Are Dating Apps really that bad right now

AmsterdamAssassin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2023
Messages
6,573
Reaction score
5,685
Because it is all a fugazi at the end of the day. The woman is either attracted to you initially and you don't screw up, you find a ***** that doesn't give AF, or you find a girl in a bad emotional state.
I'm sorry you have to live in such a disappointing place.
 

AmsterdamAssassin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2023
Messages
6,573
Reaction score
5,685
go work your magic on Miranda Cosgrove then
Now I understand why you're such a whiny little boy, but you have to understand that some ugly ducklings like you never will become swans.
 

Gamisch

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2022
Messages
3,568
Reaction score
4,360
OLD is trumped to be a convenient and efficient way to find the love of your life, based on science. Instead, it's a time suck method to hook up with sub-par women you wouldn't be interested in when you'd meet them in real life. On top of that, most of the women you match with (if they are indeed women and not scammers or matchdotcom employees) are low value or only interested in getting your attention and validation. And that ROI makes OLD an effort.

I understand that, but anytime your 'method' of finding someone is an 'effort' and not a joy, you're doing something wrong. In my opinion, the best way to find suitable LTR women is moving in the right social circles and being good company.
Only when I was very young I would 'chase skirts' until I got older and understood that women are like cats. You cannot get their company from chasing them, you have to attract them to want to be in your company.

That's why I don't give advice here on how to seduce women. All I can advise is to be good company. I don't need to seduce women, chase skirts or swipe on an app. I'm a social person and move in many different social circles where women enjoy being in my company. And this is what I call living in abundance, I have to decline invitations to most of the events / parties I'm invited to, and I'm very selective in becoming intimate with the women who seek my company.
I agree.

Men ,especially here, want formulas that guarantee success 100 % . The infamous "text her this" or " say that " types of lines.

It's more about your overall energy. But oke.

Tbh finding women IS quite the task to most men. I can play chess but if I always lose the game ain't fun. Gotta rack up some wins to keep it existing..

I know way too many men who told me they opt out the game due to lack of W's. They rather be without women than going through the process of POSSIBLY losing...

Some dudes don't even know their REAL question is:" how do I get some wins?? ".
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
14,562
Reaction score
15,679
Like any other thing, there will always be adaptations needed over time to have continued success. With dating apps or anything in life really.

People's unwillingness to adapt is usually what causes them problems.
 

Isildur1

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 5, 2018
Messages
213
Reaction score
115
Age
32
The last woman I had free sex with (I met her offline) certainly looked a lot better than the 8 month girlfriend I got from POF. You're probably right.
my brother ended up in a LTR with a single mum off online apps in Ireland - my other brother found a Russian wife off online dating and she cheated on him with three other men - i personally met my girlfriend off daygame and she never has used apps. Of course i know plenty of success stories from online but they rarely happened to me- most of my successes came off daygame.
 

AmsterdamAssassin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2023
Messages
6,573
Reaction score
5,685
Your country allows prostitution & drugs but not The Wolf of Wall Street? The Dutch still feel guilty for their historic great sins?!
If you quote me, at least give some kind of intelligent response. I know it's a lot to ask for from you, so perhaps you shouldn't try to interact with me if you can only come up with this drivel that shows your ignorance.
 

CornbreadFed

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 7, 2023
Messages
3,182
Reaction score
2,462
Age
30
Location
Nashville, TN
If you quote me, at least give some kind of intelligent response. I know it's a lot to ask for from you, so perhaps you shouldn't try to interact with me if you can only come up with this drivel that shows your ignorance.
Like I said before, go seduce Miranda Cosgrove with your cat pirate seduction game into fvcking you and I will take you seriously.
 

AmsterdamAssassin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2023
Messages
6,573
Reaction score
5,685
Like I said before, go seduce Miranda Cosgrove with your cat pirate seduction game into fvcking you and I will take you seriously.
I'm not interested in your opinion, so I don't give an airborne copulation whether you take me seriously or not, retard.
 

Divorced w 3

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 20, 2022
Messages
2,580
Reaction score
1,461
What’s the best app? I don’t want to go through the thread. Thanks
 
Top