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Agree with Joe. You can't be nice and genuine and caring with everybody, because most people are **** and will trample all over you. Most people are very selfish, and don't care who they hurt to get what they want, and have all the power. It's a fiercely competitive, dog-eat-dog world, and only...

PHM: Most men will find that when they fake behavior JUST to attract women they won't enjoy being with those women as much. They will be haunted by feelings of inadequacy. They will also resent the woman for liking their fake persona over their real persona. Like being an undercover cop and...

Yep... And when you succumb to their "wants", and place yourself beneath them, or enter pursuit mode - the power shifts, and they lose interest. I used to do this ALL THE TIME, out of fear of losing them - because they had trust issues, complained non-stop, thought I was a player, "wanted" me to...

Agreed... And the same applies to many things. Pretenders don't get very far, and eventually get revealed.

Good replies. And it works, too. In most cases, it's even required... especially with the immature, "exciting", out-going types... which most hot girls are. They live for this ****, and lose interest if you're too predictable and "boring".

Same... Even if they appear to be sane and rational and intelligent - they're still retarded and crazy... Which becomes more clear as time passes, and nothing they do makes any sense, or completely contradicts what they were previously saying. Guess it depends on the kind of women, though. Most...

Not the biggest fan, either. But that quote is still great, and spot-on. Can't take that away from him. The truth is the truth - no matter who it comes from, or how much you dislike them.

^ Love that quote; have it memorized. A lot of good looking, social / interesting, successful people fly solo - not because they believe to be better than everyone else, but because all of the low-level fags and bishes hate on them to no end; compete with them over everything; sabotage anything...

Word... learned that the hard way. That's why I fly solo and don't tell people ****. Nobody is interested in your success. Those who fail will try to bring you down to their level; talk ****, hate, compete, sabotage, belittle, dissuade, minimize, disbelief, etc. Those who succeed don't really...

Solomon: What I meant was, people in certain social crowds aren't worth becoming good friends with. Not that you can't become friends with anybody. A lot of these people lead very shallow lifestyles, and are all about the drama, status, competition, gossip, etc. The women they attract, of...

Agreed... There's a lot of fake, shallow, status-obsessed people in these social crowds - and they WILL compete, sabotage, try to one-up you in front of others, etc. Don't befriend these two-faced pricks, act too nice and friendly, or get too close. These cliquey *******s will also hate you for...

One thing you'll learn about "super hotties" is, they tend to place little to no value on others - they're all about themselves; how they feel, and what they want. Most people are this way, of course, but it's more extreme with them. That's all I see happening here... she does whatever she...

Yea, but the two go hand in hand... much like how an independent, challenging, confident, "sexy" bish is usually mean, stuck up, conceited, fake, or a player. People of both genders usually go for the latter, and dismiss all the negative traits because it attracts them. Just the way it works...

Excellent post(s), PHM... Couldn't agree more (with all people and areas of life). You absolutely MUST respect and look out for yourself, and hold yourself in high regard, or it's game over. Being a "beta fag" is definitely not limited to just women and dating, although they will treat you like...

Yea... I think you realize, after a time, that it's not worth figuring out a LOSER - because that's all they are. The patterns are always the same; they're not good people; they're not "better" than others or worth seeking the approval of; they have nothing going for them; and it does too much...

I think a lot of guys here are full of it... but so are women who claim the same thing about men. Nice "cute" girls definitely exist, but most guys go after the hot, high class, in-demand, crazy, lusty bishes... Hence why they keep complaining about them, and try figuring them out - as they're...

Meh... The most important thing to realize is, people do things because they can get away with it, and it benefits them in some way. This is especially true of "bad" activity - which provides quicker results than normal. There's not much more to it than that. A lot of these "hot" girls are...

Don't get caught up in the reasons or analytical details, and start dissecting and assuming... waste of time and energy, and not even relevant... just focus on the facts. Of course, there's always reasons & similar patterns, but you just know they're not good people for you... and that's all you...

Used to be right at the center of the fake / dysfunctional / trashy drama crowd, so yes.... God, yes. I just fly solo now. The social / party crowd is full of these crazy drama wh0res and fake assh0les - and their BS DOES get dumped onto you. Toxic people are just that... and they attract drama...

Indeed. Like I always say - this also applies to people in general. You cannot be submissive, agreeable, passive, weak, or a give-in pushover; approval-seeking type. People WILL take advantage; control, bully, demand, act bossy, be disrespectful, look down on you, sabotage your life, etc. Even...