Does anyone else here not drink alcohol?

[sebastian11]

Has the fact that you dont drink caused any problems for your game? When i was single and dating around a lot this past summer i noticed that some girls were really turned off by the fact that i dont drink or do any drugs, as if it implied that im not outgoing and not a fun person.

 

[SamMalone]

I think if you don't drink or smoke at all the party girls will think you are uptight. On the other end I used to be an alcoholic and during my worst drinking year (2007) I got no *****.

Don't drink if you don't want to. It causes too many problems and mistakes. Why is it that you don't drink though? You didn't say.

 

[sebastian11]

I think if you don't drink or smoke at all the party girls will think you are uptight. On the other end I used to be an alcoholic and during my worst drinking year (2007) I got no *****.

Don't drink if you don't want to. It causes too many problems and mistakes. Why is it that you don't drink though? You didn't say.

yeah thats exactly how it comes off, as me being uptight. I dont drink because i just never really enjoyed the effects of it, plus i work really hard to stay in good shape and i see drinking as being pretty counterproductive to the work i do in the gym.

 

[sebastian11]

i had a few drunken hookups but they werent anything that i couldnt have pulled sober, the problem could be that i just cant handle alcohol too well, i go from sober to piss drunk after just a couple of shots.

 

[Wasabi_Master]

Yeah i am with Sebastian11 on this one, I work out like 6-7 days a week and as a direct result associate alcohol with negativity and counter productivity.
I think the only thing that works for me where i dont feel bad drinking at a bar or social event is that i know i will hit the gym the next day and cardio my a$$ off until i burn off the calories i gained drinking...

 

[prairiedog24]

I guess it depends on the targets...

a lot of girls are afraid of what alcohol consumption can do to a guy. I used to not drink at all, and only in the last year or two (I'm 25) have I started having a beer now and then to try to help me gain weight. After reading a book about alcohol addictions the girl I'm seeing actually confronted me about even my incredibly minimal drinking with questions like "but why risk it?". (we're talking maybe one or two beers a week average. I've only been "intoxicated" twice in my life, and even that wasn't too heavy)

This girl isn't religious either. She usually "goes out" at least once a week. She just has seen what alcohol can do, so it scares her. I totally respect that. I'd much rather be too careful on one side than the other. Few things are less attractive to me than intoxicated females, especially if it's a regular thing. So the fact that she doesn't drink is a bonus to me.

Plus I'm a cheapskate

 

[SamMalone]

From experience, if you have one or two beers a night twice a week, it's not going to hurt your workout/body. Your body won't need to strain to process that many drinks. Maybe sipping on one or two beers while out a club could help your image if you are that concerned about boning these chicks.

 

[Wasabi_Master]

IDK, at a club i am more reluctant to drink hard alcohol when @ a club. I found that vodka + diet coke or better bacardi + diet coke is under 100 calories ...and its 40% so after 2-3 im good!

 

[pointbreak23]

I guess it depends on the targets...

a lot of girls are afraid of what alcohol consumption can do to a guy. I used to not drink at all, and only in the last year or two (I'm 25) have I started having a beer now and then to try to help me gain weight. After reading a book about alcohol addictions the girl I'm seeing actually confronted me about even my incredibly minimal drinking with questions like "but why risk it?". (we're talking maybe one or two beers a week average. I've only been "intoxicated" twice in my life, and even that wasn't too heavy)

This girl isn't religious either. She usually "goes out" at least once a week. She just has seen what alcohol can do, so it scares her. I totally respect that. I'd much rather be too careful on one side than the other. Few things are less attractive to me than intoxicated females, especially if it's a regular thing. So the fact that she doesn't drink is a bonus to me.

Plus I'm a cheapskate

sounds like a good set up for you in many ways lol congrats

 

[thedude4242]

I dont drink at all. some girls say you dont ever drink. I say I dont have to drink to have a fun time. I am having more fun than the drink people. because you choose not to drink, which is healthy dont let someone put their alcohol drinking bull**** on you. people say man I am getting fvcked up tonight and try to be someone their not. fvck I am not the person who only is fun weekend nights when I am drunk.

 

[Duracell_Bunny]

I usually have more success if I'm not drinking, more numbers off the serious and protective of their freinds type. Its like they will be more open to you for being as soba as they are while yours and her freinds are acting like kids.

At the same time the outgoing ones get suprised. It's like they don't wanna have they excuse of both being drunk if anything happens.

 

[bookman]

I don't drink alcohol, my family actualy makes and sells alcohol, but we do not consume it I don't smoke either, some see that as beign uptight, but my circle of friends and people I am interested in usualy do not smoke or drink either

smokers are drinkers are a turn off for me in the first place
and what is so cool about taking in somethign that will shorten your life and make you an addict anyway? ( no offense to anyone, I am a caffeine addict after all, I don't think it is cool, why do people who like alcohol think that is cool?)

 

[WhitePimp]

I rarely drink anymore, unless it's a special occasion (New Year's, Thanksgiving, house party when I'm sleeping over, work, etc...). It lost its appeal. If I do go to a bar, I'll usually nurse one drink all night or drink wine

 

[zekko]

Tell her you're the designated driver?
Then offer to drive her home?

Drink Red Bull?
Just nurse a beer all night if you want to fit in?

I don't hardly drink at all these days. I used to in my younger party days but now I don't feel like it and I don't care what anybody else thinks so I don't. Some girls are going to be disappointed because some girls' lives revolve around alcohol. If you don't like to drink they're probably not the best girls for you to hook up with anyway. My girlfriend likes that I don't drink, makes her think I have my sh!t together or something.

 

[Demystify]

I'm a guy who has tried alcohol to improve my game in the past and it hasn't helped at all. It does make me more outgoing, but it doesn't make me good with women if that makes sense. Like if I'm drunk I will go talk to girl, but I'll just try to go straight for sex. So I won't build attraction, I won't neg, or I won't do kino. In other words, I'll forget all the steps in the process and just shoot for the last step without doing any of the preceding steps.

Bottom line: Alcohol has been a big game killer for me. It has made me more of an extrovert but it hasn't gotten me laid at all.

 

[J. Darko]

I don't drink. People hate it, because if they don't know you yet, you will come across as weird, boring, politically correct.

Best cure is to be confident about it. While they sit on their lazy ass on a couch, I lift weights. So that's why I rather have a glass of water. If you don't like it, fock you.

 

[JCballin88]

I turned 21 last September, and from then until November I would go out with the guys at my school and hit up the bar about once a week. I can't stand the taste of beer so I usually got hard liquor.

Then on Thanksgiving I think I almost died of alcohol poisoning, and since then I vowed to take time off. I haven't had a drop since then, and honestly I've felt great. One of the big turn-offs to me about drinking is the headache the following morning and swollen sappy tongue (and yes I would drink a ton of water before bed too). I also like to work out, so that probably helps my new sobriety cause as well.

This is the realization that I've noticed since I started observing my friends on a "drinking" night. They get all pumped up, talk about "how many chicks they're going to hit on," etc. What actually ends up happening is that they all sit glumly around a crammed table casting shifty glances at the 3-4 hot girls in the bar, nervously cracking jokes about what they would do to those girls. None of them have the balls to actually approach, although they talk a huge game.

At the end of the night they come back empty-handed, moody, dehydrated, and more importantly $15 poorer. I realized it's just not worth it.