women are not like men.
They want what's in their league. The more attractive one is, the better.
men are either usually dating someone or they aren't.
And the ones that aren't usually become the butt of their friends' jokes. I remember people asking me about being in a relationship at work, and when I said I was a single man, I ended up getting ribbed on the whole day.
men may sleep with a bunch of women, but not very men men blatnly go out and just cheat. men are pretty, what is the word i'm looking for, easy to read. either he's the "player type", the "palying the field type", the "commitment or die type" if that makes any sense.
I hope they make reading minds a reality. I'll buy that device if it gets on ebay!
women could not possibly be more different.
Women have the upper hand in dating unless the guy has some handsome looks or has something good to offer. Women have a line of guys always, so they get to choose most of the time.
megaman you from b-ville? i'm from little rock. I've played your high school in basketball many a times. good athletic teams up there.
Yep, Blytheville, Arkansas! I then graduated from Blytheville High and went to U. Memphis and studied accounting.
you will rarely find a decent looking women who is not seeing someone.
These days, change that to never. You won't even find a fat woman who isn't seeing someone!
but women have levels of relationships if that means anything.
They always can get them easily. If a guy dumps them, the woman won't be hurt because the next guy is somewhere in her Blackberry.
you are not going to get anywhere looking for a girl with no boyfriend. To a girl, a boyfriend is a status symbol. they will have one even if they dont' particularly like him because that's what young pretty girls do. they want to go out, hang with the crew, go to the movies, go on dates, all that good ****.
A girlfriend is a status symbol, but this has a high market value like pu$$y! It's not like the 80's when "I have a boyfriend" meant something.
all women have some eagle in them. they are always on the lookout.
For a better man. Always.
a woman will meet a guy when she has a BF, size him up, figure out if that guy is an upgrade to her current situation and if so, she will throw feelers out there. if not she's not interested.
Correct sir! Women do most of the choosing! Guys gotta have something to offer!
the only person that can determine if it's an upgrade or not is her.
Correct again!
she might really feel it's her soulmate (not usually).
Soulmate, tollmate, meh.
seriously think about it. how many times have you seen a seriously good looking girl go single and be single for more than a few weeks. if you don't think she had that guy lined up than I have some Enron stock to sell ya.
Never! And if she is, she's taking it in every hole every weekend. Still some people are willing to think otherwise (Which is asinine BTW.)
when a woman breaks up with you more times than not she already knows who's next, already had a time table set for when they can proceed and so on and so forth. this is not bad. this is just how women ARE. i'm not about chasting as much as i am understanding.
Like I said, a woman can have a man anytime, anywhere, anyhow, any day. If you dump a girl, she won't be hurt. Unless you're in the top 10% of males.
married women have somewhat higher standards, but they think the exact same way. a married woman is not going to leave her man for a guy who is trying to **** (usually).
I think marriage is overrated. But women have high standards period.
do not ask a woman if she has a BF or not, it is of no consequence whatsoever. that particular question.
I'd never ask that. Women usually bring that up to try to turn a guy away.
if you are talking to her the only thing you need to do is check for feelers. is she interesting in you or not. is she flirting with you or not. if she throws out the fact that she has a BF and she's still throwing sings it's usually just so she doesn't feel like the aggressor, and at that point just tell her we are just cool, then proceed as normal.
Some women are great at being attention wh0res. Hint: Hired guns. They'll lead you on, then give you a fake # or something similar. You still have to be chosen. Don't believe every IOI you see, as they're not always accurate.
about, actually right at 6 years ago, and i've posted this story here before, i met this woman working at a sports bar. i thought she was cute but i saw the ring and thought nothing of her after that, seriously. i was sleeping with someone else at the time, it wasn't that serious.
You're lucky.
but the bar was right down the street from my house, and she was always at work, we developed a report with each other. she made it known she was married, obliviously, even showed me pics of her kids. all that was fine and good.
I would've thrown sex talk in there.
The more i came in the more acquainted we got. She introduced me to her work friends. Then rumors started going around and one of her friends came up to me and told me that she had a huge crush on me. I was like okay, she's married, really don't care. "Then she starts to physically flirt with me, hang out with me when she's not working (i went in there to shoot pool with friends a lot)
Don't believe rumors unless there's proof that they're true or false. Then it's not a rumor anymore. Let her actions speak.
one night after a college football game we went in a friend and i, and there was another girl there i actually went to school with, who was ass licking hot herself. i was half drunk this night, and i just tell them hey, why don't you ladies come back to my crib i have a mini bar, we can have some drinks and kick back.
Did the Razorbacks win?
needless to say this girl, this married girl jumped all over this ****, and gave me her phone number, i took hers. she then proceeds as i later learn, talks her friend to not come, and my buddy had to play the piano at church in the morning anyway, so it ended up being just her and me. she wasn't in the door 5 minutes before she was catching lol.
Jealousy works! The best way to get a girl, is to get a girl! Men will be more attractive as long as they're seen with at least 1 girl.
she could care less she was married. that was nothing more than her taking the guilt off her back. she saw me, she wanted me and i didn't' force the issue or come off creepy. after a moth or so it was obvious she wanted me so it was just a matter of time and a matter of playing it cool and waiting for the right time to pounce.
Yep, even married women cheat! For better, for worse, and when better comes along...
never ask a girl if she has a BF. if she has a BF that she gives a **** about she would not be talking to you anyway.
Either that or the girl could be trying to let you down easy or be getting her ego stroked by you.
