Most does not mean all, it just means more than half.
What I have learned after reading over 100s of posts on forums across the web relating to PUA, dating advice, and improving your dating life is that most people are not very encouraging. At first, people will question why you even want to go after what you want. Why you want to live the lifestyle which involves sleeping with lots of attractive women.
Then people will talk you out of it by telling you that the lifestyle is morally wrong and you don't have what it takes. People will push limiting beliefs on to you and try to discourage you.
After that doesn't work, people will try to actively sabotage you. They will try to dig up your old posts, make you seem like some sort of a bad person for wanting to have a better life, and most of all they will attack you every chance they get because you are trying to better yourself.
If I was to tell this to guys on most forums, they wouldn't believe me. They would say I am making this up and that it doesn't really happen. Something else you wouldn't believe is the amount of hate these guys sometimes get from sexually frustrated men who see these two foreigners hooking up with women they fantasize about.
Why do people do this?
Success takes hard work, no way around it. Even though luck helps, there is no substitute for hard work. If you do not work hard, you won't succeed in anything.
Getting good at attracting women takes hard work, a lot of hard work. It takes bettering your appearance, becoming more confident, becoming comfortable talking with women, dealing with lots of rejections, and then finally getting good at closing.
Most people don't want to go through all that. Most guys out there want to sit at home, watch porn, eat junk food, and have a beautiful woman fall right into their lap. A lot of guys aren't willing to better themselves or make themselves more attractive because they are lazy. Most would rather complain about how bad feminism is and how all women have high standards rather than hit the gym and buy nice clothes.
Now they see this one guy who is trying to better himself, live a good lifestyle, and they can't believe it. Why isn't this guy whining like the rest of us? Why isn't he being lazy and unproductive like us? He should be sitting back home complaining rather than making some of his life? Remember that misery loves company.
So now since this guy has made an effort to better himself, the other guys who are happy being miserable want to see how they can stop him. Seeing someone succeed while you hardly have anything going for yourself causes jealousy. Some people will use this as a motivation to better themselves but most will just become jealous on the inside.
The main reason is that most people aren't successful. Most guys won't sleep with over 10 women in their lives, they will be lucky to have 5. Most men won't get to be with a model looking girl. A lot of people will end up living an average boring existence.
When you become successful, it gets even worse.
I know two guys, we call them "Harold and Kumar" because one is Indian while the other is Korean. Both born in their home countries but raised in California. These guys consistently date good looking women from all races.
Harold (the korean) is in a relationship with this 8/10 brunette, he gets a lot of hate for it at times. For some reason it isn't really from white guys, it is from other minorities who keep on questioning his girlfriend's option to date an Asian dude.
These guys get so much hate because they are good with women and they manage to get the girls other guys want. I have seen them getting called racial slurs all the time out at bars but they still do their thing. Somehow they fought through all that negativity to get to where they are and both of them are in PA school too.
What I have learned after reading over 100s of posts on forums across the web relating to PUA, dating advice, and improving your dating life is that most people are not very encouraging. At first, people will question why you even want to go after what you want. Why you want to live the lifestyle which involves sleeping with lots of attractive women.
Then people will talk you out of it by telling you that the lifestyle is morally wrong and you don't have what it takes. People will push limiting beliefs on to you and try to discourage you.
After that doesn't work, people will try to actively sabotage you. They will try to dig up your old posts, make you seem like some sort of a bad person for wanting to have a better life, and most of all they will attack you every chance they get because you are trying to better yourself.
If I was to tell this to guys on most forums, they wouldn't believe me. They would say I am making this up and that it doesn't really happen. Something else you wouldn't believe is the amount of hate these guys sometimes get from sexually frustrated men who see these two foreigners hooking up with women they fantasize about.
Why do people do this?
Success takes hard work, no way around it. Even though luck helps, there is no substitute for hard work. If you do not work hard, you won't succeed in anything.
Getting good at attracting women takes hard work, a lot of hard work. It takes bettering your appearance, becoming more confident, becoming comfortable talking with women, dealing with lots of rejections, and then finally getting good at closing.
Most people don't want to go through all that. Most guys out there want to sit at home, watch porn, eat junk food, and have a beautiful woman fall right into their lap. A lot of guys aren't willing to better themselves or make themselves more attractive because they are lazy. Most would rather complain about how bad feminism is and how all women have high standards rather than hit the gym and buy nice clothes.
Now they see this one guy who is trying to better himself, live a good lifestyle, and they can't believe it. Why isn't this guy whining like the rest of us? Why isn't he being lazy and unproductive like us? He should be sitting back home complaining rather than making some of his life? Remember that misery loves company.
So now since this guy has made an effort to better himself, the other guys who are happy being miserable want to see how they can stop him. Seeing someone succeed while you hardly have anything going for yourself causes jealousy. Some people will use this as a motivation to better themselves but most will just become jealous on the inside.
The main reason is that most people aren't successful. Most guys won't sleep with over 10 women in their lives, they will be lucky to have 5. Most men won't get to be with a model looking girl. A lot of people will end up living an average boring existence.
When you become successful, it gets even worse.
I know two guys, we call them "Harold and Kumar" because one is Indian while the other is Korean. Both born in their home countries but raised in California. These guys consistently date good looking women from all races.
Harold (the korean) is in a relationship with this 8/10 brunette, he gets a lot of hate for it at times. For some reason it isn't really from white guys, it is from other minorities who keep on questioning his girlfriend's option to date an Asian dude.
These guys get so much hate because they are good with women and they manage to get the girls other guys want. I have seen them getting called racial slurs all the time out at bars but they still do their thing. Somehow they fought through all that negativity to get to where they are and both of them are in PA school too.
My 100th post in 10 years! and what a smack to the face for some.. carry on
