Current GF / Lost interest in Sex

BackInTheGame78

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I hit the gym 4 times a week.

i study, read books, and financially im doing well ahead the curve.

im already fully occupied, she is not. She is at home also working from home and she finds nothing interesting.

its work-netflix-sleep for her.

i told her to fill up her time with activities to essentially free up space from one another but she says she will and she never does.
And yet she still just isn't interested enough in you and would rather "do nothing" as you put it.

See, none of these things matter on their own to a particular woman.

The reason this is talked about frequently is to give yourself the best odds of attracting women to you.

However, once they are with you, this rarely is going to be what makes them stay or not stay, remain attracted or not attracted, want to fvck you or not fvck you.

It's all those other things that are involved in interaction with a person that cause those things and either she wasn't that interested to begin with or you caused her interest to drop over time by not doing well in those interactions repeatedly.
 

Barrister

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OP,

This woman sounds legit depressed. And frankly, you aren't married to her, you share no children together, and it is negatively impacting you. I didn't read through the entirety of the thread but I hope that, like you were advised at the beginning of it, you have decided to exit and move on.
 

Roober

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Here’s a few tips I use to keep my 7 year relationship begging me for sex daily

1. Good d1ck game - I put this first because it’s where many men fail. Theres a lot to it, so I won’t dive in to it too much. It also fixes most of other problems. When’s she’s mad, give her the D. When she’s sad, give her the D. When she’s distant, give her the D.

2. Task her - go read Pimpology by Pimpin Ken. “A 304 without instruction is destined for destruction”. Another point I’m not going to elaborate on too much. But in its simplest form… Task her, reward her with the D (see point 1)

3. Flirt all day every day - I make my girl think about sex all the time. This can be done by slapping her ass, pinch her nipple, playing with her earlobes, or anything else.

4. Treat her like your little sister - be playful, have fun, joke around, be goofy, and most importantly… be unpredictable. I prank the crap out of my girl because it fits with my personality. Do what fits best with your personality.

Your job, fitness, and money (you’re broke btw) mean squat. You will lose all day to the fun loser with solid d1ck game.
 
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