Do you hit on UGs?

[david90]

I tend to do it so people don't think i'm shallow. Truth is I am. I'm trying to changing it though.

 

[Vincent]

I don't do it on purpose. I am just ****y and funny with every chick no matter what. Sometimes it has bad consequences like 4's stalking you and sh*t like that. Oh well...

 

[BLUEox117]

it all depends on what you get out of it.

 

[Fenderules]

good if she has hot friends.

 

[cactus3178]

Originally posted by Vincent
I don't do it on purpose. I am just ****y and funny with every chick no matter what. Sometimes it has bad consequences like 4's stalking you and sh*t like that. Oh well...

Took the words out of my mouth. C&F to every chick I meet, and those I already know.

Unfortunately, it's netted me some undesireable consequences as well....I had one chick tell some people at her work (where I know alot of people) that she wanted to marry me (never even done anything with her), and then had her tell me that she'd "make a way better GF" than my current FB.

 

[david90]

I feel so bad for not hitting on UGs because it all comes back to me. I'm a 6.5 maybe 7 on the scale and I know how it feels to ignored. I treat other like how i'd like to be treated.

Thing is, it is hard for me to fake interest in UGs though so it sucks.

 

[MackJr]

I did it once, but it was hard for me to be attracted to her once I got her.

The good side of it is she didn't try to play power games with sex.

 

[Rogerman]

I only do it when sex is involved.

 

[Jariel]

No. I don't see the point in hitting on someone I'm not attracted to and have no intention of dating or sleeping with.

You can't choose who you are attracted to and it's not your duty to make people feel good about themselves. But there's nothing stopping you from being their friend.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by Jariel
No. I don't see the point in hitting on someone I'm not attracted to and have no intention of dating or sleeping with.

Precisely. Let's take a scenario... You've been hitting on UG's for a long time, and you've finally gotten this awesome looking girl that you're working on getting in bed. You're on a date with her when out of nowhere this hideous montrosity of a female comes up and accosts you. "After the first week, you never called me back! Now I see why! You've got some barbie doll girl that you want more than you wanted me! Well just wait, you'll come back when you realize I've got the good stuff!!!". The HB you were with re-evaluates you entirely... now, instead of being some suave, charming guy, you're a loser so desperate he has to hit on repulsive women. I don't know about you, but if I were her I wouldn't want anything to do with you after that. You'd be NEXT'd!

Sorry, but my dignity isn't worth it - I'll keep on not hitting on ugly girls. If that's what works for you... go right ahead.

 

[david90]

If I don't hit on UGs, people will see me as shallow. If I do, people will see me as desperate. Aint life a b i t c h.

 

[MindOverMatter]

f*ck no, haha.

 

[Matt Rogers]

Answer, no. I have to feel some attraction towards a girl or else it is just impossible to flirt with them. I cannot fake interest in a girl, and hitting on a girl is precisely that-showing interest in a girl. I am nice to ugly girls and befriend them if they have good personalities. I do flirt with attractive girls I am not interested in, for practice, but I wouldn't turn down any of these girls down.

A lot of people say the reason why I haven't had a serious relationship is that my standards are too high, and that rather than going for good looking girls, I should settle for a less good looking girl. My response is that I would rather be single, than in a relationship with a girl that I am not physically attracted to. I have quite high visual standarads, and that is a strong incentive for me to improve my game and do my best to better myself. Most people when in a relationship tend to get comfortable and stop working on themselves.

 

[Kidd]

Originally posted by david90
I tend to do it so people don't think i'm shallow. Truth is I am. I'm trying to changing it though.

lmao.

Of couse, I hit on ugly fat girls all the time because Im scared that other people might think Im shallow!!!!!!!!!

 

[johnny_chase]

lol, funny **** Kidd.

I think you have to differentiate between hitting on girls and just being a pleasant, cool, fun guy to be around. Now, if you're sending signals to these girls and you have no intentions of doing anything with them, that's mean by stringing them along like that. But if you're just being yourself, saying funny **** all the time, of course the "ugs" around are going to be interested, but so will the hotties.

Being C&F does not mean you're hitting on someone.

 

[DJDamage]

If you are hitting on UG with out trying to hook up with them then you are in a sense being shallow. Only bring your game on chicks you are truly intrested in. People who label you Shallow are usually fat ugly with low self esteem that blame people like you for their misery and do not want to see you succeed.

As well nothing good will come of it. Hitting on UglyGirls will not gradually help you to be better with hitting on Hot Babes, its like swimming you won't learn how to swim if you practice in a swamp as oppose to the ocean.

Its better to fail hitting on a Hot Babe, then to succeed hitting on an Ugly Chick. You will learn better from the rejection and the faliure then your pathetic success.

But if Ugly girls is your thing, then don't let anyone stop you!

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Only when I'm drunk.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
Only when I'm drunk.

Best answer yet.

 

[Vincent]

Re: Re: Do you hit on UGs?

Originally posted by diablo
Best answer yet.

2nd

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by diablo
You're on a date with her when out of nowhere this hideous montrosity of a female comes up and accosts you. "After the first week, you never called me back! Now I see why! You've got some barbie doll girl that you want more than you wanted me! Well just wait, you'll come back when you realize I've got the good stuff!!!".

Haha! Is this a personal experience? Sounds like a bad situation or a bad dream.

Incidentally, why do ugly women always use the "barbie doll" comparison towards any slim, attractive woman like it's an insult? Barbie's hot!