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  1. J

    Equipment to throw a good party?

    I'm glad you mentioned this, because I was just about to. DEFINITELY invite more chicks than guys. Every party I've been to this year has been a huge sausage-fest. And those do suck: Here's some features of a bad party: -15 guys in backwards hats leaning awkwardly against the wall...
  2. J

    If you are over 5'10" and physically fit: Click here.

    At 5'11" I'm feel right in the middle of the height spectrum among my friends. A lot of them have me by a few inches, but I'm also taller than the same amount by a few inches. I try to make up for having average height by hitting the gym hard. Last 16 months I've been able to put on a hearty...
  3. J

    Lean, mean, muscle machine....

    Over the last 16 months of hitting the gym hard and eating I went from about 175 pounds to 200 (I'm 5'11") A lot of my guy friends here at college have told me how much more ripped/jacked/bigger I am, etc, but I have a problem of always seeing that "scrawny me" in the mirror. It's only when I...
  4. J

    Why Did I Get This reaction from a car passing by (posting from the road)

    I think a lot of chicks just decide to do this spontaneously for fun when emotions are running high. Usually it's not because they like you, they just want to see what kind of reaction they'll get by doing something unexpected.
  5. J

    routines. pebbles. conversation fillers

    Sounds like a lot to remember...a lot of girls I know would be lost/confused by question 4. But I suppose if you can pull it off you'd get a really good reaction.
  6. J

    Any basketball players in here? Let's talk legs...

    So about a year ago I realized that while my upper body and arms were decent-looking, I really needed to incorporate some serious leg work to maximize my body. Here at college I like to play a lot of recreational basketball to help me stay in shape on non-lifting days. One of my goals last...
  7. J

    Virgins: A Pictorial Representation

    I'm just saying that if you have the capability to grow a beard, it doesn't hurt to show off that manly side of you. Some of my cool guy friends can't do it, but they don't have that "I'm a virgin" look plastered all over their bare, shiny faces. These guys look just like the students that...
  8. J

    success story: GF broke up with me, I turned it around

    Score one for the dudes! The only thing I would have done differently is wasting time by going to the whole party. Although because it WAS her special day, she probably was feeling anxious about needing to have that "talk with you," so it probably wasn't much fun for her either. Loved the...
  9. J

    Virgins: A Pictorial Representation

    Guys, this is why we grow beards.
  10. J

    It sounds kind of juvenile but..

    I don't think beer pong is all that important to ultimate success with women. If everyone's drinking anyways, of course playing beer pong is going to be fun for the people involved. If you're bad at it, you can just feign being drunk (although that might be the case anyways). If you're good...
  11. J

    Beards?

    I agree that having facial hair seems to be better, at least from a college observance standpoint. One of the reasons I like to grow it out and do cool styles with it is because it now grows fairly fast on me. If I don't shave after 2 days I'll have noticeable stubble. After 4-5 days I can...
  12. J

    Help me sleep with my roommate

    I think if you are really serious about this, you probably just need to get drunk with her or something. If you guys have a little party or whatever and things happen, you can MAYBE get away as writing it off as drunken fun and then move on. But like others have said, it's not a good idea.
  13. J

    Receiving text later in the day

    You need to be careful about giving all your "power" away. With you initiating everything, SHE is the one who controls the entire frame. She can play mind games with you by not replying/answering, and seeing how you are going to REACT. My advice would be to play it cool for a few days and lay...
  14. J

    Blueprint Decoded

    I'm about 1/4 through Blueprint Decoded. My struggle has just been setting aside time to listen to it during a very hectic college life right now. I should get close to finishing it this weekend when I'll be in the car for about 8 hours traveling. According to Durden, it starts to really...
  15. J

    How To Approach a Girl In a Club With O.A.T - Field Report

    In this topic: the 3-second rule gets blown to shreds. I always thought that rule was pretty stupid.
  16. J

    Can ppl who have been friends for years get into a relationship?

    One of my friends here in college has been in this close circle of friends (3 other guys and 2 girls) that hang out together a lot. They all met freshman year and have hung out ever since (now they are seniors). In my casual observation of them, it seemed like none of them were ever going to...
  17. J

    opinion on a tshirt

    It may not be totally immature, but certainly doesn't come across as classy. I would say there's plenty of unique and conversation-starting T-shirts out there that don't degrade women to a trashy level.
  18. J

    Need help getting over my bench press plateau

    So back in December I finally hit that tantalizing bench number of 225 pounds. I got about 4 solid reps in. Now it's 10.5 months later, and that's still as much as I usually can get on a normal day. This is the kind of set I do: Set 1: 135 lbs, 10-12 reps Set 2: 185 lbs, 6-8 reps Set...
  19. J

    Hello, Friends. I, JLay87, have a confession...

    I usually leave my phone back in my dorm room if I'm going to the bar here in town. If I know I'm going to be drinking at least moderately, then I probably shouldn't be using my phone anyways. So I just don't bring it.
  20. J

    Cruel women who deserve to burn

    This sounds exactly like a situation that happened to me this summer. I met a girl who worked in a different part of the building than me. I would flirt casually with her, but didn't take it really far because I had heard that she had a somewhat-crazy boyfriend. She broke up with him shortly...
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