The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    Interested or Polite Rejection?

    Interested. You responded last so I would leave it up to her to get back to you.
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    To bang a couger or not..that is the question

    dude, go for it. have some free poon fun! I did a cougar once...it was NSA fun!
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    the power of *****, any *****

    I wonder how bad it got, long long ago prior to the victorian or ?? age when woman had to cover everything up and slut shaming was rampant.
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    Keeping Girl from Match Interested before first meetup

    meh. no need to complicate things with that plan i think. starting out meeting late after all of this is unnecessary imo. It's a Win/Win for MtnMan either way it goes.
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    Not sure how to approach this

    I've had this happen too. A New girl that's initially very interested will be difficult to lure back if a bunch of time passes without seeing them in person. Keep her number. Don't contact her. If she doesn't reach out to you within 30 days you will probably never hear from her again. Leave...
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    Brushed off by main plate? Should I go NC?

    I think so. If I were you I would just have her initiate texts for the foreseeable future. It might be difficult for you, but if she is into you, she definitely will. You'd be surprised what it can do. In the mean time, you need to trim down this obsession about her, it ain't healthy, friend...
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    Frosty Knickers

    ya. don't. She's holding all the power and "allowing" you to have her now. Do you REALLY want it to be this way from now on? You should work on regaining the frame, unless you enjoy servant status. And I'll say that a lot of women do prefer the first time be at their place.
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    the bitterness of the red pill

    b305d, we think similar. I've learned to take things one day at a time and be grateful for that...but vigilant at the same time. I'd like to spend the rest of my life with the woman I'm with now. But from what I've learned in the past (my experiences)...I don't know what will transpire months...
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    Busy Bea\/ers

    Exactly bro.
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    The worst Approach Anxiety I've ever experienced

    Good for you, at least you are doing something to get going again. It usually takes me months to a year to want to get going again after the end of an LTR.
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    Keeping Girl from Match Interested before first meetup

    It's highly possible she is nervous as fvck to chat on the phone. I've had women I dated tell me that, later on. (though they did answer)
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    When should I call?

    op I hope you succeed with this bartender chick, but just remember they are both paid and there to talk. Many a sosuave member thought they would get something and didn't.
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    How do I play this?-she says maybe next weekend, needs to check sled

    YES. Ball is in her court to contact you now.
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    Busy Bea\/ers

    YA I definitely prefer the non "busy all the time" type. It's nice to have things to do, but I need down time as well for balance in life.
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    Need advice with girl I started dating

    don't be concerned if she doesn't reply to a text within 2 hours...that's needy behavior. I used to do that too. A lot of us did before we knew any better. try to avoid that.
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    Going on a trip with people who I don't know

    ^^THIS It will be uncomfortable at first, but will also help you become more social. I did this a few times (trips with people I didn't know or barely knew) It was uncomfortable at first, but ended up being a very fun experience and helped me in social development. Do it. but be...
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    manager asking out entry level girls at work

    It's never a good idea to date within the company pool. It just isn't. fish elsewhere...
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    Keeping Girl from Match Interested before first meetup

    she got back to you...it's NOT a lost cause. Set something up, a solid time to meet up. if she agrees but something comes up then I'd walk. I had a similar situation last year with one girl, she had met another dude just before me, but was trying to decide which of us would work best and I...
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    Just found out my oneitis is a slvt....that feel

    damn dude...I know what that's like. a girl I had a oneitis for long long ago, it was just one other dude not a train of them, but it just so happened her new boyfriend lived in the apartment above mine and his bedroom...was above mine. When I heard the noise it made me sick! like...
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    Gf killed mood for morning sex, and somehow I'm at fault? lol

    "Let you drink in the morning?!??" Reminds me of the BPD I was with for awhile...she'd say "do you want a treat?" Like I was some fvcking dog doing tricks and earned the use of her snatch. Now whenever I have a girl overnight , I just take it. Middle of the night, morning, whenever. Sounds...
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