Toxic women in your circle of friends

Robert28

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Anyone ever have that one girl that is somehow in your circle of friends that brings nothing but drama and headaches with them? They have a baby daddy who they've broken up with about 10 times but always got back together with them, one day they complain about the bum but the next day he's father of the year, basically all of her stupid decisions run everyone else off because no one wants to be around that kind of crap and then they want to b!tch and complain about "their friends don't stick around when they need them". I just want so bad to grab this girl by the neck and be like "look stupid, people are d@mn tired of you bringing your crap life around and always ruining parties and stuff because you and your boyfriend want to fight everytime and cause a d@mn scene and make fools of yourselves and neither of you will leave the other one alone and go date someone else because nobody wants either of your @$$es! If you want to blame someone, blame yourself, we've tried to talk sense into you but you refuse to listen and we've grown tired of it so we've cut you out of everything. You're 27 years old, it's time to act like an adult!".
 

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Used to be right at the center of the fake / dysfunctional / trashy drama crowd, so yes.... God, yes. I just fly solo now. The social / party crowd is full of these crazy drama wh0res and fake assh0les - and their BS DOES get dumped onto you. Toxic people are just that... and they attract drama and toxicity like nothing else. Bad news... Don't need those fags dumping their insecurities out on me / keeping me on their level of dog****.
 

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Robert28 said:
Anyone ever have that one girl that is somehow in your circle of friends that brings nothing but drama and headaches with them? They have a baby daddy who they've broken up with about 10 times but always got back together with them, one day they complain about the bum but the next day he's father of the year, basically all of her stupid decisions run everyone else off because no one wants to be around that kind of crap and then they want to b!tch and complain about "their friends don't stick around when they need them". I just want so bad to grab this girl by the neck and be like "look stupid, people are d@mn tired of you bringing your crap life around and always ruining parties and stuff because you and your boyfriend want to fight everytime and cause a d@mn scene and make fools of yourselves and neither of you will leave the other one alone and go date someone else because nobody wants either of your @$$es! If you want to blame someone, blame yourself, we've tried to talk sense into you but you refuse to listen and we've grown tired of it so we've cut you out of everything. You're 27 years old, it's time to act like an adult!".
Then they let negative people surround them. Why do YOU tolerate that?
 

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namthebabe said:
Then they let negative people surround them. Why do YOU tolerate that?
The thing is I don't tolerate it. My friends are always giving me a hard time because I don't come around as often because I don't want to be around her crap. The weird thing is they aren't drama people but I have a feeling they let it slide because they feel sorry for her. She's a friend of a one of my friends girlfriends and I guess we are being forced to accept her into our group because of my friend's g/f. I even told one of my friends why I didn't come around and all they say is "man don't be like that" and try to downplay it.

Hell I'll give you the latest story. I get season tickets to football games at USC, I pay d@mn good money for my seats and get 4 season tickets due to my giving level and points in the donor club. My friend asked if he could use my four tickets to take his g/f and ofcourse her dumb@$$ invited this trouble making hoebag and her loser boyfriend to go with them. The dumb b!tch got them all kicked out of the game before the 1st quarter ended because her loser boyfriend doesn't have the sense to know how to sneak a mini-bottle into a drink! you can't drink in the stadium btw but you don't have to be a genius to get around that policy....if you have the intelligence of a gnat at least. Apparently he doesn't and poured his mini bottle into his drink while an usher was standing right there. My friend was PISSED because he had to pay me $55 per ticket and that money went out the window because his girlfriends friend chooses to be with a moron. I was hoping that would make him see what I see in her and come over to my side but I don't think he wants to piss his girlfriend off because of it.
 

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I agreeing keeping your distance, you don't want to be dragged down to their level. Stand your ground and if your friends don't see the toxicity of the couple then leave them be (not cut them off). You can still be friends and not hang out with the loser couple.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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