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    She flaked on me twice... is it my turn now?

    You're just speaking in cliches. What do you actually suggest that I do? Cliff notes version: Before she canceled, we had already made plans for next week (which is tomorrow). For those accusing me of not having a spine and happily rescheduling, may I re-iterate: WE DID NOT RESCHEDULE AFTER...
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    She flaked on me twice... is it my turn now?

    You are a f*cking moron. I did say something, she knew I was annoyed. And I didn't happily accept the 3rd date, we had already planned it prior. I swear, nobody on here actually reads anything. I know she doesn't like talking on the phone, because she doesn't like talking on the phone. Her...
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    She flaked on me twice... is it my turn now?

    Very good point. Wasn't sure if I was misusing the word "flake", apparently I was. Thanks for actually reading what I wrote. I appreciate it.
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    Bigger Guy Fashion Tips?

    This community has completely gone to ****. OP has made his question very clear; I'm heavy-set, I plan on losing weight, how can I dress well in the mean time? All he gets is a chorus of "lose weight and exercise". HE KNOWS THAT. Nobody gives constructive advice anymore, nobody focuses on...
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    She flaked on me twice... is it my turn now?

    If you're implying that she was out with other guys both times she flaked, I can promise you she wasn't. Both nights we planned for dinner, she had a lot of existing stuff on her agenda but tried squeezing a "quick dinner" in. She had to end up canceling because there were a few other things...
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    She flaked on me twice... is it my turn now?

    The thing is, nobody proposed a new day. Originally we had plans for 2 different days, let's say X and Y. We made the plans for Y (last Friday) after we made the plans for X (this Tuesday) She wanted to see me a little sooner, I guess. Sooo she flaked on Y but we still have the plans for...
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    She flaked on me twice... is it my turn now?

    Several dates, but over the course of a few years. I haven't seen her in over 6 months. Like I said, "on and off". This time though... trying to get a little more serious...
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    Bigger Guy Fashion Tips?

    Looks for pictures of Mike Lynche. He was an American Idol contestant last year. He has a really big frame but his outfits usually worked. AI has one of the best stylists in the world so they knew what they were doing. Also check out Styleforum.net, it's just like SS but a fashion forum.
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    She flaked on me twice... is it my turn now?

    I agree with pretty much everything you've said in this thread. That's why I probably end up choosing B. Flakes really don't bother me that much. Like you said, people have plenty **** to do in their daily lives. There's no reason to overreact or be offended by it. If she flaked a third time...
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    She flaked on me twice... is it my turn now?

    Understood. What I'm saying is though; typically when a girl flakes, that's it. She flaked and it's over. Here she flaked on me, but there is still a means to an end (plans to see her in three days). So drop all the "you should feel so disrespected because she flaked on you" and "she wouldn't...
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    She flaked on me twice... is it my turn now?

    I get that, trust me. That's one of the biggest cliche's on this site. But I'm not sure if you read my whole post. One thing to keep in mind is she flaked on a supplemental set of plans. It's not like she flaked and I never heard from her again. I still have plans to see her three days from...
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    She flaked on me twice... is it my turn now?

    She cancelled on me twice... is it my turn now? Edit: She canceled on me, not flaked. Quick background, I've been talking to this girl "on and off" for a pretty long time. We've gone on a few casual dates in the past. She's home from college for the summer so we've decided to reconnect. It's...
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    Is it effective to be an "aloof" nice guy?

    Great feedback, repped. Without even thinking about it, I'm basically going the DJ route.
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    Is it effective to be an "aloof" nice guy?

    This is the formula I'm trying out. Being an a-hole just isn't me. I've tried it, but I know it seems put on and fake. Nobody's buying it and doesn't work. Not to toot my own horn, but I'm a nice, friendly, confident and funny guy. I'm a great conversationalist, college grad, awesome 9 to 5...
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    How do you guys feel about texting?

    ^ Both of those are true statements. A few things here. I think texting depends a lot on age. Thirty or forty year-olds might feel out of place, but it's become standard fare for teenagers and people in their twenties. Use it to your advantage. I know a few girls (one who's particularly...
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    Showing interest - what is enough?

    Figuring out that fine line is why some guys get women and some guys don't. One tip I have is 2 steps forward, 1 step back. i.e. Show a decent amount of interest and then show less. Show more again, then less again. Don't be predictable. Try to let her make some of the first moves. And don't...
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    Can you turn around situations where a girl doesn't see you in a sexual way?

    Spot-on. +1 To answer the OP's question, yes you can excite her sexually even if you haven't before. There's a whole ton of stuff on this site about it, do some research. I mean that's basically why we're here. Some super quick tips: NC for a few months Spin plates Tell her you're not...
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    Dating intelligent women?

    Match wits and outsmart them. Just don't make it seem intentional I was dating a girl who's in Grad School for English. I'm extremly well-spoken myself, so when I use a word that's above her (rare but it happens) she gets turned on (lol)
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    3 Easy Rules for Getting Sex As Fast As Possible

    Great thread
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    when to call a girl after f-close

    Sense of entitlement much?
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