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And if you're really going to go through with this, remember to actively invite WAY MORE GIRLS than guys. And even if you do that, expect a sausagefest.

To me, it doesn't look like she has much interest. I could understand holding out some hope if she said "...in the next few weeks," but the fact that she mentioned months is not a good sign. I'm sure buying a house can take a lot of extra time and energy, and girls DO put a big emphasis on...

I know social networking sites get hotly debated on here. Some people like to use Facebook/Myspace as a site to get pick up chicks, while others use it simply to interact with friends they actually know. I was more in the camp of just using the site to stay in touch with friends. But after...

Same here...remember that "less is more." I have guy friends on there with all those boxes ticked and they've been single (and admittedly desperate) for a LONG time.

Are you in America? I just hardly ever hear of something like this happening. I mean, I know Cougars tend to be more forward, but for her to be that blatant causes my conspiracy theory alarm to go off a little...

I lived with my female cousin last summer, and she would occasionally have some friends over from her job at a coffee shop. I swear, all these girls would do when they got together was get on Facebook and stalk their guy friends, telling each other who they liked, or sometimes even blatantly...

I see what you're saying, but for me the Networking aspect is a little different. I have an online sportswriting internship that requires that I share my writing with at least 5 social networking sites. Facebook is practically mandatory, because I can only email and Tweet for so long.

I've thought long and hard about dumping Facebook, but it just isn't practical. As an upperclassman in college I need to keep that Networking alive. On a more social level, I did some traveling last summer and made some friends from a different part of the country, and Facebook is really the...

I think this is still half the battle though. If you're not mentally believing that you are a hot new version of yourself, you're still going to see the old undesirable person in that skin. My problem wasn't losing weight, but I think it can still apply. Skinny guys are more desirable than...

Hey man, Just wanted to let you know that I feel your pain on this. The last couple of weeks I've been noticing some really nasty dark bruises under my eyes. Even though I sleep 8+ hours a night and drink plenty of water, it's not going away. I was doing a lot of Google searching on the...

I feel you on this one. I routinely fall into the trap of becoming too self-conscious and aware of what other people think of me. One of the things I like to do is compare what I'm doing in a situation to what one of my good guy friends would do. My friend has a lot going for him - 6'3", and...

You can do it if you're obviously being C/F. But electronic communication tends to be misinterpreted more often than not, so you have to already have solid rapport established with the female.

There's always a pretty diverse group of people at Wal-Mart here. While a good percentage of the people are backwoods rednecks, there are also a lot of college students and other more professional looking people from time to time. Yeah I totally understand how that works, because I've...

Ok so I remember reading somewhere, possibly in the DJ Bible, that to get a really good haircut you have to go "where the chicks go." So basically this morning I went to a salon recommended by my sister and got a great haircut for about $20. I had let it grow for like 3 months after buzzing...

Holy smokes...talk about a need for no-contact. She is pretty much abusing you while attempting to get a cheap ego-stroke out of the scenario. She's making an ordeal of you being a man and not supplicating like the weak AFC she expected you to be. Keep it up dude. Don't even waste your time...

Is she really acting like she doesn't want it though? Because it sounds like she's doing a lot of talking about it. And remember, you can't judge chicks by what they say (because us savvy guys know it's 99% bull). I would rethink your evaluation of whether or not you're in the friend-zone...

I turned 21 last September, and from then until November I would go out with the guys at my school and hit up the bar about once a week. I can't stand the taste of beer so I usually got hard liquor. Then on Thanksgiving I think I almost died of alcohol poisoning, and since then I vowed to take...

I was on a kayaking date with a chick and she kept suggesting that we check out what was on the side of the riverbank area (when there was obviously nothing but secluded woods). She also blatantly said "I feel like doing something spontaneous tonight...what time do you have to work tomorrow?"...

In my relationship experiences, No-contact hasn't really worked, simply because the reason things fell apart between us was due to a new guy on the scene. I'm the last thing on her mind while he's wining, dining, and 69'ing her.

Look, you have to be REALLY careful with those kinds of messages. Electronic communication takes all the tone-of-voice out of the equation. And that usually leads to bad things. You sound a little like me in that you can be pretty funny/flirty/sarcastic in person. That's all well and good...