atlantadawg
Don Juan
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Is, wait for it, going to be contested after all.
Fvcking fvck.
Quick backstory: crazy beech, big time history of mental illness in family, drunk, complete trainwreck, separated several months now, 8 year old daughter in the mix. She said all along 'no attorneys and I'll go to mediation for anything we can't work out ourselves' until, that is, $ came up.
I drew up settlement for no alimony (We both do well, both over 6 figures, but she makes significantly more than I do.), no child support, 50/50 custody, no going after her retirement, savings, shared property, etc. Just let me have my daughter 50% of the time and I'll pay half her private school tuition and whatever else needs paying because I've got her back, not because I owe it to the ex, you know?
She comes back with me being garnished for nearly $1k month right out of the gate, says I owe her $10k in back child support, is trying to fvck me out of equity on the house, the whole nine yards. Just went for the jugular right out of the gate. She then tried to threaten me into agreeing to this, because she knows I want to get this done yesterday and avoid a long protracted court deal.
I feel like I have no other option but to retain an attorney and scorch the earth. Ask for everything, including the kitchen sink, and hope her attorney is not a fvcking moron and that we can settle up quickly.
The point of all this, though, is that I was just getting rolling on my game.
Banging a 27 year old, multiple other plates spinning.
I'm having the fvcking time of my life basically already, and it was only looking better from there until the sheet hit the fan in the last few days.
So...anybody been in a similar spot? Advice? What should my next move be? I am in a bit of a holding pattern for the next few days until my attorney is available to start my settlement draft. TIA...
Fvcking fvck.
Quick backstory: crazy beech, big time history of mental illness in family, drunk, complete trainwreck, separated several months now, 8 year old daughter in the mix. She said all along 'no attorneys and I'll go to mediation for anything we can't work out ourselves' until, that is, $ came up.
I drew up settlement for no alimony (We both do well, both over 6 figures, but she makes significantly more than I do.), no child support, 50/50 custody, no going after her retirement, savings, shared property, etc. Just let me have my daughter 50% of the time and I'll pay half her private school tuition and whatever else needs paying because I've got her back, not because I owe it to the ex, you know?
She comes back with me being garnished for nearly $1k month right out of the gate, says I owe her $10k in back child support, is trying to fvck me out of equity on the house, the whole nine yards. Just went for the jugular right out of the gate. She then tried to threaten me into agreeing to this, because she knows I want to get this done yesterday and avoid a long protracted court deal.
I feel like I have no other option but to retain an attorney and scorch the earth. Ask for everything, including the kitchen sink, and hope her attorney is not a fvcking moron and that we can settle up quickly.
The point of all this, though, is that I was just getting rolling on my game.
Banging a 27 year old, multiple other plates spinning.
I'm having the fvcking time of my life basically already, and it was only looking better from there until the sheet hit the fan in the last few days.
So...anybody been in a similar spot? Advice? What should my next move be? I am in a bit of a holding pattern for the next few days until my attorney is available to start my settlement draft. TIA...