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There may be exceptions to this rule, but for the most part I sadly agree with this. My last NC went exactly according to this script. At the end of the day she was still unsuitable for me and I ended up letting her go. Only after she acted a bit off did I just let the cat out of the bag to...

There are certain truths in this world. Regardless of opinion this move places you in an advantage. If you're in a situation where breaking up is inevitable, it's far better to be the one who does it and on your terms. Is it a jacked up psych game? Yes. Does it work? Undoubtedly. Last week I...

A lot of constructive comments here. It's sort of like when I was killing it in the gym just trying to get as big as possible. Once I reached my lifting goals and desired size I was like, "okay, what now???" I wasn't trying to compete and honestly it wasn't doing me much good. In fact it was...

I think you summed it up nicely. You have to take the good with the bad going for high numbers. Not every one (in fact not many) will be quality in either looks or personality. Sometimes you'll get one or the other, sometimes none, and sometimes all. LTRs were always higher quality on looks but...

This is true.

If it makes you feel any better, I had 4 for all of 2012...including the girl I'm with right now in 2013. LOL...I was also deployed from Feb 2012 until Nov 2012 (Afghanistan), so I'm not sure if that makes anything easy to understand. Maybe this isn't helping my explanation. Look at the flip...

Living in cities like Phoenix, Vegas, LA, and so on it is not really that hard. Understand that guys who have this many also have issues (I'm in that lot). While I've had as many as 3 in a day, I've also had as little as ZERO in 6 mos so it's usually feast or famine. Also keep in mind that those...

I knew there had to be a few on this site

Yikes...I thought the average would be well over 200. My life is so twisted. I'm at around 600+. I'm really not exaggerating, I'm 39. I've been tested and never had anything...I think God loves me (a little at least). Gents, when I say my life is twisted, I'm somewhat of an aware NPD who...

There's Truth To This This can work for as well as against you! When I say "against", I'm referring to the opposite sex employing these tactics and you not realizing it soon enough. Hey guys, oddly enough I just broke it off with one of the girls I was seeing due to NPD (Narcissistic...

Appreciate the response Purefilth. Yeah, I settled on this a few hours ago and opted to quietly dissolve away without saying a word. I've dealt with LI before and I honestly believe this particular situation is a damaged goods scenario based on the Red Flags. Sadly, my initial thought...

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DJs, If you’ve read my previous post about this girl, then this is date #2. Ultimately I can’t seem to nail down her profile. Okay, as much as I thought I knew and have been successful in my dating life I’ve hit a brick wall. I’ve posted about this girl once already, but that was before date...

This is another great technique using FB. Quite a few of us are curious what IL is at any given point when we're dealing with mixed signals, and this is a non-invasive method of getting an idea or hunch on which direction you should take things. I've used your FB idea before.

Probably just lazy. If it helps, I went out with this girl last night who consistently shows low interest in between dates but continues to take me home after the dates...so last night was lay #2 and date #2 with this particular woman.

Finally decided to post this. I'm 39 years old now and have been studying multiple ways to manipulate or measure the results of that manipulation. My personal studies have focused on work, women, and generally getting or getting out of things (speeding tickets, etc). When I started talking to...

I've had to kick two girls out of my apartment after midnight for not taking the panties off after getting in bed and making out (and they had no good explanation, as in biological).

Even now that I've been dating this girl consistently, I only provide limited time for complaints about work, friends, family, etc. I'll allow a small amount for discussion sake when we first meet after not seeing one another for a week or so, but after about 10 min I cut it off. A couple...

Agree with all the above. If she's not your wife...or at least engaged to you...she owes you nothing. Time to create quiet distance.

You have to remember that this is your "scenario" not hers. In other words it's your world you invited her to, and that world has to continue with or without her. No ultimatums, this will only provide her with satisfaction of knowing she's adored. Chicas tend to hate not being adored, even if...