Are Dating Apps really that bad right now

[SW15]

She wasn’t interested in you because of your height.

Yes, I acknowledged that. I am 5'10" and she is 6'0".

After that co-ed sports league ended, I did see her on apps and I did see her at bars and some non-bar venues a few times over multiple years.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

OLD is a ‘Reinforcer’. That is, if you are already doing well with women IRL, OLD will augment that. If you don’t do well with women IRL, OLD won’t change that.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

OLD is trumped to be a convenient and efficient way to find the love of your life, based on science. Instead, it's a time suck method to hook up with sub-par women you wouldn't be interested in when you'd meet them in real life. On top of that, most of the women you match with (if they are indeed women and not scammers or matchdotcom employees) are low value or only interested in getting your attention and validation. And that ROI makes OLD an effort.

I understand that, but anytime your 'method' of finding someone is an 'effort' and not a joy, you're doing something wrong. In my opinion, the best way to find suitable LTR women is moving in the right social circles and being good company.
Only when I was very young I would 'chase skirts' until I got older and understood that women are like cats. You cannot get their company from chasing them, you have to attract them to want to be in your company.

That's why I don't give advice here on how to seduce women. All I can advise is to be good company. I don't need to seduce women, chase skirts or swipe on an app. I'm a social person and move in many different social circles where women enjoy being in my company. And this is what I call living in abundance, I have to decline invitations to most of the events / parties I'm invited to, and I'm very selective in becoming intimate with the women who seek my company.

This.

It has to be fun.

 

[SW15]

OLD is a ‘Reinforcer’. That is, if you are already doing well with women IRL, OLD will augment that. If you don’t do well with women IRL, OLD won’t change that.

The 'Chad' types generally do well in real life methods. Swipe apps can give them more abundance more efficiently than doing real life stuff would. They can get exposed to more volume from swipe apps than they would solely with some combination of nightlife venues and non-bar venues.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I'm sorry you have to live in such a disappointing place.

go work your magic on Miranda Cosgrove then

 

[Gamisch]

OLD is trumped to be a convenient and efficient way to find the love of your life, based on science. Instead, it's a time suck method to hook up with sub-par women you wouldn't be interested in when you'd meet them in real life. On top of that, most of the women you match with (if they are indeed women and not scammers or matchdotcom employees) are low value or only interested in getting your attention and validation. And that ROI makes OLD an effort.

I understand that, but anytime your 'method' of finding someone is an 'effort' and not a joy, you're doing something wrong. In my opinion, the best way to find suitable LTR women is moving in the right social circles and being good company.
Only when I was very young I would 'chase skirts' until I got older and understood that women are like cats. You cannot get their company from chasing them, you have to attract them to want to be in your company.

That's why I don't give advice here on how to seduce women. All I can advise is to be good company. I don't need to seduce women, chase skirts or swipe on an app. I'm a social person and move in many different social circles where women enjoy being in my company. And this is what I call living in abundance, I have to decline invitations to most of the events / parties I'm invited to, and I'm very selective in becoming intimate with the women who seek my company.

I agree.

Men ,especially here, want formulas that guarantee success 100 % . The infamous "text her this" or " say that " types of lines.

It's more about your overall energy. But oke.

Tbh finding women IS quite the task to most men. I can play chess but if I always lose the game ain't fun. Gotta rack up some wins to keep it existing..

I know way too many men who told me they opt out the game due to lack of W's. They rather be without women than going through the process of POSSIBLY losing...

Some dudes don't even know their REAL question is:" how do I get some wins?? ".

 

[CornbreadFed]

Now I understand why you're such a whiny little boy, but you have to understand that some ugly ducklings like you never will become swans.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Video not available in my country.

Maybe you should use your words. Use crayons, so you don't hurt yourself.

Your country allows prostitution & drugs but not The Wolf of Wall Street? The Dutch still feel guilty for their historic great sins?!

 

[BillyPilgrim]

The Dutch still feel guilty for their historic great sins?!

Found the final MSM True Believer

Lolz so when CNN shuts down how long will you stare blankly at the tv screen for?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Like any other thing, there will always be adaptations needed over time to have continued success. With dating apps or anything in life really.

People's unwillingness to adapt is usually what causes them problems.

 

[Isildur1]

The last woman I had free sex with (I met her offline) certainly looked a lot better than the 8 month girlfriend I got from POF. You're probably right.

my brother ended up in a LTR with a single mum off online apps in Ireland - my other brother found a Russian wife off online dating and she cheated on him with three other men - i personally met my girlfriend off daygame and she never has used apps. Of course i know plenty of success stories from online but they rarely happened to me- most of my successes came off daygame.

 

[CornbreadFed]

If you quote me, at least give some kind of intelligent response. I know it's a lot to ask for from you, so perhaps you shouldn't try to interact with me if you can only come up with this drivel that shows your ignorance.

Like I said before, go seduce Miranda Cosgrove with your cat pirate seduction game into fvcking you and I will take you seriously.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I'm not interested in your opinion, so I don't give an airborne copulation whether you take me seriously or not, retard.

You talk a big game, lets see the score results Big Cat.

 

[Divorced w 3]

What’s the best app? I don’t want to go through the thread. Thanks

 

[Hamurabimbi]

What’s the best app? I don’t want to go through the thread. Thanks

I used Tinder. It was awesome. But. I haven’t tried the others.

 

[CornbreadFed]

What’s the best app? I don’t want to go through the thread. Thanks

Tinder had more pay walls, but I found success on all of them relatively easy

 

[Divorced w 3]

I have 7 inbound likes between hinge now snd
Tinder. Pretty good ones. Tinder for me in my limited usage was like 80% sex

 

[Divorced w 3]

Wow my hot yoga instructor is on here, should have jumped on that two years ago my gut was right lol

 

[Solomon]

my brother ended up in a LTR with a single mum off online apps in Ireland - my other brother found a Russian wife off online dating and she cheated on him with three other men - i personally met my girlfriend off daygame and she never has used apps. Of course i know plenty of success stories from online but they rarely happened to me- most of my successes came off daygame.

A lot of men are still meeting women the traditional way but come on so suave and you swear that the only Chad's and Tyrone's that are getting all the women 38,762 marriages happen a week in the USA, That's 155,048 marriages a month and 1.8 million marriages a year. So all these women by that logic are only marrying Chad's and Tyrones? of course not

But let sosuave tell it and the average guy has no chance what so ever in today's dating market

 

[CornbreadFed]

A lot of men are still meeting women the traditional way but come on so suave and you swear that the only Chad's and Tyrone's that are getting all the women 38,762 marriages happen a week in the USA, That's 155,048 marriages a month and 1.8 million marriages a year. So all these women by that logic are only marrying Chad's and Tyrones? of course not

But let sosuave tell it and the average guy has no chance what so ever in today's dating market

The issue is that guys on sosuave/the internet see these non Chad men with women as beta males getting cucked by their partners for Chad in secrecy. In actuality, these guys have something of value to offer to the women while your faux edgelord alpha/sigma male on the internet cannot offer a single thing.