Are Dating Apps really that bad right now

[Isildur1]

A lot of men are still meeting women the traditional way but come on so suave and you swear that the only Chad's and Tyrone's that are getting all the women 38,762 marriages happen a week in the USA, That's 155,048 marriages a month and 1.8 million marriages a year. So all these women by that logic are only marrying Chad's and Tyrones? of course not

But let sosuave tell it and the average guy has no chance what so ever in today's dating market

i don't think i would ever date out of my league in London on apps- daygame i always had a chance because of the opportunity of being in the right place at the right time . That being said i always felt that online game depends on the market- if youre an American in brazil or china on the apps you'd most likely slay - in New York it would be a competitive environment for most men. My brother did only online game for roughly 8 years in london (he's a multi millionaire author that resides in a wealthy part of london) and all he got were trash leftover girls or single mums. His online experiences inspired me to work harder at my daygame - i didn't wanna end up being someones sloppy last resort.

I had one lay from online game when i was in brazil - the girl even admitted "you're an average looking guy but Brazilian men are too stupid and aggressive to date - i rather date a foreigner " so that lay alone was entirely based on my status as a foreigner . Again im not bitching on apps but for the majority of men daygame should be their first port of call.

 

[Isildur1]

A lot of men are still meeting women the traditional way but come on so suave and you swear that the only Chad's and Tyrone's that are getting all the women 38,762 marriages happen a week in the USA, That's 155,048 marriages a month and 1.8 million marriages a year. So all these women by that logic are only marrying Chad's and Tyrones? of course not

But let sosuave tell it and the average guy has no chance what so ever in today's dating market

was having dinner with my aunt in the US two months ago and she said she was really glad me and my gf met face to face in this online era as most my cousins and brothers met their wives/gfs/bfs online - a comment like that made the daygame grind worth it (i know its not much but it did impact me)

 

[SW15]

A lot of men are still meeting women the traditional way but come on so suave and you swear that the only Chad's and Tyrone's that are getting all the women 38,762 marriages happen a week in the USA, That's 155,048 marriages a month and 1.8 million marriages a year. So all these women by that logic are only marrying Chad's and Tyrones? of course not

But let sosuave tell it and the average guy has no chance what so ever in today's dating market

Those marriages aren't only Chads and Tyrones. There are women who marry lesser men. Some of the times it is lesser men dumpster diving. You'll see 5-6 range males marrying 3-4 range females dumpster diving if they met online.

Some of these marriages are also lower SMV people (aging sets of people with kids from previous relationships marrying each other).

A lot of the market is dog poop level people finding each other.

Some betas will get relationships from their social circles too.

Tech-based interactions tend to favor the top tier men.

While top tier men don't need to commit due to abundance from apps, there are marriages that happen when a top tier man marries a top level female. Sometimes an app is how they met. It's possible for an 8.5 male to marry an 8-9 level female.

Some women marry for money. Look at influencer Courtney Ryan marrying dweeb with women Teddy Baldassarre after meeting on an app. She's cute range (never was hot). She's only with Teddy Baldassarre for his money and she realized earlier in life than a lot of money that she was going to be unable to secure a long term commitment out of the alpha/sigma type that she truly desired.

Geography was likely relevant for her. She went to college in small town Ohio and appears to have lived in Cleveland since then. Cleveland is a bigger city but not quite as known for attractive women as Miami, Dallas, New York, or Los Angeles.

Is Courtney Ryan a Fish Trying to Teach Men How to Catch Fish?

https://www.youtube.com/c/CourtneyRyan I can't figure out who is the target market for a woman being a men's issue specialist/leader.

www.sosuave.net

 

[Solomon]

Those marriages aren't only Chads and Tyrones. There are women who marry lesser men. Some of the times it is lesser men dumpster diving. You'll see 5-6 range males marrying 3-4 range females dumpster diving if they met online.

Some of these marriages are also lower SMV people (aging sets of people with kids from previous relationships marrying each other).

A lot of the market is dog poop level people finding each other.

Some betas will get relationships from their social circles too.

Tech-based interactions tend to favor the top tier men.

While top tier men don't need to commit due to abundance from apps, there are marriages that happen when a top tier man marries a top level female. Sometimes an app is how they met. It's possible for an 8.5 male to marry an 8-9 level female.

