Confused(Long)

[baddfishh40]

Saturday I went to run an invitational for our schools track team and this one girl I've been flirting with for a little while was there also. She asked me if I wanted to go get something to eat with her and this other girl and I decided to go. Before we went I mentioned hooking up that night and goind to the movies or something and she said she'd probably want to do that. We all went and ate and they both seemed to really enjoy my company and I was busting on both of them. Later that night she calls me at like 8:45 and said she was sorry she fell asleep but she said if I want to do something besides going to the movies that'd be great.
I told her we could rent a movie and chill at my house. I went and picked her up and we were flirting with some moderate kino well we were picking out a movie and going into the house. We watched the movie the movie for about 30 minutes or so and she kept on bring up sex jokes and that kind of thing and was wanting me to feel her legs and stuff. I could tell she was really enjoying herself and laughing at anything I'd say.
Shortly after that I said something then leaned in and kissed her but backed off pretty quick to change positions and she said something like "Aww, that was so sweet" and was smiling really big and licked her lips. Then she layed down on the couch and we made out for a short period of time and I frenched her and then she turned her head aside and I started to get up but she grabbed me and was holding me against her but wasn't kissing me. She was just rubbing my hair and back for awhile then I sat up and she put her feet on my thighs and I'd occasionaly rub her legs for awhile. I took her back home and on the way home she was singing with the radio and just messing around and it seemed like she was really having a good time.
I dropped her off and as she was getting out of the car I didn't have my body language facing her and she leaned in and gave me a hug and told me that she'd call me sometime later. I didn't talk to her until track practice today but she seemed to be ignoring me when I first came in and acting kind of funny but later on I had the chance to bust on her and kino her and she started getting more like her normal self.
I'm highly valued by the girls on the track team so they were all flirting with me constantly and I didn't really go out of my way to talk to this girl but I did get some good things in when I had the chance. I've made the mistake of coming off too needy or not alpha enough but I feel like I executed saturday night perfect with neg hits and other techniques. I've been hooking up with alot of different girls lately but she seems to really be compatiable so she's got me pretty confused. Just wondering if anybody can tell me what might be going on. Thanks

 

[spukee]

AUGH MY EYES! Throw some paragraph breaks in there pal...

 

[baddfishh40]

Sorry about that man... I typed it fast because my internet is down at my house and I won't be here much longer.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Don't really see why your confused? You are falling for this girl already and that is something you need to recognize!! So be aware because you don't want your emotions controlling your logic.

She's trying to play hard to get a bit and be a tad shy. You need to keep acting how you always have; flirt with all the girls, give her a bit of attention at pratice, then hang out with her at night until you bang her. Then just decide what you want, her or the variety pack.


PIMP

 

[Timster]

I've noticed that this board is somewhat fixated on the goal of "banging" the girl...

What a world, what a world...

 

[baddfishh40]

I know I'm falling for her..... And the thing is is that that doesn't happen very often... It's very rare when I meet a girl that I could really see myself with and I think ultimatley deep down thats what I want. Should I just play it cool for the rest of the week and ask her out this weekend?

 

[TizZle]

She wanted more than kissing... Turning of the Head & then she brought you back to her when you tried to get up. Seriously, I would have kissed her neck for a little bit then pulled her shirt off and went from there.

Maybe she's a ho and maybe she is not. You'll know soon enough. I think you tapped into that part of her that wanted sex and you didn't come through.

Women want sex just as much if not more than men do.

I'm really not confused one bit on your situation. Your techniques seemed to work i will give you that. Especially with this girl. You had her in a position where you probably could have done more than makeout with her but nothing happened? Did you try to do more and she threw up some last minute resistance?

I'll give you props because your techniques did work. Next time go for more than making out in that position. Take the lead man.

Ask her out again and don't fall for her ! Easier said then done sometimes though.

Pimp-sicle I like your advice. He needs to keep doing what he is doing and hang out with her at night.

Timster I like what you said also if he is looking for a relationship in which he tries to build on the emotional instead of the physical(sex) first.

 

[baddfishh40]

Thanks everybody. See in a normal situation I would have kept going further but in this case I was really enjoying myself just being with her company and sex wasn't really all that important to me at the time(Probably this first time I've ever thought this way). It's situations like this that make me feel AFC but at the same time they also make me consider why I am in the game and I think ultimatley I'm looking for a girl that I just really enjoy being with....... None the less this girl is like a 9 and if I set up something this weekend I'll try to bang her .... I was just worried she might have had like a friendship type fun with me and I thought maybe I had crossed over into that but I'll just keep doing my thing and see what happens. Thanks guys.

 

[baddfishh40]

Update..... So I asked this girl out again and we hooked up tonight. Well I went and picked her up and we stopped and got milkshakes. I've become accustom to not paying for girls things lately and even having girls buy my **** so when I was paying she was like "are you gonna pay for mine?" and I was like "phh.... Are you serious.....? I guess but only because I feel sorry for you.... and you better pay for my ticket...". She laughed and slapped my arm.
Everything seemed to be going really well, she would be smiling all the time when she'd talk to me and seemed like she was enjoying herself. We got to the movies and I hesitated for paying for her ticket but I ended up doing it. We got inside and about 10 minutes through the movie I had my arm around her and I stroked her hair and her arm and all that stuff. Then a little later I went in for a kiss but she never even turned her head, so I just thought maybe she didn't even notice what I was doing... Then I tried again about 15 minutes later with no success.... and I said "nice block..." while smiling and acted like it didn't really bother me. But I noticed both times I attempted she just kind of smirked as she saw it coming...
In between the attempts I went from heavy kino to backing off and not having my arm around her and I know I didn't appear needy. Any time I'd turn my head to talk to her she wouldn't face me after I tried kissing her but anytime something would happen she'd look at me and laugh or say something and I'd usually not look back at her because when I did she would turn away.
She was using some kino on me and she grabbed my hand at one point in the movie when something suspensful happened while I had my arm around her and she also intentually rubbed my thigs when she was getting me to move so she could go to the bathroom.
I noticed that although her upper body was leaned towards me she had her legs facing away.... and one time I left and when I came back she was smirking at me and I could tell she was watching me in the corner of her eyes as I came up the steps....
We walked out and she walked close to me and intentially bumped into me a few times and talked about how good the movie was on the way home. When I let her out she just "Bye Rob! I'll pay you back later, I promise" even though I didn't really make a big deal about paying for her I just kind of hesitated. She didn't give me a hug or tell me she had a good time like last time.... Is this girl playing games but really likes me or should I just next her...?

 

[flexion_]

She is just taking it a little slow 'tizz all. Sounds like she likes you anyway so just relax and go with it. Don't be afraid to initiate though - you've been with her enough now so it shouldn't be a problem or appear to forward.

 

[CLOONEY]

hahaha, the joys of overanalyzing when we really like a girl. Happens to the best of us! Just dont get too into her yet, once she senses she has you real keen, she will bolt. Unless of course, her IL is real high, then you can do pretty much anything and she will still be keen. Take it easy, and remember the most important thing, to ENJOY the dates, dont get consumed with the game part of it!

Other than that, it sounds like she likes you, but is seeing what your like and if she thinks you are long term potential. Exactly the same as you should be seeing with her. Let us know how next date goes!