Does EVERY pretty girl have a boyfriend?

[Maxtro]

Hey SunnyD where you from? Are you California style or Florida Style

 

[Mad Manic]

Quite honestly, I didn't read the entire thread before posting my opinion. I just saw "every pretty girl has a bf" and saw everyone agreeing. *I* do not agree. I do agree that a lot of them are probably still getting laid, or have the opportunity to...but they don't all have bfs, and its not because they don't want them. I said for the majority of the time I didn't want one, but I have for awhile now and I am NOT picky...but I'm not going to settle either just for the sake of getting a bf. What's so hard to understand about that???

And yeah, sure..fine...I'll send a link to my dating ad so you can decide for yourself what's wrong with me. (ie. why guys want to bed me but not date me.) I'm not posting it here for all to see though, so PM me and we'll go from there.

Most pretty girls have bfs, fact. If they don't, then they've rejected all the men that want them and are getting laid by a player on the side, fact. That is what we agreed on. As for you, you are irrational and picky just like most/all women. You want the loser who's sexing another girl but reject good guys who want you, typical woman. You also don't pursue any men you find attractive because you won't get off your pedestalised high horse, so we're unsympathetic. You're expecting to sit there and have Mr Amazing come after you. The sad part is, you'll probably get to meet another player soon anyway and he'll game you into bed. You'll then fall in love when he leaves to screw some other girl.

MM

 

[SunnyD]

Most pretty girls have bfs, fact. If they don't, then they've rejected all the men that want them and are getting laid by a player on the side, fact. That is what we agreed on. As for you, you are irrational and picky just like most/all women. You want the loser who's sexing another girl but reject good guys who want you, typical woman. You also don't pursue any men you find attractive because you won't get off your pedestalised high horse, so we're unsympathetic. You're expecting to sit there and have Mr Amazing come after you. The sad part is, you'll probably get to meet another player soon anyway and he'll game you into bed. You'll then fall in love when he leaves to screw some other girl.

MM

Who said I don't pursue? Who said I turn down all the "nice" guys or that the guys pursueing me are GOOD guys??? Who said I don't go out and approach guys?? You're pretty presumptuous. So, because I just so happened to not want a bf for a time, and ended up falling for a guy I was casually sleeping with...that means I'm picky/irrational and only want the players. Please. No wonder you're on this site...you don't know enough about women.

The only thing I agreed with was that I often want what I can't have...just like EVERYONE ELSE.

You know NOTHING about me other than what I am trying to argue. So don't call me a typical woman. I can tell you, and everyone else that knows me can tell you...that I am far, FAR from typical.

 

[SunnyD]

Ha, SEE...to prove my point...a msg I just got on the dating site:

" wow! you sound like the perfect girl, hot and like sports to good to be true.Why you single?"

 

[Mad Manic]

Who said I don't pursue? Who said I turn down all the "nice" guys or that the guys pursueing me are GOOD guys??? Who said I don't go out and approach guys?? You're pretty presumptuous. So, because I just so happened to not want a bf for a time, and ended up falling for a guy I was casually sleeping with...that means I'm picky/irrational and only want the players. Please. No wonder you're on this site...you don't know enough about women.

The only thing I agreed with was that I often want what I can't have...just like EVERYONE ELSE.

You know NOTHING about me other than what I am trying to argue. So don't call me a typical woman. I can tell you, and everyone else that knows me can tell you...that I am far, FAR from typical.

Women rarely pursue guys, not single ones anyway, maybe ones "they can't have" as you eloquently said yourself. So you pursue, but the ones you can't have because they're sexing someone else. These are what we call players. You said you don't want what you can have, that's the guys who approach you and stake an interest in you in a non-seedy way, so yes you do reject 'good guys' since logically they've done nothing bad.

Yes I'm on this site because women like you, have no sense of logic and act on your emotions. You said you want the player you can't have and don't want the guys who approach you which you can have. Then you deny it and say you actively approach men, don't reject decent guys, etc. which is BS because you already said you are pursued and you reject/don't want "what you can have."

MM

 

[ChrizZ]

Women rarely pursue guys, not single ones anyway, maybe ones "they can't have" as you eloquently said yourself. So you pursue, but the ones you can't have because they're sexing someone else. These are what we call players. You said you don't want what you can have, that's the guys who approach you and stake an interest in you in a non-seedy way, so yes you do reject 'good guys' since logically they've done nothing bad.

Yes I'm on this site because women like you, have no sense of logic and act on your emotions. You said you want the player you can't have and don't want the guys who approach you which you can have. Then you deny it and say you actively approach men, don't reject decent guys, etc. which is BS because you already said you are pursued and you reject/don't want "what you can have."

MM

why would women want you if you don't even like them?

