What turns women into hors? Strippers? etc?

[tomwesten27]

I have recently over the past 2 months have taken out a few women who all had serious issues.

They all seemed nice until they got in my car. I mean pretty girls, but CRAZY. Found out a girl I was taking out was a stripper...and another one I made a joke about her buying the next round and she went PYSCHO PATH on me. Was actually scary lol.

At what point do they decide I am going to dance naked for money..I am going to do porn etc.

This really pretty girl in a local restaurant the other day was so sweet. I later found out through a friend she does porn..I looked her up, and she was getting slapped around, pissed on, abused etc.

WTF goes through these girls heads? what drives them to becoming like this?

 

[LiveFreeX]

Western society and feminism make them like this.

Refer to Miley Cirus.

 

[user name]

Lexi Belle came from a good family, and she was not sexually abused. She had no intention of going into porn but was approached by someone to do it.

I still don't know why she did it but I suspect the allure of fame and fortune. Lexi was one of the 'lucky' ones. She made both.

perhaps its the offer of being able to be independent and earn good money whilst not giving a **** what anyone thinks. as a porn performer you can earn good money. you are whoring your body out, yeah, but if working in an office 9-5, 7 days a week you are also whoring your body out for a whole lot less money and less fun too. in porn you get to have a lot of sex. what's not to like. if i were a girl i'd probably be doing that myself rather than sitting in an office all day.

 

[Jay kay]

You'd be surprised the number of "So-called" nice girls that are like this nowadays

 

[floydb25]

Don't get caught up in the reasons or analytical details, and start dissecting and assuming... waste of time and energy, and not even relevant... just focus on the facts. Of course, there's always reasons & similar patterns, but you just know they're not good people for you... and that's all you need to know, really. Does it matter WHY someone is bad? Not really, and knowing the reasons doesn't change who they are. And actually, doing so leads you down the path of figuring them out (ie, focusing on them, and digging deep into their history and character), which leads to sympathizing and other bad things.

Used to do this a lot, and it got me into heaps of trouble. Got way caught up in figuring out all the crazy, troubled people - as I was getting involved with them. Subconsciously liked the drama, chaos, and dissecting, though.

Now I recognize and avoid; focus on the decent folk.

 

[XY.]

Pondering so much leads to heavy investing

 

[5string]

I have recently over the past 2 months have taken out a few women who all had serious issues.

They all seemed nice until they got in my car. I mean pretty girls, but CRAZY. Found out a girl I was taking out was a stripper...and another one I made a joke about her buying the next round and she went PYSCHO PATH on me. Was actually scary lol.

At what point do they decide I am going to dance naked for money..I am going to do porn etc.

This really pretty girl in a local restaurant the other day was so sweet. I later found out through a friend she does porn..I looked her up, and she was getting slapped around, pissed on, abused etc.

WTF goes through these girls heads? what drives them to becoming like this?

Do a search on this site for Cluster b disorders. There you will find the answer to your question.

 

[VladPatton]

They do it for easy money, and a lot of it! Imagine getting paid $300 by fat chicks every time you open your shirt and show off your 6 pack. Easy, right?

Money'll make any sane, nice girl wanna suck dıck on camera.

 

[skinnyguy]

I know this girl who makes $500 an hour in vegas. She's a stripper at Sapphire.

You see, she doesn't have an education but she's pretty. She has expensive taste and she loves taking advantage of men. Thus, she became a stripper.

Some girls are willing to go even further, such as escorting and doing porn. There are so many hot chicks in this world who don't have a brain and resort to the sex industry. When they were in school they were the pretty/popular one and didn't study. So, this is their career choice.

 

[BraddH]

You have forgotten something. It is the man that make them so this. It is you who fall so low to get pvssy. They love it.

 

[floydb25]

Meh... The most important thing to realize is, people do things because they can get away with it, and it benefits them in some way. This is especially true of "bad" activity - which provides quicker results than normal. There's not much more to it than that. A lot of these "hot" girls are crazy, spoiled, entitled, slutty, mean, etc, because of these reasons. Even to the extent of all the games they play, and men they manipulate and tease... they can get away with it, and provides the results they desire (ie, being pursued, having all the control, and men worshipping them, and providing favors, attention, and admiration) - then they piss and moan when they can't get their way.

Much like how a bully loves the attention, fear, respect, approval, and control over others. But it only works if they are tough and intimidating. Same ****... They use whatever tools in their arsenol to come out on top.

Don't dig deeper into it than this. The core of a bad person is to be selfish, and not care about others - even objectifying them, and using anything they have against them. This is how they are wired. Yea, they've been hurt, betrayed, abandonded, neglected, used, etc, but that does not matter - only how they are.

Focus on the facts - not the reasons. And always remember that they CHOOSE to be this way. Not everyone who's "hot" or had a troubled past does bad things.

