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    everybody makes her laugh

    "I want a girl who laughs for no one else" Weezer lyrics, I know, but they make sense. Im just saying beware, because the girls who tend to laugh at everything are also the biggest flirts in my experience. If she can have a good time around anyone, then you arent so special, and she might...
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    First kiss stories.

    I was 17. Second date with a girl and first date I made no move whatsoever: no hug, no cheek kiss, nothing. I got some flak from my friends that week about it, but I had oneitis for this girl for almost 2 years and I didnt want to screw things up. Second date I resolved to kiss her. Get back...
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    Establishing Rules for Fvck Buddies

    Thing is, I dont think she has a relationship in mind at all. She just wants to have "fun." So I think she wants a sex buddy relationship, but she might think i want a full relationship, and thats what I am trying to ask: how do i pretty clearly state that i dont want a full relationship?
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    Establishing Rules for Fvck Buddies

    Does anyone have any experience on how to set something like this up? I have heard a lot of general advice about relationships to basically not start relationship conversations with girls. But in this case, should I bring up the possibility of fvck buddies, and discuss it? Im basically in a...
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    When a Girl Asks How Often You Visit JILL

    Brilliant! Ill try to find the right moment. But as to the psychology...why would she ask? Women are crazy.
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    Introducing friends to Sosuave

    remember: if you invite your friends on here, then they can see what you write... which may not always be a great thing.
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    When a Girl Asks How Often You Visit JILL

    So I learned something new today as well. If you hold up your right hand with all the fingers spread out, it looks like J I l l, or JILL. I thought it was just an assignment of one letter to each finger, leaving out the thumb, but now it makes much more sense. In any case, BUMP. Id still like...
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    I'm great around girls until I know they like me

    Yeah. One thing I like to think to help me bolster my confidence (because that is really all you need: the confidence to be yourself) is that you like these girls for a reason right? They are something special. Well, THEY like you! It feels pretty good to have a girl who you think is above...
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    I'm great around girls until I know they like me

    I suppose I have a similar problem. I can flirt and attract girls no problem, but once I start to like them I act completely differently. I begin to watch what I say and not flirt with them, and I am a lot more uptight around the girl I like. This obviously comes from putting the girl on a...
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    When a Girl Asks How Often You Visit JILL

    Yeah I thought she was lying. So what shouldve I said, and why is she asking this?
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    When a Girl Asks How Often You Visit JILL

    Jill is a slang term for jerking off. 4 fingers, J-I-L-L. Must be a Ohio thing... Thats why I said Ed: 2 fingers, female equivalent..
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    When a Girl Asks How Often You Visit JILL

    So I was talking to this girl I go out with periodically, and she asks me how often I "get a visit from Jill." (Jill, for those of you who dont know, is a slang term for jerking off. 4 fingers, each with a letter, J-I-L-L. Must be a local thing...) Jokingly, I say "who is Jill?" and "can I get...
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    Asking Her to Homecoming

    GAMES!!! Seriously, I wouldnt play them. Ask another girl to homecoming and make the one you originally asked wish she wouldve said yes. But keep flirting with her, so she thinks you still like her.
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    Friends w/ Benefits Homecoming Drama

    No... Basically going out on dates, kissing, etc. no sleeping with her, although i have reason to believe she might be a possible fwb. IM trying to think of a way to bring that up. I may not bring it up, just let it happen. My main concern now is that Ive been trying to be a challenge for...
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    Friends w/ Benefits Homecoming Drama

    We have been casually dating for the past halfa year, we went to prom together, etc... Its just that when we first went out I could see her losing attraction, then she started going out with another guy, then I asked her out again, except this time I used some DJ stuff and it has went OK.
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    Friends w/ Benefits Homecoming Drama

    I screwed up. A couple weeks ago I asked this girl I have been hanging out with to go to homecoming with me. She said "sorry, but I wanted to go with this guy, but he said no, and im not even sure if im going, ill get back to you" So AFC as I was (and still pretty much am), I said, ok, talk...
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    MrConfidences thread

    Imagine youre a baseball player and you suck. You cant hit worth crap. You have never hit a home run in your life, and now you are at bat. How is your confidence? Of course its terrible. But, IF you have hit a home run before, you know you can do it again. You know that you possess that...
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    girl asked for my number

    I would ask her out, make your intentions clear that you like her in a way that is more than friends, and make sure she has a great time. But after you go out with her, dont make yourself available for a while... and all the basic stuff the DJ Bible tells us to do.
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    girl asked for my number

    When a girl tickles you, it means she wants you to touch her. So holding hands is half right. I would tickle her back. She puts her hand on your thigh, you do the same to her. Sometime, though, youll have to lead. (Ex: kiss her).
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    MrConfidences thread

    That sounds exactly like me, until about a half a year ago. What happened? I got a girl. I know it sounds paradoxical, but your confidence will NOT go up until you get a girl. Why? You have no confidence in yourself not because you arent good enough at something, you think you look bad, or...
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