I screwed up.
A couple weeks ago I asked this girl I have been hanging out with to go to homecoming with me. She said "sorry, but I wanted to go with this guy, but he said no, and im not even sure if im going, ill get back to you" So AFC as I was (and still pretty much am), I said, ok, talk to you then.
So a week passes and Ive been reading this site. I do just a couple things: tease sexually and use kino, push & pull, working on my terms, and all of a sudden her attraction level is way higher. She asked me out, initiates convo's, starts flirting...etc. All in a couple days. I even turned down her date because i was "busy".
Well she says today that we need to talk and that she had last week (after i asked her) promised to go with another guy to spite the original guy she wanted to go with. I cant really blame her, as last week I very AFC and not playing things right. BUt tonight she asks if I was OK with that.
I said "What if I say no?" and she says ill fix things then. Well then I start saying that she should go with whoever she wants to go with, not someone just to spite another person, and that I really think she should be going with the original guy. I said that I dont mind, cuz i could find another date.
NOW HERE IS THE DILEMMA
I know I should have dropped this chick by now, but Im thinking that she could be a potential fvck buddy candidate, and I could then care less who she is dating. The thing is, she might think i have no balls and am a AFC now since I didnt really stand up to her homecoming thing. Shouldve I? Is it a **** test?
I have a date with her coming up, and im thinking of doing one of three things at the end:
1) Telling her that I wont put up with her going with another guy. Thats final.
2) Tell her that it was really hard for me to force myself to go on this date because I really didnt want to, and that Im fed up with giving her second chances.
3) Ask her in some way to be a friends with benfits.
Any thoughts?
A couple weeks ago I asked this girl I have been hanging out with to go to homecoming with me. She said "sorry, but I wanted to go with this guy, but he said no, and im not even sure if im going, ill get back to you" So AFC as I was (and still pretty much am), I said, ok, talk to you then.
So a week passes and Ive been reading this site. I do just a couple things: tease sexually and use kino, push & pull, working on my terms, and all of a sudden her attraction level is way higher. She asked me out, initiates convo's, starts flirting...etc. All in a couple days. I even turned down her date because i was "busy".
Well she says today that we need to talk and that she had last week (after i asked her) promised to go with another guy to spite the original guy she wanted to go with. I cant really blame her, as last week I very AFC and not playing things right. BUt tonight she asks if I was OK with that.
I said "What if I say no?" and she says ill fix things then. Well then I start saying that she should go with whoever she wants to go with, not someone just to spite another person, and that I really think she should be going with the original guy. I said that I dont mind, cuz i could find another date.
NOW HERE IS THE DILEMMA
I know I should have dropped this chick by now, but Im thinking that she could be a potential fvck buddy candidate, and I could then care less who she is dating. The thing is, she might think i have no balls and am a AFC now since I didnt really stand up to her homecoming thing. Shouldve I? Is it a **** test?
I have a date with her coming up, and im thinking of doing one of three things at the end:
1) Telling her that I wont put up with her going with another guy. Thats final.
2) Tell her that it was really hard for me to force myself to go on this date because I really didnt want to, and that Im fed up with giving her second chances.
3) Ask her in some way to be a friends with benfits.
Any thoughts?