Current GF / Lost interest in Sex

[Jor-El]

we are together 24/7

..well,its the ultimate passion/relationship killer isnt it,and proving to be so

 

[Jor-El]

My girlfriend tried to sue the doctors after I lost interest in sex following an operation. They said to her "look,we only adjusted his eye sight"

 

[DJ Novice]

I wouldn’t recommend moving in with a girl until at least the 3 year mark. And even then I would take insurance with a pre nup or similar

After 3 years you should know whether she still has genuine desire for you which will manifest itself in the bedroom.

While the quality and quantity of s*x will not be at the same levels as when you first met due to hedonic adaptation, they should still be high. variety, surprise etc. in the bedroom has to come from her as well as you.

Many women will use s*x as a way to either get you to commit to them during the early stages of a relationship or to control your behaviour after you have committed to them. You need to be alert to this during the 3 year vetting period.

During the 3 years before moving in you should make sure you have extended periods of time with her (like a month long holiday) to see how living together would actually be like.

You should exit a relationship if your s*xual needs aren’t being met and you have both had open and honest conversations about it. You can’t negotiate desire; it’s either there or it isn’t.

 

[plumber]

It's one of these 3 reasons:

1) She is fvcking someone else

2) You have significantly changed appearance since you began dating(or, gained a bunch of weight, etc)

3) She has lost enough respect for you that the thought of being intimate with you is revolting to her. Women CANNOT have sex with men they don't respect, it gives them the "ick".

Only you can determine which of these 3 it is, but it is one of these three.

from the writing,

#3. She actually told him she does not want sex with him.

#1 Likely will follow, if she starts going places or there can be a neighbor.... apparently he is out at the gym on a regular basis, also for other hobbies. this might have already started. if no other obvious reason for a sharp increase in #3, this is the elephant...

#2 Going to gym. But other such as clothing, hair, and posture.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

OP, let her know this is not acceptable to you and that you cannot have a girlfriend that isn't interested in you physically and dump her.

There is no trying to talk to her about it...no coming back from this, stop wasting your time and find other women to date.

This woman is simply a massive waste of your time at this point and that will not ever change moving forward.