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    Long time no see...

    Good points, JonJack...I'd really like to keep our friendship...she told my friend that she wants that no matter what. However, I feel like she's forgotten about me, although, she did call the other night...I think time apart is best for now... She told him that this new guy (who she'e...
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    Long time no see...

    She just called me -- just to talk. I'm really tempted to pretend like everything is ok, but it's not. What should I have said/say next time?
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    Long time no see...

    TillTheEndOfTime, I think you hit the nail on the head. A few weeks ago, she was dating this loser and he was a real jerk to her, she came running to me. I don't want to be her fallback guy...so, *I'll* be too busy for her (when/if she comes around) and I'll get out there and date other...
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    Long time no see...

    Since December, I've become best friends with a certain girl. We hung out, or at least called each other regularly -- watching movie, or just goofing off... A few weeks ago, she met a certain guy. Since then, she has been spending all of her time with him - totally forgetting about me. I...
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    Said I was "sweet" then made out with me

    A girl I was with always said the same thing...and she would always say: "you're cute". It made me feel somewhat childish or un-manly when she said that, but she assured me that if a girl is smiling and says: "you're cute," it's a very good thing.
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    She's spending all her time with another guy...

    I went to Colorado Springs for a week. While I was gone, my close friend Brittany (I'm not going to say girlfriend because we're in an "open" relationship -- meaning we date other people) spent a lot of time with this other guy. I've known about him and I guess they've been dating for a few...
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    Her Signals from Last Night

    "If she touches her lips, subconsciously she wants to touch your lips." I noticed she did this a lot. She was caressing her lips with her fingers and even rested her fingers on them for a while... Obviously, my kiss is overdue. ;)
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    Her Signals from Last Night

    Kissing in the beginning is the best way to go -- I realize that now. That way, you can get it out of the way without all of the wondering. And, maybe do some more during the boring parts of the movie. I want to kiss her when she least expects it. It will show that I have confidence, and it...
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    Her Signals from Last Night

    This girl I hang out with - last night she kissed my shoulder as we were leaving the restaurant we ate at. She locked arms with me when we went shopping afterwards and when we went back to my place, we watched a movie while laying on my bed. I initiated the hand-holding and I caressed her...
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    Truth or Dare

    Me, my girlfriend and my best friend and his girlfriend are getting together on Wednesday night and we're going to play Truth or Dare. We're all 19 years old. What are some good questions/dares?
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    Help! I'm being too ****y!

    Excerpt from an email she sent me a couple of weeks ago: "I know you love me or you wouldn't treat me so badly... LOL. It was all in good fun but I will say it made me feel bad for a little bit. But I got used to it. I have to remind myself that's how you are and it's just teasing."...
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    Help! I'm being too ****y!

    Last night I hung out with my friend and she was very flirtatious and touchy feely (especially in public). I think she almost tried to kiss me once. Anyway, recently, I've been somewhat of a jerk to her (she knows I'm teasing), but I think it's starting to get the best of me. I think she's...
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    Confused(Long)

    I've noticed that this board is somewhat fixated on the goal of "banging" the girl... What a world, what a world...
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    Am I drowning in my own jerkness?

    "Call me tonight and maybe we'll do something. Depending how tired I am. I need to go to bed early tonight in order to make it through a long day tomorrow." Should I call? If I do, we might hang out and have fun...if not, it will be the first time...and she'll wonder what I'm up to...and...
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    Am I drowning in my own jerkness?

    Is there such a thing as being too much of a "jerk"? I mean, I do it in a playful way (with a smile), but I don't know if it offends her -- well, she'll call me a jerk, and stick her tongue out at me and punch my arm (maybe she's just playing along)...is it a postive thing? Does it somehow make...
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    Keep a girl interest - Why a "nice guy" finishes last

    My girlfriend and I are ruthless. We are always fighting and teasing each other (in a playful way), but at the end of the day, we always give each other a loving hug goodnight. I started it and she followed. We seem to be having a healthier relationship, whereas, in the past, I was very clingy...
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    First Date - Casual - She wanted to come in my house!

    I think you did great! You're in control. And, obviously, she digs you, so no worries. You left her wanting more...and more she will get...in time. Clean the place up. Have her over for pizza and a movie...cuddle...;) Have fun!!!
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    I need advise to keep her

    I'm going off on a tangent, but I'm assuming kissing often-times has different meanings for women than men, right? Of course, it's a way to show how you feel about someone...I know I feel close to her and it's just a lot of fun... What do girls get out of it? I'm assuming a lot of the...
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    Kissing in an casual, open relationship...

    We haven't kissed for a month...we hang out, watch movies, go to dinner, etc...it's just that kissing is fun and I want to get back in gear. It's just that when we kiss, I feel a lot more comfortable around her.
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    Kissing in an casual, open relationship...

    You guys are right...I'm over-analytical about everything. A friend of mine told me not to worry...to have fun and get all the kissing I can in.
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