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    American Idol

    I was watching it last night too. The football player was god awful and creepy. He couldn't sing. If he acted normal and had a good voice the judges would have liked him. You're giving him way too much credit. Too much confidence wasn't his problem. Anyone who watched the show last night...
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    Breakdown of first date...opinions?

    That's the only thing I would have done differently. I'd rather it be 70/30. You want to talk a decent amount, as long as what you're saying has substance. `` If you're an interesting conversationalist women find that very attractive. Every thing else sounds solid. Good work man.
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    I Pulled a 10 and Her Decent Friend at Concert - Pic Per Request

    I'll take a pic just to see what your 10 looks like.
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    Kino tips for coffee/dinner dates?

    Coffee date situation/ across a table is difficult. Also be careful not to overdo kino or force it. Too much blatant kino hurts your game rather than helps it Your best bet? Hand her something across the table and when she reaches to take it from you extend that touch for a second You can...
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    So date #2... SHE pays for ME

    True statement. Repped.
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    The eyes say all (or most) about IOI's

    Some girls are like that, and it will totally put you in a position to control the relationship. For example, if she TRIES looking you in the eyes but can't hold it (looks down and to the side), that's a HUGE IOI.
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    Coffee date IOIs noticed today... let me know how I did

    Met in high school, I was a senior and she was sophomore. Since then I've always been the "cool older guy". That was 6 years ago. We've mostly talked on and off, went on a couple random dates over the years, and decided to start hanging out again. She's kind of like a random acquaintance, but...
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    Escaping ljbf

    How did you get LJBF'd? Let's start there. What did she say?
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    Coffee Date - Need some advice

    I aced a coffee date recently (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168324). Here are some tips: Read this article: http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip284.htm. Very important stuff in there. Don't go for a kiss or try to escalate sexually. Not the point of a coffee date, you'll probably...
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    If a girl comes to your place, **** her. She's not there for tea and biscuits.

    You're doing the right thing here. I wouldn't permanently "next her" though, just no contact. You are VERY smart to walk away before you get LJBF'd though. AFCs, take note. The only way to avoid the Friend Zone is to go cold when HER interest starts to dip. I can't emphasize this enough. If...
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    Need help to become the perfect Bachelor

    If this is true, you've got nothing to worry about dude lol. Buy a nice car, a nice watch, dress nice but be subtle with your wealth. Don't talk about it much on dates, just let it speak for itself. It will be the first thing girls pick up on. Do everything else like you would. C+F, be...
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    Anybody overcome depression? Went through CBT?

    Been diagnosed with anxiety disorder, depression, bipolar disorder, and overcame a month long stint in a psych ward (really heavy experience I rarely speak about). Been on multiple anti-depressants, mood stabilizers, anti-psychotics... the whole nine. Now I'm 100% healthy and on zero meds...
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    Hidden meaning of common words by woman

    nice post, threadstarter repped
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    Got This Crazy Idea While Watching Porn, And It's Lookin Like It's GOnna Work

    What's the name of the porn star? Send the link/ conversation my way.
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    Do some girls just not call guys

    The girl I'm dating right now is the same way. You'd be surprised how many women behave like this. Never forget, they have their own "dating rules" (think SoSuave) and let him call you is definitely one of them. In fact; in certain cases, her following this religiously probably indicates...
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    What type of music should you play in the car during a date?

    That was my point. The rappers I listen to are talented. Not that "Chain Hang Low" trash.
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    Rules for texting women

    I was thinking the exact same thing. That's a retarded first text. I only see the girl being turned off after reading it.
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    First Date tips and reminders

    ^ Follow this, to the tee. This guy knows his stuff. Repped.
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    What type of music should you play in the car during a date?

    Rap, like any genre, has some really bad music. If you think I listen to Soulja Boy, forget it. I wouldn't be caught dead listening to that nonsense. Listen to some old Nas or a Roots record. There's tons of good rap out there. It's also good, laid back music to cruise to and inherently...
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    What type of music should you play in the car during a date?

    Rap is very masculine. Sounds great in the background while driving. Just play it a low enough volume so you can talk over it.
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