Are Dating Apps really that bad right now

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Because it is all a fugazi at the end of the day. The woman is either attracted to you initially and you don't screw up, you find a ***** that doesn't give AF, or you find a girl in a bad emotional state.

I'm sorry you have to live in such a disappointing place.

 

[CornbreadFed]

I'm sorry you have to live in such a disappointing place.

go work your magic on Miranda Cosgrove then

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

go work your magic on Miranda Cosgrove then

Now I understand why you're such a whiny little boy, but you have to understand that some ugly ducklings like you never will become swans.

 

[Gamisch]

OLD is trumped to be a convenient and efficient way to find the love of your life, based on science. Instead, it's a time suck method to hook up with sub-par women you wouldn't be interested in when you'd meet them in real life. On top of that, most of the women you match with (if they are indeed women and not scammers or matchdotcom employees) are low value or only interested in getting your attention and validation. And that ROI makes OLD an effort.

I understand that, but anytime your 'method' of finding someone is an 'effort' and not a joy, you're doing something wrong. In my opinion, the best way to find suitable LTR women is moving in the right social circles and being good company.
Only when I was very young I would 'chase skirts' until I got older and understood that women are like cats. You cannot get their company from chasing them, you have to attract them to want to be in your company.

That's why I don't give advice here on how to seduce women. All I can advise is to be good company. I don't need to seduce women, chase skirts or swipe on an app. I'm a social person and move in many different social circles where women enjoy being in my company. And this is what I call living in abundance, I have to decline invitations to most of the events / parties I'm invited to, and I'm very selective in becoming intimate with the women who seek my company.

I agree.

Men ,especially here, want formulas that guarantee success 100 % . The infamous "text her this" or " say that " types of lines.

It's more about your overall energy. But oke.

Tbh finding women IS quite the task to most men. I can play chess but if I always lose the game ain't fun. Gotta rack up some wins to keep it existing..

I know way too many men who told me they opt out the game due to lack of W's. They rather be without women than going through the process of POSSIBLY losing...

Some dudes don't even know their REAL question is:" how do I get some wins?? ".

 

[CornbreadFed]

Now I understand why you're such a whiny little boy, but you have to understand that some ugly ducklings like you never will become swans.