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    Is this girl blowing me off?

    I ignore her for a week and go to some bars and have some fun. Pull a few girls and go home with one of them. It amuses me how you can go further in a few hours with some girls than you can on a few dates with others. But for some reason when girls have low interest or play hard to get I become...
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    Lose interest in girls after sleeping with them

    For some reason every time I sleep with a girl I lose interest in her. It is not even as if I am just looking to sleep with them. When I date a girl it is because I am interested in her and hope that I will end up liking her and that it will develop into a relationship. I am trying to work...
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    Is this girl blowing me off?

    Yeah girl_in_a_boy_forum. That was pretty much what I figured. She does have papers due and exams in a week or so. So if she was busy I would understand that. And we have not been dating all that long so if she felt she wanted to spend what little time she did have free with friends that...
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    Is this girl blowing me off?

    Your advice sounds good Thomas. Ill try and ignore her this week. Would it be a good idea to break off contact compeletely? Usually we chat a couple of times a week on instant messenger. She seems the passive type who does not have to ask guys out on dates. But presumabely if she is...
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    Is this girl blowing me off?

    Ive had a few dates with this girl and things are going ok. I ask her out earlier this week and she says she has some papers due. Im like ok. She aske me if i am busy at the weekend. I say no. She says she will let me know if she has time during the week but if not she will make time for me at...
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    Living at home.....

    OK. Im living at home right now. Just graduated from college and while my job pays ok, most of my income goes towards paying off my loan leaving little to afford to pay rent. I should have the loans down to a reasonable level by end of this year but till then need some advice on how to DJ...
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    Girl counteroffers but in a *****y way

    Sorry maybe Im reading too much into it. I guess its just the way she said "Fair?" after her counteroffer.
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    Girl counteroffers but in a *****y way

    I ask out this girl, we've been on three dates so far. Her interest level is not all that high but so far she's been agreeing to go on dates and while things are moving kinda slow she seems to like it when I kino her and when I kiss her she kisses me back and smiles. Anyway I suggest another...
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    Trouble escalating after first kiss

    That sounds like an ace plan 2Cool. When you say pick the moment what do you mean? Usually with girls we talk and then there is a pause in the conversation and we look into each others and they smile shyly and it is obvious that it is the right time to kiss her. But if she is still talking...
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    Trouble escalating after first kiss

    Yeah. I thought about that. Ive not had a huge amount of success in the past with movie dates. Although it is a good opportunity to get some kino in (putting my arm round her and resting my hand on her knee and holding hands) most girls seem to want to watch the movie rather than make-out...
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    Trouble escalating after first kiss

    Hmm not sure that would work with her. I think it is combination of passivity and moderate interest. Most of the girls I date are forward and have high interest, which makes it seriously easy for me and after kiss them and they figure Im into them they throw themselves at me. The others have...
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    Trouble escalating after first kiss

    OK so Im dating this girl and having trouble escalating things. We've had three dates by now and Im not getting very far. She is just very passive. I've got some decent kino in and she seems to enjoy it. Stuff like holding her hands in mine across a table in a bar while talking, playing with her...
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    Msn

    I occasionally meet girls via the net so start off chatting to them on MSN before arranging a meeting. But after we've met and Im dating Im confused what to do about the MSN thing. Im usually not doing anything a couple of evenings a week and spend a couple of hours online those days and...
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    Is this girl playing me?

    OK. That is pretty much what I thought. I do not think she has sex issues. I do however get the impression she is has a low opinion of men in general as she mentioned that she thinks most guys are only interested in one thing and lie to get it. God knows how that came up in conversation. But...
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    Is this girl playing me?

    Ive been dating this girl for a few weeks and she keeps giving me mixed signals. None of our dates seem to go all that well. Conversation does not really flow and I am not getting any real strong indicators of interest. Usually when a girl likes me she makes it really obvious: stands too...
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    Up to date : The Uk.

    Sure, I am in London all this summer from June and would be up for going on the pull with other London DJs. I am 21.
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    How to get physical with women?

    I have been on a fair few dates with girls over the last year or two, and do very well at initially attracting them and charming them (I am a very good conversationalist and very witty) but I stumble whenever it gets to the physical stage where I am expected to make a move......as I have very...
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    How do you "sweep girls off their feet"

    I have been chatting to this girl who I have been on a couple of dates with and on two occasions she has asked whether I sweep girls off their feet, and commented on how she longs to be swept off her feet. Now I am not stupid...and know she is effectively saying...sweep me off my feet...but not...
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    Balding......help!!!!!

    My hair is thinning incredibly and while not receding at all....it is very fine and all I have to do is lift a hair and my scalp shows..It is not that noticeable...but still a bit of a *****. Unfortunately my hair does not lend itself well to being completely shaved as my ears stick out a bit...
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    Too polite, compassionate and sensitive

    Hi Jariel. I too am very polite, sensitive and generally look like a nice guy. I flirt, make sexual innuendos and kino girls...but they still have me in their mind as an innocent boy. I am finding I have to curb my natural generosity and niceness to people until they have deserved...
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