 

[Stort_Brød]

damn man if I could get paid for just being naked in front of a whole bunch of people I would do it at the drop of a hat... or my pants haha. I don't have daddy issues or any problems or low self esteem, I mean come on there is no real skill set involved it is good money and you get to be NAKED what's not to like? it sure as hell beats flipping burgers at maccas and pays a hell of a lot more too.

I would even go as far to become a giggalo but I'm probably too butt ugly for that so i don't think I would make it that far in the sex industry but given the chance hell yeah I would

 

[VikingKing]

A feminized post modern decaying society

 

[tomwesten27]

Meh... The most important thing to realize is, people do things because they can get away with it, and it benefits them in some way. This is especially true of "bad" activity - which provides quicker results than normal. There's not much more to it than that. A lot of these "hot" girls are crazy, spoiled, entitled, slutty, mean, etc, because of these reasons. Even to the extent of all the games they play, and men they manipulate and tease... they can get away with it, and provides the results they desire (ie, being pursued, having all the control, and men worshipping them, and providing favors, attention, and admiration) - then they piss and moan when they can't get their way.

Much like how a bully loves the attention, fear, respect, approval, and control over others. But it only works if they are tough and intimidating. Same ****... They use whatever tools in their arsenol to come out on top.

Don't dig deeper into it than this. The core of a bad person is to be selfish, and not care about others - even objectifying them, and using anything they have against them. This is how they are wired. Yea, they've been hurt, betrayed, abandonded, neglected, used, etc, but that does not matter - only how they are.

Focus on the facts - not the reasons. And always remember that they CHOOSE to be this way. Not everyone who's "hot" or had a troubled past does bad things.

Everyone thank you for such fantastic responses.

floydb25 You specifically hit home for me. Subconsciously I enjoy the drama so when I meet a girl who is bad news, I tend to want to dig deeper on why things didn't work out, and why she is the way she is.

I clearly started to see over the past year that it does not pay to waste 0.01% of my energy into figuring it out because I was notorious for getting myself further involved with some crazy psycho.

As soon as you realize that some female your seeing is bad news, its best to just walk away and not waste any energy or thought into why they are like that. Just stick the fact that she is crazy and not for me. Right?

 

[Leporello]

In some cases - the need for money.

In others - honestly, every truly 'wild' girl I've ever known had something really fvcked up going on. Either a severe psychological disorder or abuse in the past, or both.

But, who knows - I'm sure there are also girls who just like the attention, or have a sex drive high enough that they get off on having sex with hundreds of guys.

 

[floydb25]

Everyone thank you for such fantastic responses.

floydb25 You specifically hit home for me. Subconsciously I enjoy the drama so when I meet a girl who is bad news, I tend to want to dig deeper on why things didn't work out, and why she is the way she is.

I clearly started to see over the past year that it does not pay to waste 0.01% of my energy into figuring it out because I was notorious for getting myself further involved with some crazy psycho.

As soon as you realize that some female your seeing is bad news, its best to just walk away and not waste any energy or thought into why they are like that. Just stick the fact that she is crazy and not for me. Right?

Yea... I think you realize, after a time, that it's not worth figuring out a LOSER - because that's all they are. The patterns are always the same; they're not good people; they're not "better" than others or worth seeking the approval of; they have nothing going for them; and it does too much damage to get involved with them.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Do a search on this site for Cluster b disorders. There you will find the answer to your question.

I agree. Borderlines make perfect sex workers. They have the ability to love passionately at the drop of some cash, and then turn it off like a switch when the deed is done. They have an out-of-sight, out-of-mind quality that lets them forget men quickly. And they also have an attraction for relationships that have no chance of success - such as escort & client.

 

[5string]

I agree. Borderlines make perfect sex workers. They have the ability to love passionately at the drop of some cash, and then turn it off like a switch when the deed is done. They have an out-of-sight, out-of-mind quality that lets them forget men quickly. And they also have an attraction for relationships that have no chance of success - such as escort & client.

There it is.....

 

[user name]

Lol, she's not sexually abused or mentally ill, just ask her. I always wondered who actually read the pornstar bios

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c9MdW8RISCI

 

[The Duke]

I've been around several strippers and dated a few, every single one of them was in it for the easy money. Many liked the "party" lifestyle and the attention. Some were cluster b's, other weren't. Most came from broken families. I'd say the cluster b's definitely had an easier go with the lifestyle.
I never found them to be any worse than girls who didn't take their clothes off for money. Society sure has a hang up about it tho. Never have understood it and I've spent enough time in Stripperville to know whats going on. The men in that arena are slimebag deluxes.

It's the lure of easy money, its got a very strong appeal.....Glenn Frey, The Eagles.