wouldn't directly go into being called boyfriend and girlfriend. But I would try her out.

that reaks of desparation on the female part and very unattractive. But what is attractive to you may not be attractive to me. (I'll beat everyone to the punch and say that I find my girlfriend attractive while most members on the site don't. Don't give a sh!t. )

As for myself I would have a relationship with almost anyone who meets my minimum criteria. After I spent some time with her I can see who she really is and see where I want the relationship to go.

I wish you the best of luck. Not my way to go, but you know whatever works for you.

Yes of course he would, if she was average looking or above, because it is damn difficult to date a decent looking girl as it is for men, so we can't be picky regarding 'minor details'. Tail is tail and most girls are branch-swingers anyway as we know.

HAHAHAHAHA, funny I find decent girls all the time and I hang out with them all the time.

Maybe your just hanging out with the wrong set of people or the wrong areas. Get a venue change.

comic_relief

 

[Mad Manic]

HAHAHAHAHA, funny I find decent girls all the time and I hang out with them all the time.

Maybe your just hanging out with the wrong set of people or the wrong areas. Get a venue change.

comic_relief

Well as Ketostix said the ones with the big talk are usually the ones who at a given time are getting tail. Then stuff goes wrong, or it was going wrong for large periods of time previously and you realise how things are.

As for you and your gf, I think you're average looking and your gf is below average looking, a HB4. So when I'm talking about dating attractive women, I'm talking about attractive women that are desired and pursued a lot inc. many good looking/cool/alpha guys. You aren't an example of some hot cool guy with hot women flocking, sorry. So your big talk isn't even backed up IMO.

MM

 

[young_gun]

I don't think it really matters whether they're seeing someone or not. Come to think about it, just about every girl I've ended up seriously dating either had a boyfriend or was seeing someone when I met them. I've gotten a lot of numbers from girls who were in relationships. I even hooked up with a girl whose boyfriend was overseas in the military. (If he found out, he'd beat my ass! LOL)

 

[The Mayor]

Wow, you are in the same boat as me. Take the BOOT CAMP:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134874

 

[ketostix]

Well as Ketostix said the ones with the big talk are usually the ones who at a given time are getting tail. Then stuff goes wrong, or it was going wrong for large periods of time previously and you realise how things are.

As for you and your gf, I think you're average looking and your gf is below average looking, a HB4. So when I'm talking about dating attractive women, I'm talking about attractive women that are desired and pursued a lot inc. many good looking/cool/alpha guys. You aren't an example of some hot cool guy with hot women flocking, sorry. So your big talk isn't even backed up IMO.

MM

I know, this guy talks about how all these attractive, single girls are everywhere and approach him constantly, but the fact is he's an average looking guy with a below average looking girl. That's the only proven fact and the rest of what he says is just a bunch of blowhard talk. As far as anyone can tell he lives in Sticksville, Pennsylvania and associates with a bunch of nerdy, average looking girls, but is only banging his GF.

I don't care how he lives his life, but the problem is he tries to tell us there's all these single desperate HB7-10's everywhere that are so easy to get. Then why is he in a relationship with a below average looking girl? His justifications for that are BS. He can't find a hot girl with a good attitude who wants him. He had to lower his standards just like you and I predicted 90% of guys will have to do. Then he comes in this thread here with big talk to prove us "wrong". When he's a case study of how we're right.

 

[DonJuan11]

Why is the real scale of beauty thread closed?

 

[comic_relief]

I know, this guy talks about how all these attractive, single girls are everywhere and approach him constantly, but the fact is he's an average looking guy with a below average looking girl. That's the only proven fact and the rest of what he says is just a bunch of blowhard talk. As far as anyone can tell he lives in Sticksville, Pennsylvania and associates with a bunch of nerdy, average looking girls, but is only banging his GF.

I don't care how he lives his life, but the problem is he tries to tell us there's all these single desperate HB7-10's everywhere that are so easy to get. Then why is he in a relationship with a below average looking girl? His justifications for that are BS. He can't find a hot girl with a good attitude who wants him. He had to lower his standards just like you and I predicted 90% of guys will have to do. Then he comes in this thread here with big talk to prove us "wrong". When he's a case study of how we're right.

wow ketostix. Your going to dismiss my entire posts because you find my girlfriend unattractive? Ok...

comic_relief

 

[LivingEmpire]

it has seemed that way for me lately

ah well

 

[squirrels]

Short answer: Yup.

Think about it...if YOU were an extremely attractive male, wouldn't YOU have a girlfriend? Or two or three? Even if none of them was "the One", you would still be having a blast.

Is he "the One", or just someone to have some fun with? Only one way to find out. Just watch your step or someone's gonna start a fight.

 

[Maxtro]

Really? That is a recipe for disaster because if she finds a more attractive guy, your gone. It could be any guy at all and the next attractive guy to come is BAM!!! She's gone and your wanking it.

Uh thats life. I'd do the same thing to her. At this point in my life I'm not looking for a long term relationship, or to settle down. I want to date a lot of girls before I get into anything serious.

No, that is not dating. That is more short term relationships. Dating for the long term is to find someone that interests you and you know could continue to interest you as time goes on.

Same thing to me. I haven't really done either.

that reaks of desparation on the female part and very unattractive. But what is attractive to you may not be attractive to me. (I'll beat everyone to the punch and say that I find my girlfriend attractive while most members on the site don't. Don't give a sh!t. )

I wish you the best of luck. Not my way to go, but you know whatever works for you.

In all honesty I don't care if a girl is desperate or not. But odds are if she is cute she wouldn't be desperate. Heck as unsuccessful as I am now, my standards aren't that high. As long as she is cute, doesn't have any self-destructive behaviors (drugs, cutting, smoking etc) and is a generally cheerful person, she's good enough for me.