 

[DonJuan11]

every PRETTY girl has a boyfriend, or two, or three. ****, how else would they get such big ego's and act like they are the ****? as long as a girl is pretty, she has it made. if by some chance she is single, don't believe there isn't a line of guys from the east coast to the west coast vying for her attention that she can't choose at any time. men don't have this, unless they have lots of money and fame, that's it, but he still has to do the pursuing. If you compare an equally attractive woman to an equally attractive man, the woman will attract way more people everytime.

You are 100% right. Every pretty girl, at least HB 7 and up, has a boyfriend.

They dont' even have to try and they can one. The guys don't let the pretty ones get away because they want to sleep with them right away and all the time.

 

[SunnyD]

You are 100% right. Every pretty girl, at least HB 7 and up, has a boyfriend.

They dont' even have to try and they can one. The guys don't let the pretty ones get away because they want to sleep with them right away and all the time.

Hahaha honestly...you guys are laugh-out-loud hilarious if you can come to 100% conclusion that this is true.

 

[Mad Manic]

why would women want you if you don't even like them?

Of course I like women, I am a guy. But I won't paint the picture rosey just to pretend it's all gravy.

MM

 

[Mad Manic]

Hahaha honestly...you guys are laugh-out-loud hilarious if you can come to 100% conclusion that this is true.

He's exaggerating, but the general conscensus is that the vast majority of attractive women have a bf or are single but still getting laid, with the majority having a bf. If the girl is single it's because she chooces to be i.e.) she rejected the large list of guys that want her. Guys are single because they are forced to be, guys' standards are usually not high as they are not as high in demand as women.

MM

 

[nismo-4]

every PRETTY girl has a boyfriend, or two, or three. ****, how else would they get such big ego's and act like they are the ****? as long as a girl is pretty, she has it made. if by some chance she is single, don't believe there isn't a line of guys from the east coast to the west coast vying for her attention that she can't choose at any time. men don't have this, unless they have lots of money and fame, that's it, but he still has to do the pursuing. If you compare an equally attractive woman to an equally attractive man, the woman will attract way more people everytime.

F**K YEAH!!! Personally, with the money and fame part, you have to do very little pursuing because the girl would want to be around you more because of that AND ONLY THAT. If you don't have lots of money and fame, you've got a long and hard uphill battle!

 

[nismo-4]

You are 100% right. Every pretty girl, at least HB 7 and up, has a boyfriend.

They dont' even have to try and they can one. The guys don't let the pretty ones get away because they want to sleep with them right away and all the time.

That's half true like a mud! The bottom half that is!

 

[Shyguy2003]

F**K YEAH!!! Personally, with the money and fame part, you have to do very little pursuing because the girl would want to be around you more because of that AND ONLY THAT. If you don't have lots of money and fame, you've got a long and hard uphill battle!

Yes, you are right. When you are rich and famous you don't even so much have to lift a finger most of the time. There are still some women that won't make the moves because they fear such a man is way out of their league, but most won't risk passing him and will put it out there they are interested.

Things don't change much after highschool, except that while in highschool girls wanted to be seen with the quarterback or whoever was the most popular, in the real world after highschool girls want to be seen with whoever is successful and has a position of power. Hence CEO's and Doctor's have unlimited access to heaven's gates (vagina)

A person my age who I know very well works as a security guard and goes to college. He's a very good person, funny, the kind of guy everyone gets along with and likes. He's alright with girls, but most of the one's he wants he usaully isn't able to attain. He decided one day that he would put on different fronts to see how women respond. So depending on what week it is he is no longer a security guard, but a "doctor" or "attorney". He looked into these professions, learned about them, some of the words used by them in order to be convincing and he goes out and meets chicks and has sex with them, single, taken, whatever. He tells me since casually mentioning it during dates he doesn't have to try very hard after and it's a sure thing later that night. He says he's going to continue doing it and feels no shame or remorse since most girls are manipulative in their own right.

 

[ketostix]

A person my age who I know very well works as a security guard and goes to college. He's a very good person, funny, the kind of guy everyone gets along with and likes. He's alright with girls, but most of the one's he wants he usaully isn't able to attain. He decided one day that he would put on different fronts to see how women respond. So depending on what week it is he is no longer a security guard, but a "doctor" or "attorney". He looked into these professions, learned about them, some of the words used by them in order to be convincing and he goes out and meets chicks and has sex with them, single, taken, whatever. He tells me since casually mentioning it during dates he doesn't have to try very hard after and it's a sure thing later that night. He says he's going to continue doing it and feels no shame or remorse since most girls are manipulative in their own right.

I think this needs to be explored and debated. If I weren't a successful person like a Dr. or attorney, I couldn't lie and tell girls I am. But if a person decided to do this, how would they be able to get by with it? How would you be able to hide the fact you don't have a nice car, residence, etc. Even in a large city most women know someone that knows someone. She's going to ask where you work. So if you say, "I'm a Dr. at hospital X", I can just see her saying she knows someone that works there. Also these women can never meet anyone that knows you, lest you be outed for a fraud.

