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Very true. My last EX at one point realized this and started to tell me I shouldn't "settle" for anyone (implying her) it was all down hill from there. Lots of good advice in this thread Scormus, I'd follow ESPI's suggestions to the letter if I were you.

Bwahaha! :crackup:

seconded. This is female attraction 101. Even if they are too busy, then you go ghost and make no effort....if they are truly interested, you can bet you'll be hearing from them within a week or two. In the meantime consider it a lost cause.

Sounds like you have a prime opportunity here. If possible when back at your place, when you sit on the couch, maybe sit first and see how close she sits...if it's further away, figure out a reason to get up a bit later, then sit right next to her.

No contact means no contact. The point is not to show your cards...that's what gets their "hamster" going. You want that sucker spinning on end, so don't explain to them not to contact you. It may depend on what it is she did to deserve NC. But more often then not it means to erase them from...

It certainly is. I remember this one plate talking about a motorcycle trip in another state with some dude who would fly her in occasionally. I reacted as if I didn't have a care in the world and told her I was happy for her and to have a good time. her response: "maybe I shouldn't go"...

Seconded. You "Build Comfort" in person. They might say something about you making them "feel safe" then you're in. Remember that women respond to assertion. You're not appearing to be a man of action here.

I snagged a bank teller that way after having her do my deposits about 5 different times over 2 months and bantering the small talk each time. write your cel number on your business card. And something short like: Let's do lunch some time :) After she hands you your order and your set to go...

she found someone new. move along, go ghost.

I've been with a mid 50's woman. A bit dry down there, but VERY clean. She was a runner so her body was really tight for a mid 50 and she'd gotten some fake boobs a year or so before, so that was really great. The only disappointment was she gave lousy head which wasn't at all what I expected...

^^That's the BEST response to a no show imo.

ask her out. But don't word it in a way that you are. Something about you going somewhere (some activity you could do alone or with another person) and ask if she'd like to come. keep it fun. she'll remember that.

It doesn't help that the attractive ones get loads of Chumpy messages daily. Boosts the ego to hold out for the George Clooneys of the world.

Would she want to sow oats if she was living with Brad Pitt? Fvck no! "sowing oats" = not interested in you.

the thinking of "confirmation on the day of date" is good & bad as others believe. In my experience (I don't confirm btw) if the girl is interested in you SHE will confirm. I've always gotten a "Are we still on?" confirmation from them the day before the date. Or a "See you soon / on my way"...

I've had good (no smell or taste..zero) to the worst you can experience (you shower after and you still stink) The good ones ALL had a slender build. The worst one...a chubby I regretted pursuing...I remember moving my head so I could miss the lower bad air, only to get her $hit breath in my...

wife swapping? No effing way. booty call swapping? why not.

Thanks for sharing OP, Sounds like the BPD I had too. I never got email like that, but spoken, very similar. After 1 year in and her breaking it off, I vowed to never initiate contact or suggest hanging out on the weekend...but she continued to and I managed to bang her for another year once...

There are a few dating sites like this that charge a few grand. The demographic is more for the richer folk who can piss 3,000 away without thinking twice about it. A Wealthy guy I know did it for awhile. It's all about match-making the upper-class. Not for the average earners.

^^this What a Clown.