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Let it go, man. My ex, my kid, and the ex's boyfriend are currently living it up at the lake house I personally renovated. Do you think I give a fvck? No, I don't. I banged a 27 yo all day yesterday and will be seeing another new lady friend tomorrow night. Living well is the best and only...

Just b1tching about doesn't solve much. What happened? Break it down and we may be able to offer some advice.

Qualifying with the goal of finding somebody ltr worthy is the ultimate goal, and not aware of any other method than spinning to find that out. Seems a hell of a lot more efficient than date 1 girl > qualify > rinse > repeat, at any rate. Spinning plates is also a hedge against the flakiness...

I talk for a living, so I can relate to the occasional need for down time, but not really what I meant. Also, providing them a good time when we do get together it's no big deal either. I work in a very exciting, interesting industry, and live right in the middle of a city of 5 million people...

What up? So, per some recent threads, recently divorced, and now spinning plates like a mf'er. Life is grand, banging a 27 yo (I'm 42.), just had a date tonight w/ 33 yo doctor who's fvcking fine and smart, impromptu hang out on Saturday night w/ 30 yo I was dating when I initially separated...

Run like hell and don't look back, bud.

Lol, it was 10 years ago, man. Something of an understatement to say I'm not the same person then that I am now.

***Update*** Are you sitting down? Papers signed yesterday: 50/50 custody, no monthly child support obligation (Though I'm on the hook for a percentage of private school, aftercare, summer activities, etc. Was doing that already, so no big deal.) and $50k coming to me to make me whole on...

Cologne is serious business apparently. :) OP, I got a great deal on Burberry on ebay, lots of great deals on there.

:rockon: Preach it brother. Spot on, right down to the bang her, but don't mistake her for LTR material part.

Already moved out months ago now. Have notarized document from crazy ex stating this was not abandonment and was mutually agreed to, etc. Absolute worst case scenario on custody will be joint; I have been super dad from day one and will continue to do so. Additionally, crazy ex does not want...

To clarify, when I hear MGTOW, I tend to think of the Level 4 hardcore types, that is just kooky to me, and no way to live. I get there are different levels, yadda, yadda, yadda, and perhaps mispoke in lumping them all together, though I still think the term has anti relationship, anti woman...

Decided, by the way, to cut my plates down to 2 for now. Between the pending drama, career, and parenthood, I honestly don't think I can handle more than that right now. Cut it down to one on demand fvckbuddy and one that I see some LTR potential with.

Why do you say that? Based on my research, it certainly seems to be the only viable route should I be stupid enough to go down this road again...

Reasons for me are increasing issues with mental illness that she refused to acknowledge or seek help for, increased alcohol use to the point where it quit being 'Hey, she's fun and cool and doesn't mind knocking back a few glasses of wine,' and more like, 'You puked all over the patio last...

I'm well aware of all that and, to clarify, am not seeking a Fault divorce due to the infidelity. We're still going No Fault all the way, due to the procedural complications mentioned above. The infidelity stuff is, again, more about how that fits into the larger body of evidence that shows...

My attorney has said that it is absolutely relevant in that it relates to her competency as a parent, lifestyle choices, etc., which will ultimately have a pretty significant bearing on custody and child support. The infidelity, too, is just a tiny bit of the evidence: drunkenness, gambling...

Update to the update: Ok, so finally saw the 'revisions' today. Still laughable and not workable. Have agreed with my attorney that we need to come out strong with our proposal. Will be asking for primary custody, alimony, child support, half her retirement, half of shared property, equitable...

Thanks again for the advice I've already taken, it'll be a huge help.

See my earlier comments about reading comprehension. Not 'pretending' anything, you dumbass.