 

[penkitten]

That's HALF true.

The top half is. If you ain't got nothing good going for you, don't even try to make a move. Going for an attractive woman is like reaching for a star...you know you'll never get it...and you won't get any closer if you keep trying. Or use my method which is rely on pure luck. You've got a 1 in 1,000,000 chance of getting the girl.

The b**ches with stuck up attitudes are the easier ones to get. Just lay down the law and use force if you must...Alphaness force of course. And do it from the get go. Got it, pal?

we will take up a collection for you to buy a clue... got that, pal?

 

[Kuroro]

OF COURSE all the hot girls will have bf's. If they didn't, would they really be hot?

So what are you supposed to do about it? Act like she's single anyway.

Here's an analogy I read on this site long ago:

Hot girls with bf's are like monkeys. They swing from branch to branch, and they never let go of the previous branch until they have the next one within reach.

What's that mean? It means hot girls won't break up with their guy until they have a new guy lined up. It also means they are almost never single, and when they are, its for a very short time.

Good advice.

Pook also covered this, single women are "broken", because they aren't desired.

 

[iqqi]

Thanks comic relief, you answered everything the way I would have.

its funny how much you can study exactly what desperation is, right here on this thread.

 

[iqqi]

Why is the real scale of beauty thread closed?

Honestly, seems like some mod nazi-ism going around right now. However, considering the attitute of the men participating on the boards these days, I am glad a good olden post won't be bogged down with newer flame crap, as evident in the one person who posted this week.

 

[Mad Manic]

its funny how much you can study exactly what desperation is, right here on this thread.

Finally you get it, yes men are desperate because women are overvalued and overpriced so most men aren't getting decent women that in an equal-power society they'd get! Hence 60% of young women being shagged by 10% of young men.

As for it being funny, well each to their own, though as per usual it doesn't surprise me that a woman says that. It's easy to laugh when you're in power, especially if you're given it not through earning it but from society as you're a pedestalised western female.

As for Comic Relief, I don't really get what he's trying to say. He's trying to underplay/downgrade the severity of the M/F dynamic but he himself is caught up in it just as bad as us. He's average and dating a below average girl after 3 hard years of improvement. If that doesn't indicate how messed up things are then nothing will. I'm not flaming him, we're saying how it is for men.

MM

 

[IKO69]

Finally you get it, yes men are desperate because women are overvalued and overpriced so most men aren't getting decent women that in an equal-power society they'd get! Hence 60% of young women being shagged by 10% of young men.

As for it being funny, well each to their own, though as per usual it doesn't surprise me that a woman says that. It's easy to laugh when you're in power, especially if you're given it not through earning it but from society as you're a pedestalised western female.

As for Comic Relief, I don't really get what he's trying to say. He's trying to underplay/downgrade the severity of the M/F dynamic but he himself is caught up in it just as bad as us. He's average and dating a below average girl after 3 hard years of improvement. If that doesn't indicate how messed up things are then nothing will. I'm not flaming him, we're saying how it is for men.

MM

Seems you got everything thought out. I'm curious to know what your thoughts are on how to reverse that? (women being over valued/priced) When a guy is rich/famous he has it easy, but how does the average man manage?
BTW, I am in agreement with you

 

[Mad Manic]

Seems you got everything thought out. I'm curious to know what your thoughts are on how to reverse that? (women being over valued/priced) When a guy is rich/famous he has it easy, but how does the average man manage?
BTW, I am in agreement with you

Well the rich/famous guy is using his wealth/fame to offset his initial lower value relative to women since he's male. So he can then easily date attractive women who aren't as wealthy/famous as he is, but then again the issue never goes away; he isn't in the position of demanding the woman to be supertalented/rich/famous/supermodelesque either unless he plays his cards right, because society puts women above men.

How to reverse that, honestly? Get built and ripped, being more socially savvy, wealth, finding a few cool friends plus other minor stuff like hair/clothes/shoes/style etc. which are much easier to take care of.

But yes all of the above is very hard to do and not guaranteed to achieve, I mean your genetics might stop you or your upbringing/intelligence may stop you or your life situation etc.

^^^ But that's the BS men are faced with to do what they are programmed to do; have sex. Quite sad really, I mean looking at it if you were to have a child; would you REALLY want it to be a son knowing what he's faced with as an adult? Remember the dynamic is only getting worse.

MM

 

[mahon83050]

I agree that for the most part they'll be taken, but that's just how it is. At some point you have to bite the bullet and ignore it because most guys will always be "branches" for women. Even the ones who aren't "hot" do it, either they're with some dude(s) that's just a standby (so they can say they're single but can't find anybody) or they'll simply be with a guy until they latch onto someone else they feel is more valuable.

Hell, even guys do this, but women who do it are by far the majority.

So do you guys actually believe this?

Most attractive women have boyfriends but will leave him when something better comes along? I sure as hell hope so, since it does seem 90% of hot women have boyfriends.

However, I am Tall, dark and handsome, so why should I worry?

 

[Mad Manic]

So do you guys actually believe this?

Most attractive women have boyfriends but will leave him when something better comes along? I sure as hell hope so, since it does seem 90% of hot women have boyfriends.

However, I am Tall, dark and handsome, so why should I worry?

Well do you have a HB 8-10 GF at present and/or consistently in the past year? There's your answer.

MM

 

[nismo-4]

we will take up a collection for you to buy a clue... got that, pal?

I ain't the only one who needs to buy a clue...Send me the money thru paypal And what's with the flowers??! Hey, I can tell you ain't a homo, but the heart of the matter is WHY?! Maybe I was pessimistic when I said don't try.

I'd go with the second part of my quote and lay down the alpha law on a stuck up chick. Won't always work, but it displays confidence and shows you're not afraid.