Now I believe you can fool some girls for a short time, but doing this and getting outed would be bad. I think this would only work in Solo day sarging or internet. It just seems at a minimum you would need a decent car, clothes when you hang out with these girls. When you go for the close wouldn't you have to go back to their place if you live somewhere typically a security guard does?

 

[Shyguy2003]

I think this needs to be explored and debated. If I weren't a successful person like a Dr. or attorney, I couldn't lie and tell girls I am. But if a person decided to do this, how would they be able to get by with it? How would you be able to hide the fact you don't have a nice car, residence, etc. Even in a large city most women know someone that knows someone. She's going to ask where you work. So if you say, "I'm a Dr. at hospital X", I can just see her saying she knows someone that works there. Also these women can never meet anyone that knows you, lest you be outed for a fraud.

Now I believe you can fool some girls for a short time, but doing this and getting outed would be bad. I think this would only work in Solo day sarging or internet. It just seems at a minimum you would need a decent car, clothes when you hang out with these girls. When you go for the close wouldn't you have to go back to their place if you live somewhere typically a security guard does?

I don't know the specifics as I'm not the one that goes on dates with him, but he does do it and has had success. He looks into these parts enough so that he comes across as convincing. Why doesn't he get caught you ask? He doesn't look for relationships. When he bangs these girls, he no longer speaks to them again. It's trying to get sex as quick and fast as possible without any sort of contact afterwards.

He has a nice car and the part about bringing her back home, he tries to avoid that as much as possible. Usaully if he goes all the way he gets her drunk at some bar and ends up going to her house. In the event he takes her to his house, he usually says something like he just finished with school so he lives in an apartment for now.

He wont' be able to fool every girl I'm sure, but I agree with him how stupid a lot of girls can be. Girls will drop all their standards and prostitute themselves for any guy with a respected image.

 

[DonJuan11]

Man am I getting sick of this. Every damn girl I've been interested in lately has a boyfriend, is engaged, or married. To the people who say pretty girls don't get approached - you're fooling yourselves. They're taken. And when they're available, they have a waiting list of guys hoping for a chance. It seems like the only place to meet single people is clubs/bars. It'd be nice to meet people somewhere else. Friends keep asking me "Why aren't you dating someone?" I think to myself "Because nobody is fvcking single."

Any other guys notice this, or have any ideas? This is bugging me.

Nice job Snowman. 16 pages worth of responses - you rock!

 

[Mad Manic]

The worst thing is, I can't see the situation getting any better. The more that guys self improve and approach, the more 'prized' women get as they have an even higher quality and larger pool of men to select. It's just a self-perpetuating cycle. In 50 years it may be impossible to sleep with a HB7+ unless you're perfect in every discipline. It seems like the pool of selected men is getting smaller and smaller and the pool of selected women is at best constant and most likely increasing due to male desperation.

MM

 

[ketostix]

The worst thing is, I can't see the situation getting any better. The more that guys self improve and approach, the more 'prized' women get as they have an even higher quality and larger pool of men to select. It's just a self-perpetuating cycle. In 50 years it may be impossible to sleep with a HB7+ unless you're perfect in every discipline. It seems like the pool of selected men is getting smaller and smaller and the pool of selected women is at best constant and most likely increasing due to male desperation.

MM

This is the crux of the issue, "the more men improve to get girls, the more they have to improve and the less women have to bring to the table". This is why I think the game is more of psychologically knock a female off her pedistal than becoming a "better" man.

 

[Fluid]

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OMG i just realized like every HB7+ i know has a boyfriend,

im speechless,

 

[ketostix]

I don't know the specifics as I'm not the one that goes on dates with him, but he does do it and has had success. He looks into these parts enough so that he comes across as convincing. Why doesn't he get caught you ask? He doesn't look for relationships. When he bangs these girls, he no longer speaks to them again. It's trying to get sex as quick and fast as possible without any sort of contact afterwards.

He has a nice car and the part about bringing her back home, he tries to avoid that as much as possible. Usaully if he goes all the way he gets her drunk at some bar and ends up going to her house. In the event he takes her to his house, he usually says something like he just finished with school so he lives in an apartment for now.

He wont' be able to fool every girl I'm sure, but I agree with him how stupid a lot of girls can be. Girls will drop all their standards and prostitute themselves for any guy with a respected image.

OK I was just pointing out all the pitfalls of this tactic. I know if I took a girl to the bar I would run into people who knew me and it wouldn't be long before my cover would be blown. If he use it to get the girl to go out with him that's one thing, but if he's already got her to go out and then drops the story of being in a good profession I think he's doing something he doesn't necessarily need to.