The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    Awful evening clubbing

    I don't go clubbing a lot, but i had read Oxide's thread and was feeling up for a bit of a change. It was a schooldaze event (dress up in school uniform) so I wore jeans, a white shirt, a tie pulled down a bit, and a blue blazer. I strolled round the club like I owned it and tried to get eye...
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    Reaching the Prince persona as described by Pook

    While I think this is a very good post with some great ways to get over shyness and fear of women, it missed the point. The point of Pook's posts is to acquire a certain attitude. Not by hypnosis or NLP, but by the simple realisation that you are a man and are shaping a great life and any...
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    taller dudes

    I think that is rubbish. If a woman is hot, no matter what size she is men will give her attention. Besides very few women are over 6 foot and there are lots of guys over 6 foot who aren't bothered by their height as they are taller than them. Personally all the girls i go for tend to be at...
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    ****y + Funny and Appearance (UK)

    lol, funny stuff Alpine. Glad you are seeing lots of success. I would be very careful about C and F and appearance. Lots of girls are very sensitive about their appearance and have very low self esteem. Danger areas are anything to do with weight, attractiveness. But earings, make up and...
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    Sosuave origin!

    The link doesn't work!
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    DJing, blindness and cynicism

    Mmm. Good points Jariel. I think women tend to classify guys into three categories: player/sexy material, relationship material, and don't want to know. If you are confident, good looking and experienced with women (which you are) then women automatically assume you are a player even if you...
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    I feel inferior

    Hey man. Everyone here feels your pain but it doesn't do you any good. There will always be men out there with model good looks, height, money etc who have an advantage with the girls. But that doesn't mean you can't get hot girls. Basically you have to accept that you are dealt the cards you...
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    Club Pickups UK

    Yeah, I find at clubs the best way to find a girl who is actually interested is if she picks you up. I find that a lot of girls are there just to get some male attention, dance, or enjoy shooting men down. To avoid wasting my time with these girls I usually wait for girls to pick me up. Not the...
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    Kisses and Pet names

    I only use pet names in a sarcastic, tongue in cheek way. So if a girl is challenging me, I smile sweetly and say something like "sorry, darling but I can see right through you". Or if she asks me something I say something like "Yes, dear". Otherwise I don't tend to use pet names. I never...
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    Hottest Women of 2004!!!

    1. Lucie Silva 2. Scarlett Johannson 3. Laura Prepon 4. Amanda Peet 5. Natasha Bedingfield Btw johnny if you like chinese girls i could probably set you up as my university is full of them.
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    Older women

    Cool thread. With the appreciation and romance, how does that work? Should you compliment older women more and be more affectionate and romantic than you would with younger women? Agreed on the upfront bit, i have been chatting with an older women and she is very upfront and tells me...
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    Anyone Want to start a DJ Bootcamp session after the new Year?

    When do we start!!
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    DJing, blindness and cynicism

    I don't think it is a commitment problem Jariel is talking about. More that once you have developed mastery over your emotions, and the ability to seduce women, women don't tend to view you as relationship potential. Perhaps because they feel they can control you, and while they find that...
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    Is she afraid or just not attracted

    Honestly, man, you are scaring me off and I am 1000 miles away. Relax and take it slow. Girls hate pushy, controlling men. What the hell are you expecting-her to rip your clothes off every time she is in your presence? She is agreeing to spend time with you, lets you hug and kiss her, and is...
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    Could Someone Help Make Me a Workout Plan?

    sprinting and running aren't detrimental as long as you eat a lot. It also ensures that you gain less fat and more muscle. At his age the main thing he needs to focus on is healthy eating and doing some form of sports and exercise. He needs lots of good food-and most kids that age don't eat...
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    Could Someone Help Make Me a Workout Plan?

    The kid is 15. He doesn't want to be doing any weightbearing exercises as he is not fully grown. What I recommend is that you stick to push ups, chin ups, dips and do some sprinting and running. The first three will give you some nice upper body development, and the last two will give your...
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    Alright there, just joined, please read, especially if from UK

    There is a certain art in the UK for pick ups called the polite throw away question. Assuming you have caught an eye and got a smile make a throw away comment and if she engages you and gives you a response other than "yeah" you are in. If she is hard at work or busy chances are she doesn't want...
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    Chat-a great way to practice communication!!

    Another interesting thing is that as you are on there to date and flirt with girls, the whole societal boundaries go down-and you can avoid the whole polite chitchat stage and getting to know girls. Something very interesting is how unattractive girls behave. I see a lot of the traits that i...
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    Chat-a great way to practice communication!!

    Hi AEK. I am not suggesting people should turn into internet geeks and not go out in the real world. I am just saying it is a good way to practice for the times when for whatever reason you can't just go out and meet lots of girls. It also helps you develop your sense of humour without the...
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    Chat-a great way to practice communication!!

    This holidays i am at home, and i live in the country so not many girls around, so i joined a dating site, with a chat feature. It is absolutely brilliant. I can chat to loads of girls, tease them as much as i want, see hpw far I can go, and the worst that can happen is they ignore me. It is...
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