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Thanks for the feedback. I'll stick to approaches on the subway, on the streets, the park and fairs until I build up more experience so I can approach smoothly. If Im creeping them out it would only be because I still have a little bit of anxiety when I approach which will disappear as I do more...

Thanks for the feedback guys. I got into day game because of the Paul Janka phenomenen on the internet. Im still learning so there is probably an element of awkwardness to my approaches that is setting things off. You make a great point about trying to get some form of non-verbal...

A few points: 1. We are not talking 3 million. It is an auction. The total sum of the bids may total 3 million but as far as I read it the leading bid at the moment is only a couple hundred thousand. 2. If you are a typical AFC rich guy the chances are growing up you sucked with women so...

It is about quantity or quality. You obviously prefer quality and there is nothing wrong with that. In fact I think it is more refined than being one of these guys that taps everything that moves. I also notice you have a precise physical type. I think that is probably the real problem...

Ive given up alcohol so the bar/club scene is becoming less appealing so I have branched out into trying to meet girls during the day. I'm particularly fond of bookshops because I love to read and my ideal girl would be beautiful and intellectual. Unfortunately I had the shock of my life...

This really is playing with fire. Maybe 20 years ago most sexually active girls were on the Pill but there are a sizeable proportion of girls who hate the side effects and do not like their hormones being messed with. Moreover even the ones that are on the pill: how many girls have the...

I thought about putting this in Health and Fitness but lets face it this is definitely a mature man issue. So my hair has been thinning horribly in recent years and Im fooling no-one. I have pretty soft features so Ive always looked best with medium length hair which gives me a clean cut...

I read more and more about the health benefits of cardio: keeps depression at bay, oxygenates the body, boosts sexual function, reduces the risk of diabetes and heart problems and so much more. But somehow I cannot motivate myself to do it and even when I get myself on a treadmill, an...

Yeah I laugh it off and I will start using DJ Damage's line. I think it could be something to do with not showing enough sexual interest or not being dominant enough. Maybe for whatever reason they do not feel wanted enough and rather than think they are not attractive enough to protect...

Quite a few times in the past girls I've been seeing, girls I interact with ask me if Im gay and when I say I am not they never seem convinced. This continues even after Ive kissed them, slept with them etc. If I ask them why they give answers like: "You are always dressed so well", "You...

Well we talked again with her again phoning from holiday. She said she was talking to two guys from the dating website we met on and they wanted to meet her but she was not sure she wanted anyone right now and besides she already liked me a lot. She said she already could see things in me...

Well she got back from holiday and we hung out. Again she asked me what I was looking for so I told her straight that I want to get to know her better before making any sort of commitment, but I was not against commitment per se. She said so you want to date and wait and see? I agreed and she...

classy broadside, she likes to go out and drink but i wouldn't say she is a party girl. She has a very well paid job and is responsible. From what i gather she has been in relationships most of her adult life. She is four months out of a two year relationship but the guy is a total AFC and keeps...

Well yeah. She is on holiday for a week. So I'm getting a bit of a break and getting some new numbers to play with. But Im figuring out how to play it when she comes back. My idea so far is that when she tells me she is back I leave it a few days before asking her out. See if she asks me...

Re her age. Im not going to marry the girl. She is wordly, well educated, doesn't feel the need to party every night of the week, and a real woman. For me that is a nice change from the silly party girls I used to meet when I hit the bars. She also looks five years younger and is in fantastic...

I'm an introvert so making friends has never come easily to me. I had friends at school and university because everyone does and we used to study together, watch movies, go out, etc. It is becoming harder and harder to keep up with these friends as they start families/relationships, move away...

Im dating this girl who is 29 and going to be 30 in a month or so and seems to be freaking out about it. She's got nothing to worry about because she looks 25 at most and hasn't had any kids or anything to ruin her body which is very together. But clearly her age is an issue. We had a couple...

Well Id pretty much given up and detached myself emotionally. So on Monday she texts me again asking me to call her that evening. I ignore it. A few hours later she rings me and I tell her I'm kinda busy and can't talk right now and hang up. Rather than saying it like I was pissed with her I...

Hey SoCal i think that might work. After talking to me Sunday night on the phone she obviously liked it because tonight she was texting me saying she was just about to fall asleep and if I liked I could call her. I was awake but ignored it. Half hour later she is sending me another text with...

Great insights and you are right actions speak louder than words. The only thing I would say is that I didn't try to sleep with her because I was intoxicated. We were half-naked and fooling around and really if my equipment had been working I would have fancied my chances. I think if our...