OLD is trumped to be a convenient and efficient way to find the love of your life, based on science. Instead, it's a time suck method to hook up with sub-par women you wouldn't be interested in when you'd meet them in real life. On top of that, most of the women you match with (if they are indeed women and not scammers or matchdotcom employees) are low value or only interested in getting your attention and validation. And that ROI makes OLD an effort.
I understand that, but anytime your 'method' of finding someone is an 'effort' and not a joy, you're doing something wrong. In my opinion, the best way to find suitable LTR women is moving in the right social circles and being good company.
Only when I was very young I would 'chase skirts' until I got older and understood that women are like cats. You cannot get their company from chasing them, you have to attract them to want to be in your company.
That's why I don't give advice here on how to seduce women. All I can advise is to be good company. I don't need to seduce women, chase skirts or swipe on an app. I'm a social person and move in many different social circles where women enjoy being in my company. And this is what I call living in abundance, I have to decline invitations to most of the events / parties I'm invited to, and I'm very selective in becoming intimate with the women who seek my company.
