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  1. M

    New year/semester coming: Your DJ resolutions

    Goals 1. Get into law school and get sponsored by a great firm. 2. Get a serious girlfriend. I am bored of casually dating girls, and want a serious girlfriend who I can take on holiday, have over for Christmas and that sort of stuff. 3. Put on 20lbs of muscle. 4. Work on my style...
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    Lets figure out 'The Ultimate Charmer'

    Does anyone have any other thoughts on the relationship between charm and challenge? The main problem with charm as I have already mentioned is that it is designed to seduce the girl-in effect it is making her the prize. Unless of course the charm is charisma-just part of who you are and...
  3. M

    do you plan on staying single or marrying some day?

    Don't worry dietzcoi. Your experience has taught me a lot. I used to believe in happy families and eternal love and other romantic notions. Then I began to observe real couples and my own parents and learned about the huge divorce rates and the crippling financial implications for the men, and...
  4. M

    Hardest thing for AFC's

    I would say I am a RAFC. The things that I find hard are: 1. Deliberately not being "too nice" and trying to impress women. I have a kind and generous nature and like doing things for people, but have to curb this trait when dealing with women. 2. Letting go of all your inhibitions and...
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    Lets figure out 'The Ultimate Charmer'

    I think a lot of charm is attitude. When you boil charm down to its essence it is a sincere interest in other people. When you meet a charming person he makes you feel like you are the only person in the room. People are egoists and if you make them feel like they are royalty, they will like...
  6. M

    Assume the positive

    I was doing some self-reflection and something that I realised was very important in DJing was to always expect the best and assume the positive. Girls are very good at hiding their interest level, while guys tend to give the game away fairly quickly. Most girls know immediately when a guy likes...
  7. M

    Gone on Roaccutane but skin not clear yet

    SOLID, I didn't get any noticeable scars and mine was pretty bad when I started the Roaccutane. One thing that I have noticed though is that you get a lot of red marks where spots used to be and your face gets a bit inflammed. The red marks are macules, sort of remains of spots. The...
  8. M

    Need a makeover-includes pictures

    Have experimented with facial hair. I grow quite a nice blonde beard but it takes a lot of time to grow and looks awful in the meantime. I sometimes go for the unshaven look which I like a lot. Not sure I will go as far as gold earrings , as I am planning on becoming a solicitor so have to...
  9. M

    Colonges and Aftershave

    I'm curious when do you guys use cologne/aftershave? I tend to only bother when going clubbing or on dates.
  10. M

    Scandinavian Summer Tour

    Cool, I will see what dates I can do closer to the time, but a week hitting the clubs at Stockholm with some DJs should be really good. From what I hear from Swedish friends, while Swedish men are often very good looking, they are very shy and completely uselss without lots of alcohol in them...
  11. M

    Need a makeover-includes pictures

    Interesting Eulogy. Not sure I completely see the likeness, but I will take your word for it. I had a look at a few pictures of him and could probably with a bit of effort look like him. I play the saxophone, so could play up a sort of bad boy musician image with grungy clothes and messy hair.
  12. M

    Looks v Game

    Yeah, know what you mean david90. The funny thing is that because we assume that good looking men are used to lots of attention, if they are shy, people often think they are just being arrogant and aloof and think they are too good for them. Sort of catch 22 situation. But yeah, they do have...
  13. M

    Fvck Getting numbers

    Don't give up. Dating is a numbers game and the thing is that unless you are very good looking, most girls will reject you or give you numbers with no intention of replying to your calls. Doc Love said something like ask for 30 numbers, get 10 of which only 3 will be interested. So that means...
  14. M

    Looks v Game

    Hi Solid. Don't worry too much about clubs. I get the impression very few girls are looking to hook up, and most of them have boyfriends and just want some male attention and the ego trip of turning down goodlooking guys. Also as there are usually a lot more men than women, girls can afford to...
  15. M

    Is it just me?

    Interesting post. I suppose college is good in that there isn't the same scrutiny and pressure. No-one cares who you are dating, what you do with your time, etc. so you have the freedom to be yourself and do your own thing. It is quite liberating after the whole posturing and status stuff in...
  16. M

    Do you hit on UGs?

    Answer, no. I have to feel some attraction towards a girl or else it is just impossible to flirt with them. I cannot fake interest in a girl, and hitting on a girl is precisely that-showing interest in a girl. I am nice to ugly girls and befriend them if they have good personalities. I do flirt...
  17. M

    Scandinavian Summer Tour

    Hi I was wondering if a few European DJs were interested in spending a week or two clubbing and picking up girls in Sweden/Denmark etc around July time. I was planning on going but don't want to go with any of my AFC friends as they all have girlfriends and will cramp my style. I do not...
  18. M

    Foreign Women and why I do not trust them

    Hi mahon. I agree Snatchmaster was not very tactful but try not to get angry as he has some good points. 1. It is never a good thing to judge people very quickly. Always assume their motives are pure until you are proved otherwise. Also you will find that most college girls in the US are from...
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    Need a makeover-includes pictures

    You don't know the good places to look B9. But then again the women are in a totally different league in Scandinavia. When I was on a skiing holiday we went to this bar called "Le Petit Danois" and this blonde barmaid who was absolutely gorgeous spent the whole evening pouring toffee vodka down...
  20. M

    Merry Christmas Everyone!!!

    In England the sun is shining and it is incredibly mild.
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