Some women marry for money. Look at influencer Courtney Ryan marrying dweeb with women Teddy Baldassarre after meeting on an app. She's cute range (never was hot). She's only with Teddy Baldassarre for his money and she realized earlier in life than a lot of money that she was going to be unable to secure a long term commitment out of the alpha/sigma type that she truly desired.

Geography was likely relevant for her. She went to college in small town Ohio and appears to have lived in Cleveland since then. Cleveland is a bigger city but not quite as known for attractive women as Miami, Dallas, New York, or Los Angeles.

Is Courtney Ryan a Fish Trying to Teach Men How to Catch Fish?

https://www.youtube.com/c/CourtneyRyan I can't figure out who is the target market for a woman being a men's issue specialist/leader.

www.sosuave.net

You're making my point for me.

 

[Solomon]

In my early-mid-twenties I had a bad victim mindset that I couldn't get laid consistently because of my race. Even if I saw brown men with women outside in public, I always ruled it out as an exception, or the girl was low quality deep down. The true problem was that I was an uninteresting, paranoid and bitter red pilled male that repelled women like the plague. Do factors like race, height, weight, and etc matter? Yes, to some extent, but all of these can be easily overcome by what you decide to do with yourself.

The truth is some guys wanna be perpetual victims, and I've noticed things have got worse, it just seems men have giving up. The sad part is if guys think it's hard now, a lot of them won't make it in a decade cause **** is going to get harder.
As a man going through adversity creates character and lot of men are bitches in 2024 it is what it is

 

[Guitar_Whizz]

Dating apps are for guys who don't have the balls to approach women in real life. End of.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Dating apps are for guys who don't have the balls to approach women in real life. End of.

No. Dating Apps are an adjunct. Just another tool in the toolbox.

 

[Manure Spherian]

The truth is some guys wanna be perpetual victims, and I've noticed things have got worse, it just seems men have giving up. The sad part is if guys think it's hard now, a lot of them won't make it in a decade cause **** is going to get harder.
As a man going through adversity creates character and lot of men are bitches in 2024 it is what it is

What if such men are not getting IOI’s?

 

[Guitar_Whizz]

No. Dating Apps are an adjunct. Just another tool in the toolbox.

Absolutely not. Dating apps are for masses of generic, beta guys who don't have the balls to cold approach women face to face. They're nothing but a crutch that 99.99% of guys use because they don't want to develop the confidence or skill to successfully approach women face to face.

Real men should not use dating apps. Guys on SoSuave should not be using dating apps. We're supposed to be here to become better than the masses of ordinary, unremarkable men....and that means developing the skill to approach women in real life . By using dating apps, there's nothing to make you stand out from other men, which defeats the object of being on this site.

Real game and real seduction can ONLY be learned and done face to face, not on dating apps.

I'm disappointed in the number of guys on these forums who are relying on dating apps. You're not any kind of seducer or Don Juan unless you have learned to successfully get women from real life cold approach. Don't be thinking you are some sort of Casanova who has game if the only way you can meet women is through dating apps....you absolutely are not!

So I challenge everyone here to ditch the dating apps for good and get out there and approach women in the real world.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Absolutely not. Dating apps are for masses of generic, beta guys who don't have the balls to cold approach women face to face. They're nothing but a crutch that 99.99% of guys use because they don't want to develop the confidence or skill to successfully approach women face to face.

Real men should not use dating apps. Guys on SoSuave should not be using dating apps. We're supposed to be here to become better than the masses of ordinary, unremarkable men....and that means developing the skill to approach women in real life . By using dating apps, there's nothing to make you stand out from other men, which defeats the object of being on this site.

Real game and real seduction can ONLY be learned and done face to face, not on dating apps.

I'm disappointed in the number of guys on these forums who are relying on dating apps. You're not any kind of seducer or Don Juan unless you have learned to successfully get women from real life cold approach. Don't be thinking you are some sort of Casanova who has game if the only way you can meet women is through dating apps....you absolutely are not!

So I challenge everyone here to ditch the dating apps for good and get out there and approach women in the real world.

Tinder was amazing. If I had never tried it, I would have missed out on a fantastic part of my life. But. I never relied on Tinder alone. I still worked it IRL too.